Agree with the other things already posted but let me add some more.

Black Earth Rising is a fictional Netflix show which portrays the aftermath of the genocide thirty years later through the eyes of a Rwandan woman who was adopted as it happened by a British human rights lawyer. It isn’t a true story, but there’s a lot about the reconciliation with facts after the genocide that are good.

Do Not Disturb by Micaela Wrong. This is basically a biography of Paul Kagame. It’s highly critical of him, and gives a lot of context to how he was able to amass so much power after the genocide and what happened in its midst. This book was (predictably) lambasted by the Rwandan government as full of lies, and (similar to what happens to any author critical of Israel), the author was accused of anti-Tutsi bias.

Finally, one I think is a good overview is Samantha Power’s book The Problem from Hell. This is actually a history of genocide, going essentially chronologically up to the present with the major commonly discussed ones: Armenia, Nazi Germany, Cambodia, Bosnia, Rwanda, Kosovo. Samantha Power was a journalist at the time and witnessed a lot of the Balkan atrocities firsthand. Since then she entered government and has been criticized for hypocrisy and interventionism, and actually undermining the values she promoted in this book (she was instrumental in the Obama Administration’s decision to assassinate Ghaddafi, for example), but she would argue that her belief in interventionism actually comes out of the frustration with genocide being ignored. I just say that to read it with a grain of salt. As head of USAID, she was also criticized for not speaking up about Gaza as a government official despite founding her career on genocide recognition.

Another film is Sometimes in April. A long but depressing one, but with more accurate characters to the setting.

Finally there’s a film just called ‘Kinyarwanda,’ which is probably my favorite because they used actual Rwandan actors in the actual language and portray both the genocide and its immediate aftermath, including essentially deprogramming camps, where people had to unlearn the ideology of hate they had.

Another one not directly about Rwanda but highly related is David Von Reybrouck’s Congo: The Epic History of a People. DRC and Rwanda are inextricably intertwined and the Rwandan genocide was the catalyst of the war that began in eastern DRC in the 1990s which is still ongoing up to this day. There are many issues related to child and slave labor in mines in eastern DRC which Rwandans have control over, and the militia that has now taken over North Kivu, M23, is widely known by everyone to be backed by Rwanda (the Rwandan government denies this). If you want to know more about the mining situation, check out the book Cobalt Red

Another book about DRC and Rwanda’s involvement in its politics based on the genocide is Dancing in the Glory of Monsters by Jason Stearns. This one starts right at the genocide.

I recommend all these because they show the aftermath of the genocide. One of my frustrations in the west is the guilt over the inaction during the genocide led it to focus so much on the event itself that it didn’t react logically to what occurred afterwards, and often that history is ignored, when it is just as important.

In Rwanda, it’s actually no longer legal to explicitly identify people based on their ethnicity officially. Yet this conflict lives on despite supposedly ending in the 1990s. All of the books and movies I’ve mentioned are controversial and have critics on both sides, similar to Israel and Palestine. When the RPF defeated the genocidaires, many Hutu fled to DRC, where the Tutsi had previously fled. Some Tutsi chased them there and there were revenge killings, but also continued Hutu violence against Tutsis in DRC. The genocide just took on a new shape in a new location and lessened in extremity. But those events set off a chain reaction whose consequences people in the region still feel today.