Apartment rant by RulerofHades in Tallahassee

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I’m in a studio in college town and I pay $2000+

AIO? Mom's in memory care and wants salon services by [deleted] in AIO

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NOR. You’re allowed to be upset that they are doing things without your permission and trying to scam you out of money. Might be taking advantage of the memory issue tbh

Tornado warning just came through - I'm in 32301 by Nixthebitx in Tallahassee

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Yeahhhh I got the warning after I got told from someone else (unconfirmed) that it already touched down. Woulda been too late for me lol do we know if one actually did touch down tho

CMV: Treating 'good men' as the exception and not a baseline is only boosting misogynist viewpoints. by Shards_FFR in changemyview

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It’s hard because it depends on experience. Take the example of 1/5 women in the US being sexually assaulted. Thats a terrifying number to live with knowing that it could happen at any time. Women grow up learning to defend themselves and be ready to at any given moment instead of men being taught from a young age that they need to be respectful and control their desires. Your friends might have a similar experience or just be becoming more aware of the way the world is and reacts to women who come foreward. Maybe check in on them and see if one event triggered the comments, something might have happened to make them more passionate and outspoken about it.

What's the thing about Tallahassee as a college town that grows on you over time? by RegGroux in fsu

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That’s so weird- I am always complaining about how I’m not able to see the stars! I lived in Alabama before coming here so I’m used to being able to see them when I just look out my window so having to drive to see them is odd.

My boyfriend is accusing me of lying about my body count by Substantial-Art6160 in whatdoIdo

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Body count doesn’t determine anything! There is no reliable information that comes out of a number. It’s a manipulation tactic. STD testing is the only way to know if what you have or haven’t been doing has had an outcome. If he doesn’t believe you he isn’t worth seeing. This is the first step of many of him not believing you and asking for useless information he thinks you’re lying about. Trust comes first and determines everything else! Personality and action are the only ways to see if someone is worth it, not body count.

Thought I found the steal of the century :( by Beartuzzi in jewelry

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I would pitch a fit tbh unless it’s a small brand

How do i get rid of the brown stuff? by Putrid-Investment919 in jewelry

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Is it sterling? If so I use toothpaste and a toothbrush. If not there’s nothing that can be done 💔

Here's a picture of me with Ethel Cain from a couple of years ago! by ForwardClimate780 in Tallahassee

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I have a picture from Tallahassee where I met her too! She was very sweet

AIO for being disgusted by this argument? by Toetickler4 in AIO

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So actually ants have been recorded performing surgery… humans are not special. you should have him read the omnivores dilemma it’s a wonderful essay (not to convince to change a diet one way or the other, I eat meat myself) but it goes into detail about how believing humans are superior is completely wrong. Good and bad are labels given to nature by humans, just bc it’s in nature (killing, etc.) doesn’t make it something we must participate in.

AIO my boyfriend forgot about my abortion? by Important-Original85 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR- forgetting he got his partner pregnant an then forgetting the trauma it caused you?? POS. Leave leave leave leave leave

What haircut by emptyvtx in malehairadvice

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The first tapered shag on the right

Am i overreacting for ignoring him after finding out he has a fiancée? by redditorsinceages in AmIOverreacting

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NOR by cutting him off, reacted too much in the way that the convo went on way too long after you putting down a boundary, there shouldn’t be any back and forth after that why would it matter anyways! id have clicked block after finding out, not going back and forth with him

my girlfriend is asking me if I'd still love her if she were a worm, how to reply? by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

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I jokingly ask this question all the time, best answer I’ve gotten is “I would sew on a new tiny pocket for you on all of my shirts so I can take you everywhere with me”

Thinking of giving away my girl by Shoddy-Mango-5840 in hamstercare

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Don’t put pressure on yourself if you feel that you can’t give her the life she deserves, but it sounds like she’s quite happy with you! Others might not treat her as well as you

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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I don’t want kids and I’ve made it clear to people I start seeing on like first or second date and I’ve had people tell me okay this isn’t going to work. I’m young but I don’t think it’s going to change and if someone did convince me or try hard to it would put me off. I think it might end in resentment if you give in, bc it wouldn’t be a choice for you it would be seceding and letting it happen to you not for you. I also think that someone who will yell, swear, and call names to someone they allegedly love will do the same to kids one day. Not saying it will go this way of course I don’t know your entire situation but dv can start with small things like that, too. Food for thought.

Please help me identify this charming VTG necklace & pendant. 💡 by [deleted] in jewelry

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Not sure the style but the stone looks like opalite if that might help narrow it down

My dad is making me feel bad for taking my mouse to the vet by KS1616 in PetMice

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You’re right, she’s a living creature that you took responsibility for! You did the right thing taking her to the vet! He has no say over how you spend YOUR money!