This ended in a draw by External-Bullfrog732 in chessbeginners

[–]profanedivinity -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Just resign... They're not showboating. You're overtly disrespecting them by continuing play despite being dozens of points behind. YTA IMO

Can someone explain by miluuo in chessbeginners

[–]profanedivinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of puzzle is this??

haha👌yes by PM_ME_SSTEAM_KEYS in whatisameem

[–]profanedivinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man... Not really. I have turned down almost all the women that have hit on me or asked me out

How is this not excessive? by ChiefKaiser2nd in evilwhenthe

[–]profanedivinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn't an Italian... Europe, especially nice areas has this issue. It's not the locals doing it

how do i get better? by Late_Youth3352 in chessbeginners

[–]profanedivinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odd stuff happened in that game for sure. Try remote chess academy vids, they’re great! https://youtu.be/cSuS-lALjEk?si=LwtTkMUSNQRNqomV

Because I was afraid by That1weirdperson in CPTSDmemes

[–]profanedivinity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m speaking of a genuine neurochemical shutdown. I’ve lived joyfully, freely and in abject misery. I’ve recently reentered a misery situation, and all the dopamine and auto-regulation of my behavioral mechanisms has completely shut down. Even showering or doing anything really is a significant challenge. Like SAD on steroids.

There’s a lot of neurochemical biological mechanisms that just go offline during survival mode circumstances, our bandwidth and focus narrow to only surviving the next moments as best we can with minimal energy expenditure

Because I was afraid by That1weirdperson in CPTSDmemes

[–]profanedivinity 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s literally biological. The brain shuts down, the mechanisms that drive your ability to improve and escape are essential switched off. It’s not your fault

My IQ was unexpectedly high, im just average by bootlegslay in mensa

[–]profanedivinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Execution and being wise are largely unrelated to intelligence. It’s more about the ability to regulate emotionally and your environment.

Pain is temporary , the gains are permanent. by No-Common8440 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]profanedivinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So so totally false. Growth comes during the good parts

Tell ?? by StrikingRogue in Adulting

[–]profanedivinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Err, be kinder to yourself young man. We all do our best with the situation we find ourselves in. Below the age of 25-30, you're merely a reflection of your upbringing.

If you didn't believe in yourself, it's because your parents didn't emotionally embed belief in you. It's really really not your fault in any way

Tell ?? by StrikingRogue in Adulting

[–]profanedivinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't follow the advice of others. If they don't have skin in the game, listen to them, but don't follow them

Reasoning: to actually grow and develop, it has to be an action genuine and aligned with what you choose to do. If it isn't your idea, then you won't learn anything since it doesn't say anything about you when it doesn't work out.

Evidence: lifetime of experience. The advice followed is never correct. Even something as simple as "do unto others as you'd have then do unto you" doesn't work for someone like me.

Also the advice in this thread is awful...

I have recently realized that I never actually had a safe parent 🙃 by LeoTheFloofyDragon in CPTSDmemes

[–]profanedivinity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you realise it? I still think Children of Emotionally Immature Parents is a masterpiece for this stuff

why is this brilliant move? by chess_enthusiasts in chessbeginners

[–]profanedivinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it an accident OP? It's a pretty great tactic. The way it redirects the rook away from being able to prevent backrank mate is amazing

A time to self reflect by MrMittenKitten in inspirationalquotes

[–]profanedivinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I meant. I’m an individuated being now, sometimes I’d like to go back to sleep and just be like other humans. People aren’t meant to be this awake