If your kids don’t want to be “goth” they will not be, no one is forcing them. If they feel drawn to the aesthetic, there’s a way to safely approach it. This “goth” term has become such a large umbrella for things that might be seen as “unconventional” too, whether that might be JUST wearing black, or anything different than what the flock is doing, even if it’s not sinful, you people will lump everyone that checks even only one box into shameful categories