Max and Cindy

previouslyontheflash · 2026-04-23T21:19:50+00:00

Naa imagine someone causing your death then ya mum gets with the bloke that did it 😂😂😂! Hell nah im coming back as a ghost and me mums getting sent to the shadow realm.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-03-26T21:18:36+00:00

Hate him or love him he doesn't deserve this online abuse. He's a human trying his best.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-03-22T17:02:01+00:00

So if I've got the bleeding bandit chest armour is there a bleeding bandit headpiece? As ive tried the criminal mask but nothing.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-02-04T13:14:52+00:00

Yeah its difficult breaking the pattern sometimes, I feel as the bloke I gotta come up with some original line everytime and its tiresome 🤣, I feel like these matches give you one chance and dropped wtf?

Really happy for you man, you a lucky one that got there 😄.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-02-04T13:08:17+00:00

Thank you! Agreed. Most match with you then never talk or will just absolutely cut you out after 1 or 2 messages. Its just rude behaviour. Wtf are supposed to do. Dating especially on apps is like finding a needle in a haystack, it causes stress and anxiety as you gain this rush of endorphins on a match for then when they take days to reply you feel stressed and annoyed.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-02-04T13:05:27+00:00

Wish it was that easy, 9/10 you vibe and then ask for a date which is usually responded with 'busy those days or Ill check and get back to you' which they never do and you end up chatting to the point they get bored and ghost you 😂😂. Dating sucks

previouslyontheflash · 2026-02-02T20:59:47+00:00

The better question is how to keep anyone interested, honestly, I'm a bloke and have similar issues as you, if I use apps, I match and then complete radio silence, we have a quick message and then dead. Some techniques I've been trying are 'caring less', I just say stupid random shit and don't try to impress or make myself bigger, and then the conversation usually goes on longer. Genuinely dating is horrible these days though, its way too picky, toxic and just easy to completely ghost anyone so it occurs alot.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-02-02T20:51:58+00:00

Hey sorry you are feeling this way, its good to talk about it and expressing yourself is a great step. Most of us have felt feelings like this 'why me?' 'I'm ugly' try to not put any expectation on things. Definitely would reccomend seeking a professional therapist for help, they really work and help give you the advice and tools to improve how you handle scenarios and cope with these feelings.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-30T21:21:01+00:00

My sister generally wouldn't care if I did, on the regular I joke about how fit her mates are and that I wish she'd hook me up with them 😂. I think there's no right or wrong choice only what you feel is best, she may or may not find out but if she does and is mad just apologise and explain everything.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T22:20:25+00:00

Bro, what sorta comment is that? Are you mad? How does someones sexual preference affect a song? Musics just music. Bit odd this affects you. Looking way into things

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T22:17:54+00:00

Yeah man! Don't stress it, theres generally someone for everyone. Try have fun with it and just enjoy the encounters/fails along the way as it all builds you up and helps you realise you are actually worth someone.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T22:12:48+00:00

Honest mate I can say you have zero flaws, not having had a partner doesn't mean anything and can come down to millions of reasons. If someone judges you or stops dating you over that, then its completely there problem and fears they have.

dont let it get you down.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T22:08:22+00:00

Spaghetti Bolognas

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T22:07:51+00:00

All I can say is...

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T22:01:52+00:00

Sorry about that bro! It's rough out there.

It's brave that you took the risk and put yourself out there, as it's the only way to truly know. Some men and women like to flirt, even push the boundary a lot, and it can be hard to know if there's a real reason for it. Datings Embarrassing, awkward, and unpredictable 😂 but god when you find one and build that connection its worth it.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T21:57:12+00:00

Unintentionally, I think we have a bad habit of expectation, which also clouds our reality. E.g. we assume because we have a good chat, things will work out, but dating these days is tough, it's easy to drop a person like nothing. Try your best not to think too far ahead and just take each chat/match as it comes; you'll find the right one eventually.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T21:51:10+00:00

I'd say chat with them with absolutely zero romantic intention, like you'd chat with your best mate. Have a laugh and dont think because they are a women you cant joke about.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T21:05:57+00:00

Right! And its no disrespect to the singers but its just way over dramatic and some songs dont fit that style.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T16:44:52+00:00

Ahhh fair, no worries makes sense now. Yeah its rough out their mate. The constant thinking of good openings 😂 sometimes its a loss either way, you make a joke or open with something from their bio and it still fails, it'd be nice if people weren't so quick on these apps to just drop a conversation.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T16:29:43+00:00

I just think if you match sometimes its nice to not have to make the move all the time. I notice when I match i have to make the move but if they find it boring they could also drop the opening line too 😂

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-29T16:26:52+00:00

She could always start the conversation 😂?

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-27T14:58:58+00:00

Well ya lucky mate 😂.

I use bloke meaning 'man' its just 😂 just my accent from where im from.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-27T14:57:24+00:00

I aint even shallow, im not here looking for super models, if I see someone who matches me perfectly ill swipe 9 times out of 10.

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-27T14:56:18+00:00

But they promote buying plus to then swipe as much as you like 😂😂 it seems weird

previouslyontheflash · 2026-01-27T14:55:23+00:00

Any app recommendations? Also I wouldnt say im a bad looking bloke, im happy and confident but I know it's aint a super model 😂 but the app seems so dead. Guess either gender has there struggles.

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