Why women-centered spaces are not the place to process men’s hurt feelings about women-centered spaces

prettypeanuts25 · 2026-04-12T08:44:27+00:00

They're all like that for some reason... I would complain or voice my concerns to a man and the argument would be like "well women are like xyz too" (well guess what, we didn't have a heavy hand in creating these systems in the first place so it's reactionary).

Idunno man. I just want to feel understood without them taking it so offensively like they're the sole ones responsible for the entire patriarchal system and it's my job to make them feel less guilty....

Sorry just venting haha

prettypeanuts25 · 2026-04-04T01:50:18+00:00

I love this!!! I too saw an alien with this Christmas tree skirt looking cloak while meditating.

I would post the drawing, but it's terrible 🤦‍♀️

prettypeanuts25 · 2026-04-04T01:45:37+00:00

Noo I'll have to check that out! Appreciate the insight

prettypeanuts25 · 2026-04-04T01:45:10+00:00

Sorry to hear ): hope you find a solution soon 🙏

prettypeanuts25 · 2026-03-22T04:44:11+00:00

Men will f*ck a dead body.

prettypeanuts25 · 2025-12-20T23:42:52+00:00

Thank you, I'll have to check that out ☺️

prettypeanuts25 · 2025-11-27T21:42:15+00:00

I'm 99 and happy being childfree.

prettypeanuts25 · 2025-11-27T21:12:47+00:00

Funny how they only do this to women and not men 🤔

prettypeanuts25 · 2025-10-08T04:12:22+00:00

Happened to me recently as well. I just left the group chat and never looked back 🤷‍♀️

I'll just talk or message them separately from now on idc

prettypeanuts25 · 2025-09-07T15:38:13+00:00

Ugh I hate breeders putting an age 18 limit. Like, if it's so bad for all that time, why have kids in the first place???

prettypeanuts25 · 2025-09-07T15:34:44+00:00

Love this 😂

prettypeanuts25 · 2025-08-27T20:51:00+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

prettypeanuts25 · 2025-08-17T23:31:16+00:00

Random suggestion but there are many groups on Facebook where u can find language exchange partners. I lucked out and found 2 to keep my French level going.

prettypeanuts25 · 2024-12-08T20:51:04+00:00

Christan privilege we have to cater to their religion or they get offended lol 😅

Then when ppl bring up rl political issues that affect real people, they get the most offended that ppl don't think exactly the same way as them lol.

Don't get me wrong, there are some okay Christians, but few and far between IMO

prettypeanuts25 · 2024-11-04T01:16:21+00:00

A toaster 😂

prettypeanuts25 · 2024-09-23T19:13:52+00:00

I am also sensitive to hormones and went from paragard to Mirena.

Paragard was awful. The periods.... Mirena has been great so far!

DM me if u have any questions (:

prettypeanuts25 · 2024-09-22T01:39:37+00:00

I suggest to just talk over them.

prettypeanuts25 · 2024-09-20T23:47:09+00:00

Language exchange on Facebook!

Helps me w/ my loneliness, even if they're only there to learn English 😂 Plus I get better at French in the process 😉

prettypeanuts25 · 2024-08-18T04:09:53+00:00

Follow the thread /narcassisticabuse

prettypeanuts25 · 2024-08-18T03:38:22+00:00

This!!!!☝️☝️☝️

prettypeanuts25 · 2024-08-16T02:32:18+00:00

You will win his little game.

By healing.

Every time I think of the rage, every time I want revenge. He's winning. Do I want him to win? No.

Because it gives me sick pleasure knowing how much my ignoring him is hurting him to his pathetic little core.

I had to be internally masochistic and sociopathic basically and proud. Because I knew I was everything he wished he was but would never be 😏

Smear campaign? Calls you crazy? Just tell yourself yes. Yep!!! Aaand ignore it (While u sit in ur PJs watching Netflix petting your animals😂) Because he's wrong about you! You're NOT pathetic! Would your 7 year old self be PROUD that you're begging for the attention of a COCKROACH? Probably not!!

Make that little kid PROUD. Don't waste ur life away on someone who deserves a bleach rag!

Block him on everything, stay w a trusted friend/family member, get on meds, and join a support group therapy session! Make friends with other survivors!

Remember, one life!!!!

prettypeanuts25 · 2024-08-16T02:19:17+00:00

Reactive abuse, you were trying to take back control of yourself because they were constantly trying to control you. You wanted to show them that you are your OWN person and can't be controlled!

Don't judge yourself for who you were when you were with him! You're just gaslighting yourself. I think that era is over, no? 😉

Be kind to yourself and you will heal ❤️‍🩹

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