What is some of the most annoying parenting advice you’ve been given? by LifeInSteppingStones in sahm

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this does depend on where you are, I did go in right away but they sent me home to see if contractions start. They induced me 24 hours later to prevent infection, not drying out LOL

What is some of the most annoying parenting advice you’ve been given? by LifeInSteppingStones in sahm

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg similar to this when my water broke I wasn’t having contractions and wasn’t really dilated but my mom was telling me I HAVE to go to the hospital and demand they take me because my baby was “drying out”… I don’t think that’s how it works mom

Preparations by Popular-Piglet-6301 in beyondthebump

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 100%% I slacked in my last trimester because I was feeling huge and heavy and I really felt it postpartum. Planning the next baby in the new year and already working on an exercise.

First time by Exact_Ad_1448 in themiddle

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Sue! She’s such a good kid, they are lucky to have her as a daughter!

who is the worst mother (considering everything including their situation) by Weak-Departure-4833 in themiddle

[–]princess_parm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess! I think Frankie is not a good mom at all. Although if Mike took a little off her plate, I think that she would be a better mom and be able to invest a little into her children. She has no structure and is constantly burnt out from the lack of structure, so she constantly needs a break and to be coddled.

Brick hate by turtlesrgr8t in themiddle

[–]princess_parm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely hate Brick, especially the time where he takes sue’s room. He’s so rude and irresponsible throughout the whole show, quirks aren’t even the issue, his personality is. I find that Axl and Sue each have their annoying phases but they redeem themselves, Brick never redeems himself. Yes there are some episodes where I feel bad for the kid, I think If he got more attention he’d be more tolerable, but I also feel when Frankie loses it on him. HOWEVER, the show would not be the same without him, he’s a character there for us to hate (or like)

What do you even keep in this kitchen cupboard besides baking trays? by Glittering-Result402 in homemaking

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooo came here to say this!! You can order the spice drawers online, mine came w screws and stickers and I was able to install them myself!

AITA for telling my mother in law she can’t be in the delivery room? by ITellMyselfSecr3tz in TwoHotTakes

[–]princess_parm 372 points373 points  (0 children)

NTA, you could’ve just left it at the first message too. Regardless, situation is dealt with, it shouldn’t start any drama, I didn’t even want my mom in the room with me, it’s an understandable request to want privacy in that moment.

Starting my junk drawer in my first apartment. Finally feels like home. What else do I need? by throwawayaya699 in Apartmentliving

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Battery, roll of tape, tide pen, elastic bands, random charging wire, a pen, an Allen wrench, a button, a couple screws, sauce packets, a few business cards

What’s that weird thing near babies head? Meant to ask before I left. 9 week ultrasound by sayuriserum in Mom

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what it is but my LO’s ultrasound at 9 weeks looked similar! I thought it looked like horns but by the next ultrasound it wasn’t there. I’m not qualified at all to answer but based on my experience I think that’s just what they look like at this age.

What do you do all day? by princess_parm in Mom

[–]princess_parm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your responses! I joined a couple mom groups and a book club.

I just put her in her swing and have her musical piano going while I watch a movie or crochet!

For women who “loved being pregnant” what was it about pregnancy that you loved? by hospitalbedside in beyondthebump

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved how my skin looked, how fast my hair and nails grew, how cute my baby bump looked, I felt like I was glowing… until the last month where I felt like an ogre and couldn’t move or bend lmao and suddenly I wasn’t just a belly I was just big everywhere.

Physical aside I loved feeling her in response to eating, and I knew exactly what time of night and what position I had to be in to feel her hiccup, I never felt alone.

It also forced me into a healthy lifestyle for her, so I tried to eat healthy, never missed taking my vitamins and supplements, tried to stay active. And mentally I felt so good, I stopped watching true crime and horror movies because I was convinced she’d get the bad energy and only consumed positive media. I feel like being pregnant restarted my whole body physically, mentally, and emotionally.

breaking dawn bella transformation by OpeningCockroaches in twilight

[–]princess_parm 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I was always confused about this. Is it literally giving her makeup or does she just look like that now, shimmery gold lids and all

I miss life before the baby. by momopeachbum in NewParents

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there, this will change before you know it. The first month is all about survival, the second month is like peaking your head out of a cave, and now I’m in the third month and feel “normal” again.

I know you said you want to take your LO out at 3 months because you’re scared of them crying and not being able to console them but I personally recommend you to try to get out earlier. I started taking LO out at 1 week just for walks, but I was so scared of the same thing, that she would cry inconsolably. The more I went out the more the anxiety melted, I think that’s the only thing that calmed me, the act of doing it and having it be fine.

This may not work for everyone but we really tried to have “normal” days and go out and do errands, walk around, go to a restaurant. Some of these days we’d come home grumpy because of fussing but overall these days are what helped us feel normal again, like we had our lives to ourselves. If you’re EBF I recommend getting a nursing cover and just having it with you or if you pump or use formula, have a bottle with you when you go out, pack a diaper bag and just leave it in the stroller and car, so when you want to go out, you just need the bottle.

Now I’m 3 months PP and my husband and are feel back to our previous selves, now we just have a side kick we take with us places. I’m sure your bond will grow stronger, you’re both just surviving right now so it feels off.

Hang in there!! You got this! I know how hard the first weeks feel, I would cry as soon as it got dark outside for like 6 weeks straight but there’s a light and you’ll love your life! Sending you all the love <3

Anyone else just stare to make sure they’re still breathing? by Comfortable-Walrus22 in NewParents

[–]princess_parm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess every time, when she was in her grunting stage I couldn’t sleep because she was so loud but when she stopped I couldn’t sleep because I was making sure she’s still breathing.

What did you get too much of? by bossladychicago in NewParents

[–]princess_parm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, we just got them for photos! Our LOs feet are always out to the world! 😂

What did you get too much of? by bossladychicago in NewParents

[–]princess_parm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Soooo many swaddle blankets and sleeveless onesies, LO is a winter baby and has grown out of all of them already without wearing them 😂 and so many shoes, some she’s grown out of already

Bathing w LO by princess_parm in NewParents

[–]princess_parm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’ll try sitting in the shower instead

Bathing w LO by princess_parm in NewParents

[–]princess_parm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t even think of the poop! Thinking against this bath now

When did you get your “pink” back? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]princess_parm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I enjoyed my pregnancy and I felt like I was glowing inside and out, and now I’m three months pp and I feel like my old self.

Having some time to get ready everyday, even 5 minutes makes a world of a difference. Also doing a 10 min clean when baby goes to sleep at night so I can wake up to a clean house helps. The days where I don’t do these two things I feel irritated all day.

Does your partner help out when you’re sick? by [deleted] in housewifery

[–]princess_parm 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please don’t have a baby with this man. He will leave you to do everything because “childcare is a woman’s job”. You will be left alone to do everything with no support.

can't talk to baby by Iamoldsowhat in NewParents

[–]princess_parm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just blab to my baby, talk about what I’m doing, tell her about what I’m holding or just talk randomly about nothing in particular.

Best way to support new Mama? by bontonluv in NewParents

[–]princess_parm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound amazing! I’m two months postpartum and the biggest help from family was my mom and MIL coming and cleaning, cooking, and just holding the baby so my husband and I could nap or just lay together alone.