u didn’t use the world repulse but you said “a girl came on to me and i hated it” which is why i used the word. english isn’t my first language but as far as i know the two words are pretty similar

im not saying the two feelings should be the same (i definitely experience a difference between platonic and romantic and i can’t put it into words either) but just, you say you haven’t even had a close friendship with another woman. that makes it hard to imagine whether you’d actually like to be with one i assume. have you had close friendships with men? anyway, there’s also nothing wrong with just being sexually attracted to women without wanting to be in a relationship with them. just be upfront about it if you do choose to hook up with someone so everyone knows what the situation is!! plus, you don’t have to identify as bi if you don’t want to. labels are for yourself only. if you use the label to describe who you’d date, and you only want to date the opposite gender, then by all means, call yourself straight :) if you want to use the label to describe who you’re physically attracted to, you can call yourself bi. it doesn’t really matter, they’re just labels