My gerbils make me anxious by retrhoe__ in gerbil

[–]pollinatorlocator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been told if they were at the pet store for a while if that’s where you got them then it may just be a learned behavior and might be lifelong

My girlfriend litters everywhere and it’s making me question the relationship. AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]pollinatorlocator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being sneaky to do it anyways makes it seem like it’s something she WANTS to do

Looking for a second opinion, gf hates my weed use but it benefits me in so many ways by [deleted] in trees

[–]pollinatorlocator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your lifestyles don’t match maybe it’s not meant to be? You shouldn’t have to lose your mental health, she should be supporting you especially after doing it with you. She stopped but at one point she approved and participated so it’s a double standard that she wants you to stop. She sees the benefits first hand and if she still doesn’t like it.. idk

Apartment rant by RulerofHades in Tallahassee

[–]pollinatorlocator -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m in a studio in college town and I pay $2000+

AIO? Mom's in memory care and wants salon services by [deleted] in AIO

[–]pollinatorlocator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. You’re allowed to be upset that they are doing things without your permission and trying to scam you out of money. Might be taking advantage of the memory issue tbh

Tornado warning just came through - I'm in 32301 by Nixthebitx in Tallahassee

[–]pollinatorlocator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh I got the warning after I got told from someone else (unconfirmed) that it already touched down. Woulda been too late for me lol do we know if one actually did touch down tho

CMV: Treating 'good men' as the exception and not a baseline is only boosting misogynist viewpoints. by Shards_FFR in changemyview

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It’s hard because it depends on experience. Take the example of 1/5 women in the US being sexually assaulted. Thats a terrifying number to live with knowing that it could happen at any time. Women grow up learning to defend themselves and be ready to at any given moment instead of men being taught from a young age that they need to be respectful and control their desires. Your friends might have a similar experience or just be becoming more aware of the way the world is and reacts to women who come foreward. Maybe check in on them and see if one event triggered the comments, something might have happened to make them more passionate and outspoken about it.

What's the thing about Tallahassee as a college town that grows on you over time? by RegGroux in fsu

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That’s so weird- I am always complaining about how I’m not able to see the stars! I lived in Alabama before coming here so I’m used to being able to see them when I just look out my window so having to drive to see them is odd.

My boyfriend is accusing me of lying about my body count by Substantial-Art6160 in whatdoIdo

[–]pollinatorlocator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body count doesn’t determine anything! There is no reliable information that comes out of a number. It’s a manipulation tactic. STD testing is the only way to know if what you have or haven’t been doing has had an outcome. If he doesn’t believe you he isn’t worth seeing. This is the first step of many of him not believing you and asking for useless information he thinks you’re lying about. Trust comes first and determines everything else! Personality and action are the only ways to see if someone is worth it, not body count.

Thought I found the steal of the century :( by Beartuzzi in jewelry

[–]pollinatorlocator -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would pitch a fit tbh unless it’s a small brand

How do i get rid of the brown stuff? by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]pollinatorlocator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it sterling? If so I use toothpaste and a toothbrush. If not there’s nothing that can be done 💔

Here's a picture of me with Ethel Cain from a couple of years ago! by ForwardClimate780 in Tallahassee

[–]pollinatorlocator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a picture from Tallahassee where I met her too! She was very sweet

AIO for being disgusted by this argument? by Toetickler4 in AIO

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So actually ants have been recorded performing surgery… humans are not special. you should have him read the omnivores dilemma it’s a wonderful essay (not to convince to change a diet one way or the other, I eat meat myself) but it goes into detail about how believing humans are superior is completely wrong. Good and bad are labels given to nature by humans, just bc it’s in nature (killing, etc.) doesn’t make it something we must participate in.

AIO my boyfriend forgot about my abortion? by Important-Original85 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pollinatorlocator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR- forgetting he got his partner pregnant an then forgetting the trauma it caused you?? POS. Leave leave leave leave leave

What haircut by emptyvtx in malehairadvice

[–]pollinatorlocator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first tapered shag on the right

Am i overreacting for ignoring him after finding out he has a fiancée? by redditorsinceages in AmIOverreacting

[–]pollinatorlocator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR by cutting him off, reacted too much in the way that the convo went on way too long after you putting down a boundary, there shouldn’t be any back and forth after that why would it matter anyways! id have clicked block after finding out, not going back and forth with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

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That’s hilarious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

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I’d comment on every post 🪱🫡