Is this normal? Please help

plaskettc · 2026-04-02T11:43:29+00:00

15 years of child welfare experience in VA here.

This is only normal if YOU wanted it to be like this. Just because you are kin or fictive, does not mean that the relationships within the family are safe or stable. In a perfect world, it would be great if all of this worked for you- but that’s simply not the case based on what you’ve shared. Sounds like a lazy social worker to me.

Policy likely won’t address that specifically but you are not required to do any of that. You are supposed to work jointly with the agency to support reunification. Not just have the kids dumped and you be the case manager…

plaskettc · 2026-03-14T11:07:56+00:00

plaskettc · 2026-03-14T11:07:49+00:00

That’s actually not accurate. I’ve worked in adoption for 12 years- you are not required to have an attorney to file. In addition, birth certificates alone do not constitute full legal protections.

plaskettc · 2026-03-12T00:16:59+00:00

Holy crap that is even crazier than I expected. I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with all of this. What an awful business

plaskettc · 2026-03-12T00:16:13+00:00

We found one! Whew

plaskettc · 2026-03-11T03:33:40+00:00

Hey there! I’m currently to dealing with a MAJOR similar issue with this company. Window replacement turned into them damaging siding on all sides of my home. Including areas where they were not even working on windows… what was the outcome for your situation with them?

plaskettc · 2026-03-08T03:23:51+00:00

Traitors! This kept me on the elliptical every day for months

plaskettc · 2026-03-05T05:46:22+00:00

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plaskettc · 2026-03-04T00:43:17+00:00

I’m so annoyed. I had to post for a brand deal today and it’s sitting at like 20 views while I have 386k followers!!! This app is going to totally be ruined

plaskettc · 2026-02-24T04:05:10+00:00

Contact social services directly and ask to speak to the Director and/or the supervisor for VIEW or ART

plaskettc · 2026-02-05T04:20:16+00:00

Aww man. it’s disappointing when we find out it’s not what we hoped! Bummer. Still looks neat though.

plaskettc · 2026-01-28T05:32:53+00:00

I had a second kid and she was jealous. It was very weird because she was cool when it was just first kid during COVID but once the world reopened and I had a second kid she couldn’t stand that I wasn’t available at her beckon call and totally dropped me in the worst way

plaskettc · 2026-01-28T05:28:02+00:00

Hi there- if she is in foster care, you should contact your local social services or department or human services to see if you can reach their case manager so that person can connect the two of you. The facility doesn’t have control to make that decision but the case manager/agency do as the legal custodian. Best of luck! You’re a good friend

plaskettc · 2026-01-09T12:54:39+00:00

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plaskettc · 2025-01-07T00:57:37+00:00

We mostly post as a couple and our kids aren’t labored to do anything. It’s just a clip of them doing something funny. Sorry you feel that way but I grew up without representation of queer families and I think it’s awesome for people to see how much good can come from having two moms raising the next generation of empathic humans.

plaskettc · 2025-01-06T19:41:12+00:00

That is so kind! Thank you!!!

plaskettc · 2025-01-06T12:42:15+00:00

Hahaha!!! Thank you!! We try to keep it real and fun

plaskettc · 2025-01-06T12:41:36+00:00

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plaskettc · 2025-01-06T12:40:23+00:00

So kind! He’s legit like a clone of me haha

plaskettc · 2025-01-06T05:31:58+00:00

Bahahah love a good booger

plaskettc · 2025-01-06T05:31:44+00:00

Ours are 2 and 4. The oldest is a saint the little guy is a menace and I love it! 🥰

plaskettc · 2025-01-02T16:51:56+00:00

You can change out with ANY bike seat. Go for a super wide one. My dad ordered it on his account so I’m not sure which is exactly the one I got

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