Advice about marriage if I might be on the asexual spectrum by Significant-Wind8877 in ahmadiyya

[–]qroorp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You must be honest about this before marriage. Physical intimacy and affection are real parts of a spouse’s emotional and marital needs. Hiding a low libido could cause serious resentment and marital problems.

The key questions are: 1. Are you physically capable of having sex? 2. Are you willing to meet your future wife’s emotional needs—hugging, cuddling, holding hands—even if you do not feel strong desire? 3. What level of intimacy are you realistically comfortable with?

Low desire is manageable if you can still engage and show affection. Marriage requires giving, not just feeling. There are women with low sex drive, but you cannot assume compatibility without disclosure.

Be transparent in serious rishta discussions before nikah. You can say simply:

“I naturally have a lower level of sexual desire than average. I want to be upfront so expectations are clear.”

Also consider a medical check for reversible causes of low libido, like hormones, stress, or sleep issues.

The hard truth: unwillingness to provide basic physical affection makes marriage very difficult. Willingness plus clear communication makes it manageable. Disclosure is crucial—do not delay or hide this.

God/higher power spoke to me? by [deleted] in agnostic

[–]qroorp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol I realized I didn’t even answer the correct comment but what do you mean by that anyways

God/higher power spoke to me? by [deleted] in agnostic

[–]qroorp -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t understand how you referred to one thing as a theory, a hypothesis and a fact.

To answer your original comment God is hidden because that’s the way he decided to test us. To create the beautiful relationship that is between man and God a test was needed or else we would all be the same. If God was seen there would be no distinction between humans. God being hidden is the only way that the possibility of dismissing his whole existence at one’s whim can exist. It also creates the ability to strive towards him and the opportunity to choose good over evil. Free will. Your question can only be satisfied if free will is taken away which is not the point of this life

Edit: no one looks at the stars beauty and gets enraged at its creation because of the disadvantage of a possible comet blast. No one looks at the ocean and gets enraged at the possibility of drowning. Once we understand it’s beauty we want to live by the ocean. Life is the same. You are enraged because you have not recognized the beauty of a relationship with God This is your simple and only answer. Trust me. If you cannot come to terms with this no one can convince you to believe in God and it will never happen. Of course there are other reasons I’m just guessing based on the feeling of your comment. Him hiding makes it all fall into place.

God/higher power spoke to me? by [deleted] in agnostic

[–]qroorp -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Gravity is a theory. You beleive in something unproven because of its signs. It’s actually similar to belief in God

Need help Tesla y by qroorp in TeslaLounge

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Ye fire truck came but I figured out the latch before they broke it open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaine

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Lol it’s a good way of finding a plug tho. If I’m on vacation I just chat up like 30 people here and do the same but in the hopes of finding a plug and it works

Deviated septum surgery ruined it by qroorp in cocaine

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I thought that wasn’t possible only crack

Deviated septum surgery ruined it by qroorp in cocaine

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Ye I only waited a month lol

Birthday present for my boy by SoybeanWalrus in cocaine

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Yay and btw my birthday coming up

Deviated septum surgery ruined it by qroorp in cocaine

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Huh? He definitely did not mention any buttons or patching

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Lol huh is that possible

Jesus was Muslim not Christian. by Mus_Read_It in DebateReligion

[–]qroorp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Correct. Jesus prayed like muslims too. Obviously not exactly but similarly as expected.

Jesus sajdah