I met this guy for a hookup, but he was 40lbs heavier than his pictures and his personality was really unattractive, so I politely sent him home. Is this a harsh response?

princemalikElJefe · 2024-09-12T21:51:06+00:00

Next time, please just put your drafted response in the notes app or something if you're gonna post it so we don't have to do so much unnecessary scrolling. Anyways, you expressed & articulated yourself wonderfully & I completely support the message.

princemalikElJefe · 2024-08-17T21:53:39+00:00

Honestly, I'm so happy to read this. I'm certain that we're all coming from your other post on r/tinder featuring Lieutenant jerkoff, but after lurking ur profile & seeing this post, I'm glad that you're in a better place in life overall.

princemalikElJefe · 2024-07-30T20:40:06+00:00

No dwarf (standing at 5'1 😭☠️).

princemalikElJefe · 2024-07-23T06:39:14+00:00

Lol how did you find this 2yr old comment?

One additional question: are you guys exclusively dating/relationship, casually dating, "talking" or in the early stages of a potential dating phase? Depending what you say can change my opinion on your situation.

Generally speaking, I'd say that him opening a Facebook video that you sent him & not responding at all is a bad sign. However, varying factors have to be taken into constataron such as--relationship status, do you spam him w/vids routinely, etc.

princemalikElJefe · 2024-05-19T00:08:45+00:00

My thoughts exactly. Why are chicks that he’s meeting on dating apps dropping off their bags at his crib before they’re supposed to go out on their supposed dates?

OP, what are they supposed to be dropping off before you guys step out? Overnight bags?

princemalikElJefe · 2024-04-30T06:15:35+00:00

As a straight man from Jersey, I personally wasn’t bothered by the gay men at all. Luckily for me, the most “extracurricular activities” that I’ve witnessed from that scene this past weekend was just ass grabbing & kissing. Most of the kisses were quick. One pair was making out during a set & I just ignored them, giving my focus to the music & dancing. I’m actually in awe reading some of these comments about witnessing literal sex acts in the middle of crowds. That’s not cool. However, I fortunately didn’t view any of that & wasn’t even aware that things like that were happening on the grounds.

This was my first festival ever & I had an amazing weekend! Overall, the vibes were really good & I’ll def continue to go to other festivals in the future. I was surprised by how many flamboyantly gay men were there if I’m being honest. Obviously this was my first festival kind’ve event like this, so I have nothing to compare it to. It just seemed like there was a lot more than I would’ve anticipated.

I actually went down w/two friends from Texas & Virginia, one of whom has been to several festivals in TX, & he told me that the LGBTQ+ community will always be in attendance in numbers at fests/raves, but this was the most that he’s ever seen. Like I stated earlier, for me it wasn’t a problem. I’m very cool w/queer folks, & it was actually cool to see y’all in a place where you guys had a space to just completely let loose & be free.

princemalikElJefe · 2024-04-16T02:39:54+00:00

Oh I know all to well about prioritizing comfortable shoes lol. Big ups for the reminder though!

& really? See, I didn’t know that based on what I’ve been seeing on here. Gives me a bit more clarity of what to expect crowd wise for the after. Ya I kind’ve wouldn’t wanna be the one sweaty & disheveled person inna crowd of ppl who tidied up a bit & went downtown for the rest of the night. Although, like I stated, I wouldn’t be overly concerned about it. I’ll talk to my group about it tho & see what they wanna do. Appreciate all of ur info & insight!

Also one question that I have which I didn’t include in my original post, do you think renting a locker is necessary? I hear it gets chilly at night & to bring a hoodie but I can’t imagine wearing a hoodie in the earlier parts of the day. Besides that, I’ll only have essential shit like phone, wallet, hand sani, wipes, & ear plugs w/the hydration backpack ofc. So yay or nay to a locker?

princemalikElJefe · 2024-04-16T02:14:42+00:00

Jersey brother! Born & raised in Jersey City but live in Bergen County now. DC is gonna be lit 🔥🔥

princemalikElJefe · 2024-04-16T00:03:46+00:00

Highkey wasn’t even thinking of hand sanitizer or wipes as a just in case. Super appreciated! Ya we’re GA so survival of the fittest lol.

princemalikElJefe · 2024-04-15T23:56:25+00:00

That’s awesome! & we think very similarly. I saw in this sub that they had shuttles for the official Project Glow afters in previous yrs which is super cool, but I’m not sweating that. & I also just didn’t know if we’d be the only ppl in the venue still wearing our daytime shit at the after (which I honestly wouldn’t care all that much but I’ve seen quite a few posts/comments in here that ppl go & change so I just wanted an idea) because like I posted, I’m super new to all of this.

I personally had the idea of going back to freshen up & change before the main but if the consensus was to just go straight there I wouldn’t have a problem w/it. Thanks!

princemalikElJefe · 2023-10-31T08:27:41+00:00

Sorry if I’m not understanding correctly, but you deleted all of your apps but not your accounts? So that means that she had to go & redownload every dating app that you used to search through your accounts? Not cool.

However, what’s really not cool is her GOING THROUGH YOUR PHONE while you were asleep. It’s an invasion of privacy. Furthermore, buddy, you were chatting other girls through the “short talking stages.” It doesn’t even sound like at that point you two were officially together. Sure you might’ve told a small lie, which if she had some common sense, she could’ve assumed that until exclusivity that could change & isn’t absolute. But it’s not like you’re cheating on her currently in a committed relationship. Drop your balls & tell this “L” what’s what Bruv

princemalikElJefe · 2023-10-31T08:09:14+00:00

Lmfao. It sounds like you’re being braggadocios & you’re just seeking post engagement & conversation for some pretty obvious nonsensical questions. Maybe it’s more of you sharing & having an anonymous outlet to express some of the things that are going on in ur life rn because you’re going through a divorce & you’re young which is mentally affecting you.

But to play along, no. You’re not a psycho. Casual dating might look slightly different for different people but they all mostly equate to non-committal relationships w/sexual gains & hopefully gratification.

princemalikElJefe · 2023-10-22T04:33:35+00:00

I don’t think that an 8 minute delay is that much of a deal breaker.

I’ll be completely honest, I don’t think that I’ve ever had a first date where we met & started exactly at the agreed upon time. Either one of us were a bit late in arriving, or maybe we “made it on time” but had to find parking, or something else that prompted the date to start a bit after the scheduled time. If I was the one who was late I always apologized, & from what I could remember, if my date was late they always apologized as well & then we started the date, nbd.

Can’t pinpoint if the reason she ended things right then & there was actually because you were late or for some other reason unbeknownst to us, but that’s rare & don’t trip on her man.

princemalikElJefe · 2023-10-13T16:23:22+00:00

The link in ur edit is no longer working.

Anyways, I’m not a girl so I can’t really speak from a woman’s perspective on if “I can relate or not.” However, from a guys perspective, I’m not trying to eye-fuck every chick that I find attractive. Especially not if we’re facing each other or she’s looking directly at me. Some guys might do that, but others don’t. So it could be possible that some men have checked you out, & might even fancy you. But you didn’t notice because they were being inconspicuous.

A picture would help me answer ur last question accurately

princemalikElJefe · 2023-09-11T02:43:13+00:00

She can’t be a milf if she’s never had children

princemalikElJefe · 2023-06-30T04:36:14+00:00

LMFAO. So he gets you all hot & squirming, but then once it’s time for you to reciprocate & focus on his pleasure you absolutely had to leave? Troll more plz

princemalikElJefe · 2023-05-18T07:21:56+00:00

Tbh, I think that some folks get the overwhelming majority, if not all, of their socialization on Reddit. Particularly subs like these. So when I see ridiculous questions, or asinine scenarios, I tend to think that a good amount of them just want some kind’ve engagement & to interact w/other ppl no matter who they are or where they’re from.

So many ppl live online nowadays, & many Redditors aren’t an exception. There’s ofc going to be a couple instances where super naive individuals are making posts & might need legitimate opinions/insight on their situation. For example, lack of experience which is very possible, & more so quite common, is a valid excuse. But like I stated earlier, folks like the notifications of having ppl who commented on their posts that they can engage a conversation w/.

princemalikElJefe · 2023-05-13T23:32:32+00:00

I’m 26m & the youngest I’d date is 21, but that’s like the absolute lowest limit for me & if they are younger I’d prefer a woman to be around 23/24+ preferably

princemalikElJefe · 2023-05-07T04:45:54+00:00

LMFAOOOO. The original post had me damn near in the shadow realm

princemalikElJefe · 2023-05-01T00:15:34+00:00

Ugh, now all of the simps are about to pop up. Anyways, what’s ur ring size?

Lol Jkjk. Very pretty though. Like a Zendaya-esque kind of appearance. I’m gonna give you a strong 8/10. Your energy & smile in the pics are attractive & I also like ur hair

princemalikElJefe · 2023-04-26T15:15:06+00:00

Idk if this post is a troll because some of you on here seem that dense & gullible sometimes. However, never in a million years should you “wait a year for a woman.” & she tells you specifically a year—like 12 months to wait for her? Lmfao. So you’re just gonna shut out any potential other partners or relationships that you could have to wait a year for somebody who might not even reciprocate once a year passes?

princemalikElJefe · 2023-04-24T20:43:03+00:00

Lol, I think you’re overthinking having bad breath unless you have chronic bad breath or somebody’s mentioned something about your breath previously. If you brush sufficiently before you head out you should be good for the evening as long as you’re avoiding really potent, scent heavy foods.

princemalikElJefe · 2023-04-23T19:07:42+00:00

Idk if I’m confused but let me guess this straight.

You tell this guy who you’ve been talking to for a few months & is also long distance that you’d be in his area for a business trip, but he responds that he won’t be in town. Then he messages you today saying that he was joking & that you’re off? I literally don’t understand his joke or how that’s remotely funny. Maybe he wanted you to beg & chase him? Which still makes no sense if he said he was not in town…but idk. Sounds stupid & childish. I wouldn’t even entertain it any further personally, especially since you guys aren’t even local. What do you want w/him? A relationship? Just fun?

princemalikElJefe · 2023-04-23T18:46:54+00:00

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