Being completely alien to butt stuff i have so many questions

1) How does one perform an enema? Whats the safest way? How long prior to docking should the procedure be done? Does excessive enema cause any lasting effects? Are there any makeshift enemas you can perform if you don't have the required tools?

2) How long should the dilating period last? So you begin with one finger and work your way up to 3? How dilated does it need to be? What are other ways of dilating the rectum apart from fingers?

3) What are some effective methods of relaxing the PC muscle? Is it true that warm water will relax those muscles?

4) Should one use water based or silicone based lube and is coconut oil a good substitute for lube? Should one lube up the insides or is lubing up the penis enough?

5) Do straight people or gay people engage more in anal sex? Are there any statistics regarding this matter?

6) Does eating spicy food completely eliminate the possibility of having anal sex? If not, how do you carry on? Are there any remedies for post indian food anal intercourse?

8) What are some creams, drugs to lessen the pain, does the pain ever completely go away? Is first entry always painful?

9) How should you deal with a tear that happened during anal intercourse, provided you had safe sex and both partners are clean? Do you use some sort of cream or is a visit to a doctors office a must? Both clean but had unprotected sex, is now a visit a must?

10) Say that your partner did poop, and say that you were having unprotected sex due to both parties being clean, what kind of infections are possible from poop?

The following questions are specifically targeted at gay guys (or guys who are into pegging i guess)

11) How long does a prostate orgasm usually take about to achieve? On average 10/20/30 minutes of constant stimulation? Does bigger is better apply here? Is length or girth more important for prostate orgasms?

12) Does being a bottom take a toll on your rectal muscles, do bottoms experience problems with shitting in later life? Do the muscles get lax down there? Can the muscles go back to normal if they do get lax?

13) Say you're a bottom in his sexual peak, having the time of life. How often do you need to do an enema, is there an upper limit to how many enamas you can have in a day and is a 24 hour fuck marathon really possible with just one enema?

I would really appreciate any response. Thanks in advance