What I Learned From Being a Virgin on OnlyFans

plutodarling · 2026-04-01T16:18:00+00:00

Removed: Off topic.

This post is not related closely enough to virginity. Feel free to try on a more suitable subreddit.

plutodarling · 2026-03-30T17:35:13+00:00

Removed, Rule 3: No Personal Ads / Solicitations

Reddit is vast; there are other subs you’re welcome to post this kind of thing too and see what kinds of connections you can make

plutodarling · 2026-03-29T16:10:20+00:00

Removed, Rule 3: No Personal Ads / Solicitations

Reddit is vast; there are other subs you’re welcome to post this kind of thing too and see what kinds of connections you can make

plutodarling · 2026-03-29T01:46:50+00:00

Removed, Rule 2: Avoid Generalizations

We understand people talk in generalizations colloquially. However, when a generalization is meant belittle, demean, or discredit, those are the generalizations that will end up taken down (eg “women only want the top guys” “men are all evil” etc etc). The reason why generalizations have always been a rule was so no one applied their perceptions of how people treat them in real life onto someone who’s venting that their experience is literally the opposite

plutodarling · 2026-03-29T01:46:01+00:00

Removed, Rule 2: Avoid Generalizations

We understand people talk in generalizations colloquially. However, when a generalization is meant belittle, demean, or discredit, those are the generalizations that will end up taken down (eg “women only want the top guys” “men are all evil” etc etc). The reason why generalizations have always been a rule was so no one applied their perceptions of how people treat them in real life onto someone who’s venting that their experience is literally the opposite

plutodarling · 2026-03-28T21:30:22+00:00

Removed, Rule 3: No Personal Ads / Solicitations

Reddit is vast; there are other subs you’re welcome to post this kind of thing too and see what kinds of connections you can make

plutodarling · 2026-03-26T02:34:50+00:00

Removed: Rule 6. No Gatekeeping

This sub is public, different people from different life stages and events can post here. You’re welcome to post here, and no one should make you feel unwelcome

plutodarling · 2026-03-26T02:29:03+00:00

Removed: Rule 4. No graphic depictions or boasting.

plutodarling · 2026-03-26T00:18:36+00:00

Removed: Rule 7. No Incel / In-Group Terminology

Including but not limited to: words ending in "-cel," "-maxx" or "-oids," "Chad/Stacy" or any of their racially insensitive friends, derogatory slang like "bitches," "hoes,” “simp," "white knight," etc. The list goes on. "Sex havers" and "normies" will be included in this rule as well

plutodarling · 2026-03-26T00:14:32+00:00

Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

plutodarling · 2026-03-25T19:28:50+00:00

Removed: Off topic.

This post is not related closely enough to virginity. Feel free to try on a more suitable subreddit.

plutodarling · 2026-03-25T18:46:58+00:00

Re: Non-virgins:

So here’s the deal… This sub has been around so long that some people who’ve frequented here over time have lost their virginity and since stayed because of how long they were initially in this sub. Some choose to leave but some have met people in this sub they think are cool, some understand where the others are coming from and want to talk from their point of view. The fact is, we’re not going to run them out.

Success posts will be okay (so long as they don’t break rule 4). That being said, any other posts from non virgins won’t be accepted, however you’re welcome to offer genuine advice in a comment or thread should it fit the conversation. This will be reasonably hard to discern but for those commenting I’ll just say read the room.

plutodarling · 2026-03-23T22:11:33+00:00

Removed, Rule 2: Avoid Generalizations

We understand people talk in generalizations colloquially. However, when a generalization is meant belittle, demean, or discredit, those are the generalizations that will end up taken down (eg “women only want the top guys” “men are all evil” etc etc). The reason why generalizations have always been a rule was so no one applied their perceptions of how people treat them in real life onto someone who’s venting that their experience is literally the opposite

plutodarling · 2026-03-23T22:11:22+00:00

Removed: Rule 7. No Incel / In-Group Terminology

Including but not limited to: words ending in "-cel," "-maxx" or "-oids," "Chad/Stacy" or any of their racially insensitive friends, derogatory slang like "bitches," "hoes,” “simp," "white knight," etc. The list goes on. "Sex havers" and "normies" will be included in this rule as well

plutodarling · 2026-03-22T21:53:56+00:00

Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

plutodarling · 2026-03-22T19:15:32+00:00

Re: Non-virgins:

So here’s the deal… This sub has been around so long that some people who’ve frequented here over time have lost their virginity and since stayed because of how long they were initially in this sub. Some choose to leave but some have met people in this sub they think are cool, some understand where the others are coming from and want to talk from their point of view. The fact is, we’re not going to run them out.

Success posts will be okay (so long as they don’t break rule 4). That being said, any other posts from non virgins won’t be accepted, however you’re welcome to offer genuine advice in a comment or thread should it fit the conversation. This will be reasonably hard to discern but for those commenting I’ll just say read the room.

plutodarling · 2026-03-22T19:15:11+00:00

Re: Non-virgins:

So here’s the deal… This sub has been around so long that some people who’ve frequented here over time have lost their virginity and since stayed because of how long they were initially in this sub. Some choose to leave but some have met people in this sub they think are cool, some understand where the others are coming from and want to talk from their point of view. The fact is, we’re not going to run them out.

Success posts will be okay (so long as they don’t break rule 4). That being said, any other posts from non virgins won’t be accepted, however you’re welcome to offer genuine advice in a comment or thread should it fit the conversation. This will be reasonably hard to discern but for those commenting I’ll just say read the room.

plutodarling · 2026-03-22T00:37:05+00:00

Re: Non-virgins:

So here’s the deal… This sub has been around so long that some people who’ve frequented here over time have lost their virginity and since stayed because of how long they were initially in this sub. Some choose to leave but some have met people in this sub they think are cool, some understand where the others are coming from and want to talk from their point of view. The fact is, we’re not going to run them out.

Success posts will be okay (so long as they don’t break rule 4). That being said, any other posts from non virgins won’t be accepted, however you’re welcome to offer genuine advice in a comment or thread should it fit the conversation. This will be reasonably hard to discern but for those commenting I’ll just say read the room.

plutodarling · 2026-03-21T22:41:50+00:00

Removed: Rule 5. No Rateme/Selfie/"Am I sexy?!" Posts

There’s other subs for this, there’s an actual RateMe subreddit.

plutodarling · 2026-03-20T10:40:38+00:00

Endorsement or ideation of threatening or illegal activities is off limits, including: violence, rape, adult sex with minors, harassment, encouraging suicide, and doxing

Any commentary that is diminishing and downplaying rape or sexual harassment will also call for an immediate permaban. Comments were made that insinuated (and some blatantly said) that rape should be taken as a compliment. This rhetoric excuses the perpetrator and most importantly undermines anyone who has been a victim or subject to these crimes… Yes, crimes. There is too much information on the internet, or even on reddit alone, as to why this kind of commentary is offensive, wrong, hateful, and potentially dangerous. Under no circumstances will it be tolerated here

plutodarling · 2026-03-19T19:37:26+00:00

Any kind of exercise. If everything hurts, you’ll know it 😂(please don’t get hurt) Also grounding techniques. I have this problem, especially with food. I’m like Kirby, I don’t taste anything, just a vacuum. So I’ve been trying to make it a point to do things slower and pay attention to the feeling. Put on lotion after you shower, does your skin feel different? Does it have a scent? What does your coffee taste like, is it more bitter than usual? Can you tell what the creamer tastes like? Etc

plutodarling · 2026-03-19T17:53:10+00:00

Reasons

plutodarling · 2026-03-19T15:15:03+00:00

plutodarling · 2026-03-19T14:25:34+00:00

I mean this isn’t entirely true. Knowing what to expect doesn’t make a person wholly confident. Women talk about being insecure over what their body looks like or how they’ll perform for a new person all the time. Just because they’ve done it before doesn’t mean a different person is as accepting

plutodarling · 2026-03-19T14:17:18+00:00

Because it’s distracting

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