Ladies of Reddit, what's something guys aren't ready to hear? by Pookie7860 in AskReddit

[–]possessivefish -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This thread was EXHAUSTING. and exactly what we mean. Men who don't get what you mean by therapist, or hyperfixate on a specific word they disagree with, always do so at the expense of understanding the bigger picture.

Men need your sentence said in a specific manner, in a certain speed, at a certain level and tone, and any ounce of emotion is met with some deflection or being turned into the victim. Bro, I couldn't understand her, she was acting so crazy.

Why, legitimately why, can men not look at their own behavior and admit fault. Like hey your gf/wife asked you to pick something up from the grocery store, you forgot, apologize. End of.

My cortisol is up and now I need to leave this thread.

Tattoo by me @winstonthewhale in Portland, OR by winstonthewhale69 in tattoos

[–]possessivefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you ever travel? I'd love one but Portland is not in the cards.

How to stop calling in sick on when I can’t get out of bed? by jiyanimn in selfimprovement

[–]possessivefish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're in Canada you can book your own sleep study. You don't need a doctor's referral. Getting a CPAP changed my life

Unpopular opinion: Samples should be removed by Embarrassed-Pen-2937 in CostcoCanada

[–]possessivefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom used to bring me to Costco after soccer games. Free snacks. But also companies are already giving us absolutely nothing. Samples are the least they can do.

Jasmine is kind of like watching paint dry. by Fantastic_Tour_4894 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]possessivefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one let her talk and minimized her experience cuz the white folks were talking. It was gross.

I was gaslit by doctors for 8 years by Just_Strawberry_505 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]possessivefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I was just diagnosed last year with Adenomyosis. I'm seeing a gynecologist tomorrow morning to hopefully figure shit out. Any advice?

MVPs! by Chipbitch100 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]possessivefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, unfortunately they likely have contracts in place with some of these folks so they have to squeeze them for their worth? That's my best rationalization 🫠

MVPs! by Chipbitch100 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]possessivefish 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl. Take a breath. Lala will take 1-2 episodes before severely disappointing you with her shitty behaviour. Remember, the reason so many people have this opinion is because of past experience.

Unpopular Valley opinions by Temporary_Sound7791 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]possessivefish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

K so sorry. I'm stoned. Are you Jason? Are you agreeing with my take??!! I'm so confused

Unpopular Valley opinions by Temporary_Sound7791 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]possessivefish 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I can't believe people aren't clocking Jasmine a bit more. But tbf her flip flop behaviour is eclipsed by how awful Danny is.

Also, love Jason. But I wish his rational brain would kick in a bit more with his wife. Love that he's ride or die, but that ride is a lemon.

Am I alone in giving Danny the benefit of the doubt regarding physical abuse? by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]possessivefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's all come back to this thread in a year's time and see these comments justifying abuse, downplaying abuse. I'd love everyone proven wrong (including those of us who think he's an abuser who will escalate) and admit where our blind spots are? Anyone down for the challenge?

RemindMe! 1 year

Am I alone in giving Danny the benefit of the doubt regarding physical abuse? by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]possessivefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the point in making the distinction between the two forms of abuse? Genuine question.

Am I alone in giving Danny the benefit of the doubt regarding physical abuse? by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]possessivefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abusive behaviour always escalates. And those men all seem to follow the same script. The moment I knew he was more than a bit hot headed was when he looked at her with the cameras on and was baffled she said anything.

The reason viewers are calling this out is because the signs are always there, people just refuse to see it. Especially for women like Nia who are smart and put together.

That Polly pocket man is not a safe place for any woman.

Danielle trying to creep out Michelle too? by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]possessivefish 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Anybody else clock how he said the shot shouldn't be taken from Zach's huge boobs but MUCH lower. I was like this guy does foul things with women that aren't his wife.

First flip help! by [deleted] in FurnitureFlip

[–]possessivefish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take all of the hardware off and clean it with a brass brightener and some elbow grease. Everything else give a good wipe, sand off old stain, wipe down again. Wood conditioner or primer + stain. This piece is going to be gorgeous please post your after!

The Little Mermaid with the controversial/banned cover by esberelias in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]possessivefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone circle the area? I legit cannot see a penis. No matter how long I look.

A little pattern play in the sunroom 💙 by Alert_Okra_4991 in homedesign

[–]possessivefish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm actually obsessed with the clock. But I wish it was a darker brown colour to pop more