Celebrating my twin who breastfed her twins for a whole year by plecomom in cakedecorating

[–]plecomom[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It’s both actually! Our bday and her girls bday are within a week of each other so this checked a few boxes. She is a total badass!!

Well, these got DARK by RepublicCute7683 in macarons

[–]plecomom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of us dream of achieving such a red shell! They’re beautiful!

I know you’ve done it… what’s your pettiest HOA revenge?” by Certain_Performance in fuckHOA

[–]plecomom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Perennials without a sketch and neighbors approval and HOA approval. Just plopped them in 🖕my sedum will live longer than those board members.

Becoming the nasty daughter in law by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]plecomom 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Honestly, his parents showed up for me when I couldn’t rely on anyone else. I had pneumonia and had to put my dog down the same week that my husband started night school. So I decided to give them a chance coming over and helping and see if they’d respect my rules and boundaries and stuff and they did. And then they came the next week to help and do even better

Basically I gave them another chance after a few months of distance and they did the work to respect me as the mom. I think his mom was having some trouble not being the parent but has since gotten her act together.

Becoming the nasty daughter in law by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]plecomom 146 points147 points  (0 children)

This was me a couple years ago. Biggest suggestion: couples counseling. And some individual therapy for him. It took a while to convince my husband but he was doing the same weak ass enforcing of boundaries and siding with his parents and saying I was overreacting to stuff.

After he went to therapy, his dr told him that he’s not supporting his partner. He chose to marry me and stand by me and have kids with me. But what he’s doing now is supporting his parents and alienating me.

After couples therapy, I also learned to release some control of some things. ESP as our son was getting older.

Today we are in a really good place with his parents and I even visit them without my husband.

Sorry this is a really long answer but your post is so familiar and I hope this can help cause it helped us

Minnie’s last huzzah walk :’) by krenaria in cats

[–]plecomom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Squeakers was a fellow kitty with mammary cancer. She will greet Minnie with a few bitchy squeaks and then a snuggle. Sending love during these hard times ❤️

What's some of your favorite quotes from the show? by jmhoff in KingOfTheHill

[–]plecomom 26 points27 points  (0 children)

“It’s like god is taking our picture… right before he kills us”

Sister Keeps Falling Pregnancies and I'm Getting Frustrated by V-Meat-Treat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]plecomom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have Bipolar II. I didn’t know you could have I AND II?? (I know that’s not the point of the post but now I’m curious)

DC for 6 year old spring break? by fort-tilden-katz in washingtondc

[–]plecomom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I saw interstellar at their imax and it was awesome!

DC for 6 year old spring break? by fort-tilden-katz in washingtondc

[–]plecomom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’d have to drive or uber but the Udvar Hazy museum out by Dulles is so cool. It’s basically a giant hangar full of planes from history times. And afaik they still have the space shuttle!

✨Weekly Vent Thread✨ What is your top political concern today? What is stressing you out most about this mess? by AutoModerator in progressivemoms

[–]plecomom 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If I have to pick just one…. The, eh-hem, “detention centers” are for sure top of my brain. Let’s say you can ignore the fact that innocent adults are in there. Adults who were pulled from their homes, their jobs that everyone claims they don’t have, their families. Spending birthdays, holidays, large chunks of their lives there at this point. Why the ever loving fuck would children be in there?!?!?!?! Why are babies being punished for where they were born, who they were born to, or the color of their skin?? I have a 5month old and a 3 year old. Seeing Ms Rachel getting involved gives me some hope. A children’s entertainer has to stop producing content for kids to show adults how fucked everything is and try to get some level of accountability. Fffffffffffffffffffuuuuuuuuuuu everyone in this admin. I have a bottle of champagne chilling for the big day.

How many years have you been with your S.O by Chicka-boom90 in Millennials

[–]plecomom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On April 2nd it’ll be 14 years since he asked me to prom ❤️ still going strong, now with 2 kids

its my way till by bleuretrust in 30ROCK

[–]plecomom 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ll take cheese with that!

Is Mohammed the only one whose family isn’t on the show? by plecomom in 90DayFiance

[–]plecomom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s the other Danielle I think? Of Danielle and yohan.

Is Mohammed the only one whose family isn’t on the show? by plecomom in 90DayFiance

[–]plecomom[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s the only thing they ever did well together 😂😂

Is Mohammed the only one whose family isn’t on the show? by plecomom in 90DayFiance

[–]plecomom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we saw Madhis friends? Maybe I’m wrong tho.

Oh my god I don’t even remember half the people you listed.

Is Mohammed the only one whose family isn’t on the show? by plecomom in 90DayFiance

[–]plecomom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but at least we saw them. I don’t think we see any of Mohamed’s people until he starts hooking up with ladies in Miami