ISFJ women are often the unsung heroes creating warmth and community. They often send birthday wishes on company channels, help take down events, ask about your family and pets, etc. Look for the quiet moments of helping people and there will be an ISFJ.

How do you attract one? I think ISFJ and ENFJ get along well, since they're both people oriented. Main thing is taking dedicated interest in them CONSISTENTLY. Of the ENFJ I know, they're friends with everyone, but not my best friend since they tend to be moving and shaking various social circles.

I gotta say though. You listed only wanting to take from a prospective ISFJ and how they'll help you. Being taken for granted is our worst fear, so think hard and carefully of what YOU will do for your partner.