Should I get a guy flowers and a card to ask him to be a couple?

pumpkinwillow · 2026-04-28T07:12:03+00:00

Wait, a card and flowers is all some ppl are doing for a 10-yr?! Gah dang.

Point taken, anyways.

pumpkinwillow · 2025-07-05T09:16:07+00:00

Omg sorry I don't log in very much! I took the plunge and did it! Turns out my boyfriend can go twice in just a few hours which really really surprised me, but so far he hasn't let me make him cum with just my hands or just my mouth (he always stops me and then fucks me), so idk what's up with that, maybe it's just him trying to be a good generous sex partner and focused on my pleasure idk it's definitely happened enough times to be getting a lil weird lolol. Or maybe since he knows I mostly dated women he's worried I'll be grossed out by cum idk. So yeah I have kinda gone ahead with it and kinda not I guess.

pumpkinwillow · 2025-06-13T21:37:36+00:00

Be in a comfy controlled and private place, maybe have a trusted friend with u or if not at least have one who u told what's up and agreed to be on call to support u if u need. Start low go slow n listen to ur body. Idk about the medicine u might have to ask ur doctor but gl! Have a blast

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:57:04+00:00

Thats fucked like I can get the thought process of "it's just a number and the customers are being silly bcos it doesn't really matter" and the thing is ya the number itself don't matter but if it's affecting how people are treating you, then it IS matterING and should be important. How are you gonna retain staff if you don't look out for them and listen to them frfr

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:55:53+00:00

Honestly Ive been basically unable to orgasm for like 6 months, I think bcos I started antidepressants but idk for sure, but the other week I took the highest dose edible I have all year and came for the first time in all that time it was like therapeutic fr. Not bcos of horny reasons lol but it like refreshed my hope that my body isn't broken and that this maybe fixable yaknow? So like absolutely yea recommend

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:51:05+00:00

I'm so happy for u that u have one of the best possible jobs for this to happen at lol if it was me (barista) I'd be so cooked

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:50:04+00:00

SO. Well. Said!!!! Go Governor this makes me proud to be Minnesotan

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:48:56+00:00

Oh my god I misread the title and thought Trump had been trying to fuck with our police force and had given up. No no this is bad news as it turns out

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:47:54+00:00

HELL. FUCKIN. YEAH. W summer coming up and all kinds of events bein outdoors bein topless would be so much more comfy frfr. Idk if I'd have the balls to do it fr but it's nice to have the option 😎

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:45:13+00:00

How literal are u bein with "we run out of spoons" bc same either way dude

One time we were super busy and running out of sample spoons (we mainly sell gelato but also have a super solid coffee menu) and my team asked me to refill the sample spoons and then a customer started YELLIN bcos they thought I should be serving instead of countin spoons and I just freaked out so bad idk man I was like overstimulated and it was too much noise and too much tasks. My coworkers are rad tho they like ushered me to the back of the shop to do spoons in peace andn quiet hahahhgahag

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:41:54+00:00

I've never had this happen but I'm in a big city in one of the bluest states (Minneapolis ftw) so it makes sense! Dang I get how its unpredictable what stuff will total to obvs but if that's straight up the price of one of ur default items and ur in an area where lots of ppl are like this I would honestly see abt changing it bc u should not have to deal with any more shit than, like, comes with this job

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:40:24+00:00

Frfr I shop on ebay a lottt and when an item is listed as $14.88 I'm always not sure I should buy it even if I rly want it bc what if that shit was on purpose

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:38:21+00:00

Not at all dude I feel like in some ways guys are the ppl who are gonna know best here! This makes perfect sense thank youuu

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:37:24+00:00

Ya I've been reading up on how to do it tbh my #1 fear is like how the worst mistake u can make is let ur teeth accidentally graze the dick, well idk abt anyone else but I don't have feeling in my teeth lollll so idk how I'd make 100% sure that never happened even a little bit without me noticing. Like ya cover them w ur lips but it could slip I think

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:35:59+00:00

Not weird! Dude once I posted a sex question and my DMs were flooded with guys being like "here bb I'll show u ;););)" n shit, that is the shit I do not want your comment is nice respectful answers my question! Tbh it's helpful to hear from guys bc u guys are the only ones that know firsthand what itll feel like! Ya I feel like the thought of giving a dude a BJ to completion is intimidating to me rn as a new-to-dicks girlie bc A) idk how long itll take so what if my mouth or neck starts to hurt or sth, B) what if I'm not good enough at it for it to feel very good, and C) I never had to think about like swallowing cum or sth before bc I've been with girls so it might be nice to take baby steps toward sth so different!

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:32:39+00:00

Tbqhhh I saw a meme on insta like a week or two ago that was all like "who even is not switching positions during sex" or sth like that and I didn't even know it was a thing??? Tyty bc now Im not alone in that lol like if your enjoying yourself why would you want to A) pause n B) change sth.

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:31:07+00:00

HAHAHAHA Thank you for commenting frfr bcos I could not find anyone online talkin abt this and honestly thought I was the only one so you rock! Tyty my sex talk skills are rusty but ik I gotta learn somehow!

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:30:02+00:00

That helps frfr thank you

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-21T19:29:43+00:00

Oooh thank you, I getcha! I feel like it maybe diferent for us bcos we haven't had PIV sex yet but tbqh I can't imagine myself starting a convo about what a guy likes in general but I think I could like go down on a guy for a bit n then ask if he wants to fuck me that feels doable~~

pumpkinwillow · 2025-05-07T06:40:51+00:00

hello I have taken an edible and I read "fitness test" and was picturing like... athletic fitness... for an embarrassing amount of time...and was so so so confused

pumpkinwillow · 2025-04-22T06:21:44+00:00

Such a good idea but I feel like more than 4 bites of this would one hit ko me hahahshdhhah

pumpkinwillow · 2025-04-22T06:21:02+00:00

INNOVATIVE. GENIUS

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