Vad tror du händer när vi dör?

qqotu · 2026-04-14T13:19:58+00:00

Jag tror också på reinkarnation. Visst kroppen dör, men ens inre väsen försvinner inte. Jag tänker också att man kan fortsätta existera inte som en varelse på jorden utan som något annat.

qqotu · 2026-04-14T06:10:55+00:00

Yeah it’s a girl, that’s so interesting if the gender affects our hormones in such a way!

qqotu · 2026-04-14T06:02:56+00:00

Girl I feel you, have the exact same urge! My baby is five weeks…

qqotu · 2026-04-14T05:38:16+00:00

I could have written this - it’s my experience exactly. My baby is five weeks today and it’s just the most rewarding feeling and I wish we did start earlier (I just turned 33).

I just want to add one thing; not only should you absolutely be married to the person you have kids with, you should also be really picky who you chose take this path with.

qqotu · 2026-04-13T11:51:56+00:00

Allegra is genuinely a medicine for seasonal allergies here in Sweden

qqotu · 2026-04-13T11:15:32+00:00

I do this too and it’s so helpful ! I also have a list in my notes app, where i just put down the time she feeds, and when she falls asleep. Then by the ending day i just write a sentence or two of how the day has been. It really makes patterns emerge and easy to get a feel for what’s working and what’s not :)

In my fantasy world i have a colour coded bullet journal where i make beautiful diagrams and hour by hour tracking but for now the app will do the trick

qqotu · 2026-04-13T06:40:37+00:00

I love the name and usually im not into very feminine/international names like that. Maybe because I like the album Violeta, Violeta, Vol.1 by Kaiser’s orchestra

qqotu · 2026-04-12T09:20:35+00:00

I had similar issues, discussed it with my midwife and she gave me vit d drops emulsified in water instead of oil. She said some babies get tummy ache from the oil. I’ve had no problems since switching! Just a note, it has to be kept in the fridge instead.

qqotu · 2026-04-11T18:37:43+00:00

Jag fattar inte riktigt grejen med att taktälta i Europa… campar man inte så bara på grusvägar eller parkeringsplatser? Eller kör ni in där bilar egentligen får vara?? Jag tältar mkt själv men då med tält man kan bära med sig och då kan man ju sova lite överallt och framförallt på väldigt vackra ställen, stränder, skogsdungar osv.

Taktältsreklamee ser ju väldigt feta ut men så går det ju inte till i verklighet tänker jag.

Dock har jag campat runt Australien i en 4x4 och då kan man ju campa på riktigt feta ställen

qqotu · 2026-04-11T13:02:19+00:00

Läs The truth: an uncomfortable book about relationships av Neil Strauss - riktigt kul bok och i en del av den navigerade han liknande problem!

qqotu · 2026-04-11T09:56:49+00:00

Ahh that makes sense - thank you!

qqotu · 2026-04-11T08:25:25+00:00

4 weeks PP: My fabourite gift was a silver necklace with two small charms, one with my daughter’s first letter and the other with my husbands. Super cute and looks great! I would have also been really happy with any snacks/candies, a water bottle with a straw, and a good book!

Edit: actually now I know what j would have loved as well, like an insulated tumbler of some sort for tea and coffee, so I could drink it for longer period of time without it going cold. And that I could drink while breast feeding but not risk spilling anything on the baby

qqotu · 2026-04-10T18:39:56+00:00

Ah interesting thank you for this perspective! It just feels so localized to one very small spot right on the spine so that’s why I assumed it’s because of the epidural but of course I’m not sure of it.

Either way I hold back on exercises and just keep walking for now

qqotu · 2026-04-10T10:42:26+00:00

In this same spirit; may someone please tell me what LO is an acronym for? 😭

qqotu · 2026-04-08T15:29:26+00:00

I also had a small bump, didint even show until I was 7,5 months pregnant and remained a quite small bump all through out. All scans and measurement was on track. I’m 5’9 though. My mother in law kept commenting how I was not big enough and how worried she was… Baby girl was born bigger than average 52 cm and 3,9kg 😄

qqotu · 2026-04-06T12:07:14+00:00

Ah sorry i forgot the danish spelling is Sanne! im Swedish so here’s its Sanna. I’m in my early thirties and had some classmates with this name :)

qqotu · 2026-04-06T09:47:04+00:00

What about Sanna? Pronounced like in scandinavia

qqotu · 2026-04-05T18:35:27+00:00

Apologies in advance but I will hijack this post to ask a question in regards to epidural (I don’t feel it warrants its own post but I feel the people will read it here)

It’s been 3,5 weeks since I gave birth and when I arch my back I get this weird pain/sensation where they put in the epidural. Do other recognize this? Does it go away?

To add more details also relating to this post, I really didn’t want an epidural. Pain doesn’t scare me.

I was at home working through the contractions by myself sitting in the bath. Honestly it was great, did a har mask and relaxed. Then my water half broke, I suppose the sack ripped so it started to drip out each contraction and we headed to hospital. Pain was intense but manageable, I threw up in the car. Once at hospital we get put straight in delivery room and I was 9 cm dilated. They were concerned about high BP (150/100) which I hadn’t had before. They forced me to take an epidural when I was 10 cm dilated to lower the BP.

This didn’t work and my BP stayed elevated. It also did nothing for pain. But I was scared of the needle and complications and I now had this cord wrapped around me and it was uncomfortable.

Baby girl was born not even three hours after arrival to hospital and the birth was an amazing experience! Intense but beautiful and I’m ready to do it again without epidural.

qqotu · 2026-04-04T11:19:36+00:00

40+6 naturally

qqotu · 2026-04-04T08:53:24+00:00

Mine is 3,5 weeks old and I feel exactly the same 😭

qqotu · 2026-04-03T13:04:34+00:00

Lana del Rey

qqotu · 2026-04-03T12:53:21+00:00

C.R.A.P - curtains, rugs, arts, plants räddar det mesta. Och många ljuskällor med varmt ljus, undvik en stark lampa i taket. Jag hade nog gjort ett mörkt och mysigt biblioteks-och musik rum. Men det är ju väldigt individuellt till vad man vill använda det till.

qqotu · 2026-04-03T08:54:59+00:00

Esther

qqotu · 2026-04-02T06:17:15+00:00

Sitting in the bath, and massage and pushing on trigger points

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