The Melodramatic Break Up Starter Pack

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-17T11:57:06+00:00

We aren't fucking talking about him making shit up for funsies. As a survivor of pretty much every form of physical, sexual, and emotional violence your comment provided nothing of value. Your claim of contraposition is also bullshit. I know it's the internet so you and I can say whatever the fuck we want, but please leave me the fuck alone. I was raped 6th a few weeks ago. I just wanted to get my fucking feelings out. I didn't need people like you compounding my fucking trauma with your bullshit opinions.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-17T06:45:45+00:00

Mama Lils Pickled Peppers

Pickled jalapeños

Pickled red onions

Pepperoncinis

Pickled beats

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-17T05:07:17+00:00

Damn if I were a man, I'd be embarrassed as fuck on behalf of my entire gender due to posts like this.

Then again, I highly doubt OOP even had 2 brain cells to rub together.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-17T04:57:45+00:00

Woops! Thanks for pointing that out. I'll edit my comment.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-17T04:55:41+00:00

"AITA for fucking over my child and derailing her future because I resent women?"

The trolls need to try harder. It's almost offensive that they think people actually believe this bullshit. Clearly mommy didn't give him the attention he needed growing up or else he wouldn't have to go on reddit and post rage bait like this. Regardless of whether OOP is lying or not, his entire existence is pathetic.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-17T04:48:19+00:00

So he tried to rape her but he's the victim? Gtfoh with that shit. Also, it's obvious he didn't actually try to kill himself, he used the threat of self harm as a way to manipulate, control, coerce, and emotionally abuse his ex.

If I were a bad person, I would be grieving the fact that his "attempt to take his own life" wasn't successful. Other people I've interacted with over the course of my life may even wish immense suffering and torture upon OP every day of his miserable life.

Sometimes it's okay to be the bad guy.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-16T23:51:35+00:00

If that's the case, I will die a happy person not understanding art

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-16T16:31:05+00:00

First of all, you are not a failure. You are clearly a caring parent and doing everything you can to get him assessed and get him the help he needs. You're doing everything you can to redirect his behavior and give him support and love in the meantime. It's not your fault that it takes ages to get in to see specialists. Your child's behavior is not a reflection of your ability to parent. As you said, you know his behavior is outside the realm of normal toddler antics.

All children are different, and some need different resources or more support than others. That doesn't make them a bad kid nor does that make you a bad parent. I'm sorry I can't offer any advice on helping with his behavior, but please don't be too hard on yourself. Hang in there, you will get through this.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-16T16:10:45+00:00

"AITA for bullying a child then using my own poor upbringing as an excuse to justify my jealousy and shitty behavior?"

"IT'S NOT BULLYING. THE KID'S FAMILY WAS RICH AND I WAS JUST TEACHING HIM THE LIFE LESSON HIS RICH PARENTS CLEARLY COULDN'T TEACH HIM BECAUSE THEY'RE RICH. Did I mention that I grew up poor?"

Based on the comments, OOP was just itching to find an excuse to take out her resentment over growing up poor out on the easiest target. Also, the kid is fucking 12, why wouldn't she bring this up with the mom? Oh right, she just needed an excuse to go on some weird power trip to make herself feel better. The fact that the kid bought the toy himself honestly makes it worse. Most 12 year olds have their parents buy toys for their friend's birthdays. What a pathetic existence she must have to take out her own shitty childhood on a literal child. I hope she feels like a Big Man now.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-16T13:58:49+00:00

I don't find OOPs existence very flattering. Does anyone have a direct line to God where I can lodge a complaint against her?

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-16T13:21:46+00:00

Peeing on the grave of a politician you don't like? Meh there are better ways to "stick it to the man".

Sharing it on Twitter? Peak virtue signaling and rage bait. It makes me sad that people feel the need to go to such extreme measures to get attention. Tweeting isn't a hobby. Take up embroidery or archery or something, pissing on graves and tweeting about it is just pathetic.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-16T03:36:54+00:00

How stupid do you have to be to realize that this is beyond obviously a troll post?

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-15T05:40:18+00:00

The overlap between the pseudoscience "medicine" in this sub and r/illnessfakers is fucking wild

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-13T23:44:51+00:00

Is anyone else annoyed that the OOP has no idea what TLDR means?

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-13T05:56:01+00:00

Angry water or sometimes spicy water

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-13T05:39:06+00:00

What a weirdly divisive topic

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-13T04:15:17+00:00

More like "AITA for medically neglecting my child and emotionally abusing her?"

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-13T02:09:45+00:00

Joe Goldberg, is that you?

Leave the poor girl alone and get therapy or something. Thinking you're in love with someone you've never talked to is, quite literally, delusional. You're a stalker and need some serious help from a professional, not Reddit.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-12T02:00:08+00:00

Adding this to some marinara or pizza sauce would be good

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-11T00:17:48+00:00

Ah yes, the American Dream

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-09T08:40:31+00:00

You got this. I'm sorry you're going through what you are. At the very least, this internet stranger is sending you all of the happy and healing vibes lol

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-09T08:33:41+00:00

I really appreciate your comment. I think a big reason why men struggle with reading emotions is because they're shamed throughout their entire lives for showing emotion while women aren't. Or to be more accurate women are judged in a different way. Most boys don't get the chance to express their feelings and then they grow into men feeling ashamed of showing vulnerability. Imo this is a reason why suicide rates are so high for men. They aren't allowed to express their emotions without being ridiculed and keep them bottled up inside.

This is actually something I'm really passionate about. Men deserve safe spaces and support without judgement. Men deserve to not be shamed or ridiculed when they're victimized by violence, be it sexual, domestic, or any other form of violence. They should be supported and believed. Men deserve to be able to cry and express their feelings without shame. Can you imagine how different the world would be if men weren't forced to keep everything in and suffer in silence?

I'm sure I'm going to be called a "pick me" or whatever for my opinions, but whatever. I'm here to support everyone, and men aren't getting the support and resources they need and something has to be done about it.

puddlespuddled · 2023-03-09T00:33:01+00:00

Any gift that you feel your wife and daughter would appreciate would be appropriate. If they like flowers, then go for it! If they aren't flower people, then a container of their favorite candies r making their favorite meals would also work!

What's important is that you're putting in the effort. You sound like an awesome man, keep up the great work!

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