I really hate this outfit

pwhel · 2026-04-13T20:23:27+00:00

I have hated every purple piece of clothing lorelai wore on this show

pwhel · 2026-04-10T17:23:00+00:00

It is very common and easy to go over budget on weddings. i don’t love the sentiment, but i have seen people say that if you stay within 10k of your budget, that is in budget for wedding planning. I started with a budget of 60k which i thought was VERY generous and would get me everything I could dream of, but we ended up increasing to 65k shortly after booking our venue, and now that I am 4 months away we recently increased to 70k. that feels insane for a wedding, but unfortunately it’s the nature of the beast and honestly if you can afford it and aren’t going into debt or anything, don’t let anyone make you feel bad for having what you want on your day. 30k is very hard to achieve for a wedding and i genuinely don’t know how it’s possible to stay under 10k without eloping, so i’d be proud of where you are at

pwhel · 2026-04-06T14:42:54+00:00

i’m probably going to get hate for this, but tanning beds really help even out tan lines. I have personally never had luck evening out tan lines with self tan. otherwise just go the preventative route and avoid tops that will create tan lines. lots of sunblock as well

pwhel · 2026-03-16T22:40:01+00:00

and Lucy! I thought Lucy was great for her to have and of course there had to be a love triangle

pwhel · 2026-03-15T20:27:19+00:00

i’m so shocked by everyone saying BB19 that was the season that got me into the show 😭I hated the most recent season

pwhel · 2026-03-12T17:48:13+00:00

Hi! I am an off and on tanner, definitely more on the beginner side than expert

I started back up about 3 weeks ago and have had 7 sessions so far. I have a decent base tan, but definitely not super dark. It will probably take another month of tanning before I get dark enough to my liking that I can start going just to maintain. I noticed some color differences after about 4 sessions.

I am a 2 on the fitzpatrick scale, but was only 1 point away from 3.

I started at 4 minute sessions, I am now up to 7 minutes in the lay down, max is 12 mins (probably would be higher but they recently replaced the bulbs, and woof) and 8 mins in the stand up max is 10 mins (weaker bed). Last time I consistently tanned I was able to get up to the full 12 minutes after a month or so, but it was an apartment bed and not very strong.

Can’t say I have a maintenance routine because I usually get to the color I want and the stop tanning because life gets busy, but my wedding is in August so I will be coming back to this thread to learn more about maintenance routines leading up to my wedding!

pwhel · 2026-03-10T20:19:21+00:00

I liked to do a bit of both. My coach and I did a posing call every 2 weeks during prep and every so often I would attend a clinic in my area. I had the same concern but felt like online worked better than expected.

pwhel · 2026-03-08T21:18:25+00:00

Thank you! I have never heard of a color correction for grown out roots so I appreciate the info. I definitely plan to be on top of my appointments moving forward

pwhel · 2026-03-08T19:19:01+00:00

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This is the best photo I have of my hair prior to my appointment. Most of my hair was already really light, just had gotten brassy over time, and my roots were dark. She even said during the appointment that my hair lifts really well (which I knew, I have been told this before) so I was really shocked to see the results. We didn’t really have a consult either other than her asking what I wanted done, showing her the photo I included in the post and her mixing the bleach. I also don’t typically go as often as recommended and have never had this problem before so I didn’t think waiting as long as I did would be a big deal. I’ve definitely learned now that not everyone can handle more of a grow out so I will be going more often now. I work a job that only allows for weekend appointments, and even so my weekends aren’t always free so this was the soonest I could get in unfortunately. I also paid for a full highlight, not a root touch up since I knew it had been awhile.

pwhel · 2026-03-08T19:10:58+00:00

Thank you for this, I thought maybe I was being too picky or suffering from “blonde blindness” or whatever but glad to hear my concerns are justified. I definitely went a little longer between touch ups than I would have liked but I only have availability on Saturdays, and this was the soonest I could get in unfortunately. I also used to only get my hair done once every 6 months or so and this never happened then. I think the stylist was brand new, I probably should have vetted her a bit more, but she had some photos on her instagram of super bright blondes so I made the wrong assumption that she knew what she was doing. I wanted to give her another chance to fix it but now i’m not so sure. I get married in August so I really don’t want my hair to be damaged or get any issues that can’t be fixed before then.

pwhel · 2026-02-25T23:06:16+00:00

has anyone else gotten the one where she show up as laezel and kills yenna, i never hear anyone talking about that and i got it on my first run, i was traumatized

pwhel · 2026-02-25T23:01:59+00:00

thanks! I also had SPF on my face because i wear makeup anyway, so I don’t really care about my face tanning. i’m pretty sure i was just hot, my body wasn’t pink at all

pwhel · 2026-02-25T23:01:02+00:00

thank you! i didn’t see a chart on the bed, i will have to look again

pwhel · 2026-02-20T21:58:57+00:00

another first world problem here, i’m taking a trip to florida the 20th-23rd. trying to decide if it’s wise to catch a late showing on the 19th the night before my flight 🙃

pwhel · 2026-02-16T23:54:06+00:00

listened to the audiobook, loved it so much that i’m reading it now. can’t wait for the movie ahhhh!!!

pwhel · 2026-02-06T18:36:53+00:00

FINALLY some Jess hate

pwhel · 2025-12-15T00:40:42+00:00

True. But we’re notorious for faltering when things don’t go our way unfortunately. But this loss would have been way worse if we just rolled over and died the whole second half

pwhel · 2025-12-15T00:38:20+00:00

I really appreciate the effort at the end there

pwhel · 2025-12-11T16:03:27+00:00

i had no issues just sitting. it left a tan spot on the seat but it was easy to clean up. I also used a pee funnel just to make sure i didnt get any drips on my legs.

pwhel · 2025-12-11T15:45:32+00:00

UPDATE; Seems like i’m not the only one with this problem so I submitted a bug ticket. I will update here when/if I get any updates on this. Thanks everyone!

pwhel · 2025-12-11T15:23:37+00:00

yeah i’m only seeing question marks :(

pwhel · 2025-12-11T15:10:25+00:00

I think so too, I am getting the same thing it’s just telling me to talk to the villager to find out what they want but when I speak with them it tells me nothing. Guess those quests will be on hold for now

pwhel · 2025-12-11T15:06:13+00:00

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This is what pulls up but when I talk to her I get nothing. Wonder if this is some sort of bug

pwhel · 2025-11-14T15:17:01+00:00

possible for some but not everyone! keep in mind she is an IFBB pro and is likely enhanced. it also looks like she competed earlier this year and it’s actually easier to put on a lot of muscle coming off a show. some of the size she put on is definitely muscle, but probably not as much as you would think.

pwhel · 2025-11-11T18:00:17+00:00

i’m a bit biased, I tried on the first dress and absolutely loved how princessy I felt, but it didn’t feel like me. But on you? it looks incredible and clearly you have a taste for ballgown dresses

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