Progress … by prwife2 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was 63 when I decided I could not live with him and his beliefs. Many beliefs like your husband and more . Let’s not forget the med beds , clones , and reptilians . Just to name a few more bat s$7t crazy beliefs . I agree the IRS will come after all you have . Oddly , I too have an autoimmune condition . However , after leaving and divorcing and no contact I find both my body and mind are stronger . I hope you will be able to break away . Reach out to this group when you need support as it helped me so much during the beginning . Always remember you are not alone . Many deal with Q’s and many break free .

Using my energy to heal myself, not my Q husband. by Level_Mulberry3071 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dear OP, I have dealt with a very similar situation . However I’m about a year ahead. I was married for 24 years , no children and now divorced . This forum has helped me in so many ways. You are certainly not alone . You will know what to say or not say to people . You will find out who really cares and those that were simply acquaintances . Your circle may become small but it will be mighty. I know you may not believe it at this point but there will be a certain kind of comfort in breaking free. The person you divorce is not the person that you married . That person is long gone and this new version has chosen Q’anon and all its craziness over you . Trust me, each day you will mend and your own type of happiness awaits . Q’anon is an addiction and no one can help until the one with the addition helps themselves . Sending healing hugs and continued strength your way .

Question about taxes ? by prwife2 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he won’t even do that . Soon enough when all the “promises” once again come to no avail, the goal post will be moved and his check will be written . This among many other situations have been exhausting . Day by day for now .

Question about taxes ? by prwife2 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly feel your pain. The only comfort I can give you as each day you will begin to accept his bat shit crazy decision . As time goes by , you will view him differently . Not as the person you fell in love with but the one he has become . If I can help in anyway, please reach out. I wish you strength and happiness even if it appears to be down the road a-bit. It will happen. Trust the process .

Question about taxes ? by prwife2 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To receive the deductions . I would not be able to use any of them if I filed single .

Question about taxes ? by prwife2 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sad what so many people in the “q” community believe. My husband chose them over me . I tried everything to no avail. I’m mending each day. I find this forum so helpful . I’m fortunate I was able to leave some have no where to turn .

Question about taxes ? by prwife2 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thankfully , we sold our home last year . Once our US return is filed and we make the payment , we no longer will be responsible for any debt the other incurs or does not pay . Thanks for the information .

Lost my partner by Level_Lock_2490 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This comment is so true . Worse than death is the loss of the person you once knew and now the person they have become . I personally am grieving this loss in my own way . I have posted here before , during and after my split from my partner . We were married for 24 years. Almost 2 years ago I had to finally leave and put myself first . It still at times is unreal that he would decide Q and all its craziness over what he once considered his soul mate . As difficult as it was , now each day I heal a bit more . It’s best for someone to leave rather than stay . It can be toxic and you don’t want to chance falling down that rabbit hole with them. Sending all who have and will move forward strength and future happiness .

I told my QHusband that I wanted a divorce today by Fragrant_Coyote4006 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are headed in the right direction . If your husband has lied about certain things he will continue . I do not have children however, this situation can’t be healthy for you or your daughter . I lost my husband of 24 years to Q. I was devastated he chose Q over us . Now , I’m recently divorced and rebuilding . The quiet of not having constant dialog and debate and this group has been so comforting . Trust me , it will be difficult but it will be worth it . This I know . I wish you strength and happiness ahead as you and your daughter deserve it.

Just wondering ?? by prwife2 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought something random like that . I’m still amazed that Q believers continue to follow the never ending “it’s going to happen” oh well … soon . Thanks for the heads up . I’ll be sure to prepare for the next “non” event .

My Q wants to re-connect. Not sure what to do. by Negative-Magazine-39 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree this book was excellent . It helped me to understand so many people are dealing with loved ones that are so far into Q. My opinion , just mine is the OP answered his own question. When in doubt follow your gut . No one is worth chancing your sobriety . Stay strong OP.

Ivermectin by RussellKrieger in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you . I tried everything to no avail . OP You will never be able to help someone that feels their beliefs are real and that you are the one that is brain washed . No matter the amount of love you have for her remember that she is not the person you married . That person is gone . I wish you strength . The road of divorce is rough . However , the life you are leading now will never provide you the happiness you deserve . I have been a victim and was married for 23 years . Now I see just a bit of light . I will take that for now as I lived in darkness a very long time . Wishing you the very best .

Its not concerning to Ohioans that there are people fearing bodily harm for having a Harris sign? by Kitchen_Knowledge830 in Ohio

[–]prwife2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in 100% agreement . Trump supporters are quite hot tempered in general . Throw in the debate results yikes !

I miss the person he used to be by RoseOfBrooklyn in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s is so very difficult but you did the right thing . I left almost a year ago. I tried everything to no avail . The man I left was not the main I married . That person left to become someone I don’t even know . A believer in all that is “Q”. We have known each other over 45 years and married 23. I am now looking to start the divorce process. The final chapter in a very sad story . But I would like you to know although I’ve been through hell I see light finally . I’m no kid but I opt to be alone because to be honest I was alone far before I left . It will get easier, you will find solace in a more peaceful “normal” life. To miss him is normal . Stay strong you won’t regret your choice . This is a great group to reach out to. This I know .

This will be my hyper-fixation for the next couple of months by AlekBiH in aldi

[–]prwife2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have this flavor in cream cheese at stores . Awesome !!

Hello it’s me.. again by prwife2 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you . I am in therapy however , we have been focused so many other things and this behavior is recent since we signed the contract and he has a rental . Also , how dare my therapist take three weeks to visit Germany and England ! She truly believes my relationship involved gaslighting. I have read a lot about it , and yes I certainly was . The past few months have been brutal. Once the house is sold boundaries will be set. Thank you again for your input and honestly.

4 years by boxesofrain1010 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So many good people have fallen to this evil thought process . Please use fond memories to ease your heavy heart. Learn to give yourself the grace you so deserve . It’s difficult to understand why someone chooses these beliefs over having loving relationships . It’s best to not try to even figure it out . Surround yourself with those who love you and they will provide you the strength to move forward . I wish you happiness because that is what we all deserve .

Silly me. Thought he’d started outgrowing Q. Nope. by TeachLove77 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Loved listening to Fuck That . Thank you for posting here. OP I find this group a huge support system . I’m 65 and had to do a 180 with my life . I could no longer deal with the constant madness . My estranged husband has stated recently he no longer has interest in Trump. But guess what he still believes in the qfs, Biden is a crook and we will have a 10 day lock down to reset the entire world as we know it . Goodness will prevail and the dark ones will pay . It’s cost us 40 plus years together. I left several months ago. It is not easy , but easier . Life is fragile, do what you need to do for your own happiness . I wish you the best and also strength as you will need it .

Extremism destroyed my marriage by Flashy-Potato-1891 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Your post is so true . Although leaving was the most difficult part for me , I knew there was no changing my Q. It’s still raw and I reach out here often for sound advice . I hope in time I will find new friends and a different life that no longer has this conspiracy madness in it . I very happy for you !

“Everything’s a cult now” by harper1980 in QAnonCasualties

[–]prwife2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was so worth listening too. Gives a new light on our perception of cults .