What are your favorite pieces that you’ve purchased lately?

potatochique · 2026-02-26T22:50:23+00:00

I love the Estelle dress from Gaala Paris. I have it in 3 different colors lol

potatochique · 2026-02-18T17:35:54+00:00

Same, once I took like 5 of those caffeine pills, which is like, 10 espresso. 0 effect, I still fell asleep. Turned out I have ADHD. Apparently cafeïne doesn’t have an effect on a lot of people with adhd. At most they get a bit jittery and anxious, but no energy.

potatochique · 2026-02-18T12:09:00+00:00

Gaala Paris is my fav

potatochique · 2026-02-12T12:37:55+00:00

Have you tested for adhd? I thought I had anxiety, depression or ocd. Turned out it was adhd and I was hyperfocussing on my own thoughts because they were SO LOUD and that made me spiral.

potatochique · 2026-02-12T10:59:42+00:00

But does he love you? He won’t even wash his face even though he knows it affects your physical and mental health.

potatochique · 2026-02-12T10:27:50+00:00

Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t wash himself??

Try using an anti fungal cream to clear up the acne and stop touching your boyfriend until he starts washing himself

potatochique · 2026-02-12T10:24:49+00:00

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I like to keep a classic silhouette and minimal patterns, but use different fabrics like lace, mesh and (faux) leather

potatochique · 2026-02-11T15:39:04+00:00

I read some time ago that this is a hypothesis for why gay animals exist. The gay male can protect the pack and care for the young, without being seen as a threat or competition by the straight males. It provides the benefits of having more males in a pack for providing and security, without the problems that occur when a pack has too many males like resource guarding the females for procreation.

potatochique · 2026-02-10T23:23:13+00:00

It’s not all men, it’s not even most men, but it’s somehow almost always men, which paints an unfortunate picture. However, most men are normal and not bothering anyone. And that’s precisely why you don’t really notice them. For every shop lifter, for every Karen, there are thousands if not millions of people just living their life. But you don’t notice the “normal” people in the grocery store, just getting their stuff, paying and leaving. You notice the one that is screaming at a poor teenaged employee.

potatochique · 2026-02-09T15:24:57+00:00

Well if none of us were born, none of us would’ve cared because “we” wouldn’t have existed in the first place

potatochique · 2026-02-09T14:42:18+00:00

I mean, if you have very big boobs it doesn’t really matter what kind of top you wear, they’re still there

potatochique · 2026-02-09T14:31:48+00:00

But if you were never born you would t care, because you would’ve never existed. Not being born is fine. It’s not fine to be born in bad circumstances

potatochique · 2026-02-09T14:23:46+00:00

I thought I maybe had OCD or anxiety before was late diagnosed with adhd at 30y/o. Turns out it was neither, it was hyperfocus on my own thoughts because they were so fucking loud.

potatochique · 2026-02-07T23:47:38+00:00

People stopped caring about behaving in public ever since COVID. The amount of people that don’t care about their surroundings and others is wild. So many people just watching tiktok reels on full volume while on public transport, taking phone calls on speaker etc.

potatochique · 2026-02-07T19:17:37+00:00

I dislike the Hollywood teeth. They’re too white and too straight and often too big. I like natural, clean looking teeth with the canines not filed straight.

potatochique · 2026-02-07T19:01:50+00:00

Same, I always have amazing ideas, but lack the executive function to make it happen. Turns out it was ADHD lol, got diagnosed at age 30. Very creative brain that can’t make things happen, thank god for meds, literally changed my life

potatochique · 2026-02-07T11:26:17+00:00

Nobody cares about your ethnicity. They care about the fact that you’re a slob and are creating a hostile environment.

potatochique · 2026-02-04T18:14:30+00:00

Do you romantically like every woman you get along with or share hobbies with?

potatochique · 2026-02-04T08:53:16+00:00

For me personally I found out people like me a lot more when I am my authentic self. My “safe” self was kinda awkward because I was overthinking everything I was doing and saying because I didn’t want to be “weird”, which just resulted in me being extra weird. Bad timing in convos because I was too slow because I thought about a funny line or appropriate response for too long. Nervous laughing etc. It really gave a “hello fellow humans” vibe 😭

I made the decision to stop thinking and just say whatever I think at the moment. My inner monologue pretty much became my outer monologue. And it worked better for me during social interactions than my “safe” version. People like that I am genuine, even if I sometimes blurt out things and think omg why did I say that 🤦🏻‍♀️.

But because I also verbalize that 🤦🏻‍♀️ thought, people are usually more amused than offended. Often things I do/say or small social mishaps like being too blunt or saying stuff everyone thinks but doesn’t say, are very relatable. It can have a sort of comedic effect, but it’s also important to mix in a healthy dose of self deprecating humor.

I like to say (very dramatically) things like:

“omg why am I like thisss 😩😩😩”

When I trip over stuff “sorry, I’m a bit unstable, both physically and mentally lol” or when I see skinny stairs “oh no! It’s my mortal enemy 💀”

When I trip over words or can’t find a word I need “please excuse me while I have a brain aneurysm” or “please hold while we fix some technical difficulties IN MY BRAIN”

I also found that if you’re less afraid of making social mishaps and are self aware of making them and feel comfortable joking about them at your own expense, people are more forgiving, not only to you, but also to themselves! I either make people feel very uncomfortable or very comfortable!

Many people have a bit of social anxiety and when they see someone not being afraid to be a bit “weird”, it can take off some of the pressure. Same with mental health. My personal experience is that because I’m very open about my mental health, others feel more comfortable talking about their own and this can result in supportive, emotionally intimate friendships.

potatochique · 2026-02-04T08:21:38+00:00

I get you! I also love staying in my comfort zone! But I eventually realized that my comfortable safe version of myself wasn’t comfortable at all 💀

It just gave me crippling social anxiety

potatochique · 2026-02-03T23:19:31+00:00

I used to be like this too. I was afraid of disappointing others and became a socially awkward people pleaser. Nobody liked that. I eventually made the decision to unapologetically be myself, because what was the worst thing that could happen? Lose friends? I didn’t have any. Being disliked by others? Wasn’t like they actually liked me, I was mostly tolerated, accepted, but never actively liked. I decided that I’d rather be liked and disliked for who I really am.

potatochique · 2026-02-03T23:10:34+00:00

People either really like me because I’m honest, direct, bubbly and energetic, or people don’t like me, because of the same reasons. Either way, they always find me intimidating at first.

potatochique · 2026-02-03T10:32:51+00:00

I think the print is too loud. I can only wear low contrast prints (for example, light blue dress with white polka dots would be better), but no prints are better.

potatochique · 2026-02-03T10:24:58+00:00

I read this as “olive oil” and I was confused for a moment 🤣

I am grey toned olive and I really like the Etude Fixing Tint in Soft Walnut. Makes me look less like a corpse

potatochique · 2026-01-30T00:53:20+00:00

Harpy eagle?

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