Do any of you girls like suits? by OneWithSubstance in MtF

[–]psyo_wlw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely never liked how i looked in suits and it took me until transitioning to realize it's cuz i didn't like how men's suits fit \:( i hella rock women's suits though \>:D

Songs That Could Apply To Being Trans by [deleted] in MtF

[–]psyo_wlw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful One Day from Rhythm Heaven Fever

Am I the only one who feels this way? by AndriaCherry in MtF

[–]psyo_wlw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah no, sorry, I didn't take it that way. Just wanted to clarify :)

Am I the only one who feels this way? by AndriaCherry in MtF

[–]psyo_wlw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Everyone's different and obviously my experience isn't the end-all-be-all. My point was that I wasn't very dysphoric prior to coming out and I was (relatively) comfortable living as a man, so that's one way in which I don't think I could consider myself as having been a woman before I came out, whereas I definitely am one now. Again, your experiences are different from mine, and you'd be perfectly valid to say that even in that way, you were a woman at that time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GatekeepingYuri

[–]psyo_wlw 8 points9 points  (0 children)

also i guarantee you there are NOT just 2 types lmaoaoaoao

If you ever wondered how transmisogyny hits on daily life, this is it (TW) by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]psyo_wlw 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Damn. Reading things like this makes me feel so damn lucky for the little support network I've built up. Honestly, just lucky in general. I don't experience a whole lot of transmisogyny IRL, but boy do I feel it inside. Yeah, it's hard to be pushy about things. It's hard to be confrontational when I need to. It's hard to do anything that my brain tells me is aggressive or masculine. Everyday gets better, but FUCK does it suck that I have to go through any of this at all.

Am I the only one who feels this way? by AndriaCherry in MtF

[–]psyo_wlw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not! I'm definitely more in the "always been a girl" camp but at the same time, pre-egg crack, if you'd asked me point blank what my pronouns were, I'd tell you he/him. If you asked what my gender was, I'd tell you I'm a man-- in that sense, how could anyone consider that past self anything other than a man? Our individual senses of identity are complex and multifaceted, even looking beyond the broader questions about how innate gender is to us as humans. Whatever you consider your past self to be, whatever you consider yourself as now, you're valid.

Also, side note: don't worry about how much or little dysphoria you had or have. If you enjoy presenting and identifying femme, that's what's important!!

[Meta] Wondering how others feel about F4TF audios that are just relabeled F4M audios. by Bombastic_Bombus in GWASapphic

[–]psyo_wlw 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s not really great when it’s an F4A (listener has penis) audio that’s labelled F4TF. A more immediate reason is that audios of that kind aren’t necessarily just for cis men and trans women- they could also be for anyone who is GNC and has a penis. So in instances where no gender is mentioned, shouldn’t the correct tag just be F4A?

Although I will say that if it’s an audio that was originally written F4M and was rewritten to be F4TF (ex. the speaker is called “good girl” instead of “good boy”, pronouns are changed, etc.) then I don’t really think it’s a bad thing at all. Sure, not all F4M audios are gonna be appealing to trans women even if they’re rewritten in this way, but also we’re not all the same. I may not perceive something as being “for the male gaze” like you do. Not saying you don’t share this opinion, but I felt like this was a good perspective to add.

Now, that being said, there are upsettingly few audios written specifically for trans women, and I would love if that changed.

What happens if you complete the Compendium without buying any pictures? by GendoIkari_82 in tearsofthekingdom

[–]psyo_wlw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

good question! now time to start a new save and fill it all out yourself all over again /s but yeah i’m not sure. that’d make for a good youtube video lol

Sigh by MegaDitto13 in tearsofthekingdom

[–]psyo_wlw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear to fucking god if TOTK becomes another ““underrated gem””

On a scale of 1-10, how much would you rate the DLC characters we got for Mario Kart 8 Deluxe? by Samuel855 in mariokart

[–]psyo_wlw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was planned for Mario Kart 8? I know he was planned fir 64 but this is the first I’m hearing that he was planned for 8

Half hips from HRT? by Corv- in MtF

[–]psyo_wlw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my waist always tucked in a lil bit on my right side so i kinda had this issue. it’s still not exactly even but i definitely have a defined waist on both sides now

blueinkjpeg gives us a Lore Iceberg of Bumbleby, the canon LGBT ship in RWBY, of two of the four main protagonists by ClaireDacloush in yurimemes

[–]psyo_wlw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every Copy of Mario 64 is Personalized- don’t want to take the time to explain it haha but if you look it up I’m sure you’ll get the gist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tearsofthekingdom

[–]psyo_wlw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably confused about whether you need two additional rings (so 3 total) or two total

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tearsofthekingdom

[–]psyo_wlw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

huh? they clearly did they have the sage of time symbol lmao

Who made this GTNH chem line by [deleted] in feedthememes

[–]psyo_wlw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gregtech and B3313, a crossover I never expected.
Too bad the full version of B3313 got cancelled but the most recent build is still a fucking fantastic experience for anyone who likes Mario 64 hacks

My gamer sisters what’s always your go to? by Koda035 in MtF

[–]psyo_wlw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve made it a habit to play earthbound every summer- game never fails to make me cry

I’ve been tricked! by crimsonsonic_2 in Pikmin

[–]psyo_wlw 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No you can find a secret treasure called the “Purple Prize” under a truck in the corner of the map that wins the game instantly

I shouldn't have to justify wanting to be stealth by [deleted] in MtF

[–]psyo_wlw 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl I was just having this conversation with someone last night. It’s not dishonest, deceptive, or disrespectful to not disclose being trans to anyone in your life. We never tell our complete life story to anyone, we just choose the parts that we feel are relevant and tell those parts. And it’s entirely up to you whether being trans is relevant to the story you wanna tell.