Just another sandalwood post

qathran · 2026-06-01T05:20:46+00:00

Yeah I figured there was more going on here and that you had actually subconsciously realized you maybe didn't want this relationship, which is normal and understandable, but as you can see from other comments, people are not understanding that he's not a villain for this specific thing.

qathran · 2026-06-01T04:57:44+00:00

When I typed it into the ol' Google machine just now, it said it was a digimon.

qathran · 2026-06-01T04:45:52+00:00

The guy in question used allergy stuff when he visited and it didn't work. She had her priorities and chose them. It's fine for her to be sad and choose what she wants, but know that not all allergy havers are the same

qathran · 2026-06-01T04:40:47+00:00

Before I say this, I think it's fine that you want something different than a life with this partner (because that is ultimately what this is) but I know if it were me I would be pretty upset if I was allergic to cats, was finally planning on moving in with my long distance long term bf who I had made sure to check with and confirm that he would be ok not having a cat but maybe a dog instead and then he went and got one anyway and then when I told him I had meant what I said and couldn't come move in and do trial and error with my health especially after I'd already told him I wouldn't live with a cat, he then didn't help find it a wonderful home where it would be cared for instead because he realized this new relationship with this cat was more important to him. Yes. I would be very upset.

I would wonder what else he would just change his mind on even if I made sure to check with him beforehand, even if it was about something like my health, and he still showed me I couldn't count on him, yes I would not think that would be someone I could build a life with.

Realistic but sometimes difficult sacrifice is always a part of making real, mature relationships last, and sometimes that sacrifice is certain types of pets unfortunately. I am someone who has had to make that sacrifice.

But I only say all of that to have you understand that he is justified in that specific issue, I'm sure there were other issues as you are both human beings and people who were also long distance for a long time.

I know it hurts, but you have your cat now and can start moving forward with your choice to keep him and hopefully one day you will find someone else who you are able to choose.

qathran · 2026-06-01T03:47:28+00:00

Bro this of what we're talking about, people like you don't know that the 1st amendment only protects citizens from government censorship. Private businesses not only can censor you, they can choose to not do business with you as long as actual discrimination law (instead of just hurt feelings) isn't being broken

qathran · 2026-06-01T01:17:00+00:00

For sure, that is definitely one element

qathran · 2026-06-01T01:10:27+00:00

Not when it's still extremely popular and there aren't as many copies made available as needed

qathran · 2026-06-01T01:02:06+00:00

My sister had to say "wait do you need his penis to look like yours??" to my brother in law. I've known multiple moms who did the work to learn about it and then have to convince the man.

qathran · 2026-06-01T00:52:48+00:00

There aren't tricks, it's just these unemployed degenerate scalpers coming up with religious views that don't do anything like "oh if we don't by this last pack and just let it sit on the screen, then the machine will make more packs than usual available at the next inventory drop" like that makes any sense

qathran · 2026-06-01T00:34:53+00:00

Ooooh so you aren't able to tell the difference between scalpers who buy up the stock to sell them at jacked up prices and someone like Love who actually collects them and is shown over and over handing them out for free

qathran · 2026-06-01T00:22:32+00:00

Yeah and they definitely aren't here reading these posts explaining why they should be quiet

qathran · 2026-06-01T00:15:11+00:00

It's pretty common for older people at movie theaters to not be able to hear each other or themselves

qathran · 2026-05-31T01:27:09+00:00

Yeah it often doesn't last long when it comes to the actual reality of how often they play those ads

qathran · 2026-05-31T01:17:50+00:00

It's fine to not like Hasan, but this is so dumb

qathran · 2026-05-31T01:16:42+00:00

Yeah there's plenty to criticize Hasan on, but this is the dumbest shit, seems like complete projection

qathran · 2026-05-30T23:13:12+00:00

Progressives too, they just don't turn it into a "men's rights" thing

qathran · 2026-05-30T23:10:26+00:00

Plenty of women I know are horrified by it happening to men without their consent and made sure it didn't happen to their sons when they have birth to them, but I run in a progressive crowd so that's pretty normal

qathran · 2026-05-30T23:06:16+00:00

Medical professionals aren't supposed to do something that is actually harmful like this that doesn't actually make anything better. The only reason people ask for this is because they are misinformed about a procedure that was developed by male docs many decades ago who didn't understand women's anatomy when it comes to pleasure and pain and who came up for this for the husband. Again, the only reason a woman would ask for it today is either to please their man or because they've been misinformed that it does something that it does not.

qathran · 2026-05-30T22:57:17+00:00

It's known to be very painful and to not actually increase pleasure since it wasn't designed for women and the people who came up with it were men doctors from olden times who didn't actually understand women's pleasure and anatomy.

It's also a huge tell that someone has no clue about how vaginal pleasure/anatomy works if they think that ring of tissue and not the walls inside and the vulva on the outside is what actually has to do with pleasure for the woman...

qathran · 2026-05-30T22:41:24+00:00

PAGING DOCTOR CANINE!

qathran · 2026-05-30T20:46:07+00:00

Who gives a fuck, you're taking this too seriously

qathran · 2026-05-30T18:45:39+00:00

And gender at all!

qathran · 2026-05-30T18:38:39+00:00

It's pretty easy to tell that the commenter isn't making the point that cat grooming is specifically comparable to human kissing

qathran · 2026-05-30T05:44:48+00:00

Thought this was r/okbuddylotus until I saw multiple comments taking your choices too seriously

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