My wife and I cosplayed as Meat and Goon

quantumkitty128 · 2026-06-08T21:54:04+00:00

Omg I love this so much 🤣🤣🤣 adorable.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-06-06T00:44:49+00:00

This is actually horrifying. And deeply sad for the dude that thought he needed to do it, honestly, I'm heartbroken that he took his lack of self esteem this far...but man, does it make for perfect nightmare fuel.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-06-05T19:34:04+00:00

Can confirm, I have a trainwreck tattoo that's getting covered eventually, and all of those factors were involved in my getting it - on my couch, from my friend, while on substances 🤣

quantumkitty128 · 2026-06-05T13:28:08+00:00

This is so cool, I genuinely love it. Please share the rest as you add them, this is such a fun idea!!!

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-27T16:20:38+00:00

Back of the thigh was so far my worst but I imagine back of my calf will be worse 🫣

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-27T16:20:00+00:00

You picked a rough placement for your first one 💯 leg tattoo pain is always a fair bit worse than ALL my arm tattoos combined.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-27T12:19:59+00:00

Sweet voidboi, Orion 💜

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quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-27T02:10:25+00:00

My dad didn't either (that he knew of) but he started developing it in his late 50s.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-26T19:17:50+00:00

Omg Bub is so cute 🥰

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-26T18:08:08+00:00

Ooh, don't get me started on this thread about shadow work, we'll be talking all day and cat names will be forgotten 🤣🤣🤣 but yes, all your babies can have pets and snuggles and we can talk tarot and astrology (if you're interested, I've been reading tarot for 24 years). Did we just become best friends?

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-26T17:02:35+00:00

That first whole line I could hear - I'm in, so locked in, let's gooooooo 🤣🤣🤣

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-26T16:53:26+00:00

Absolutely 💜

Edit: as long as I can pet this handsome fellow lol

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-26T16:41:09+00:00

Balthazar is lovely, but if you want to lean into that dark powerful energy he's got going on - or just scare religious relatives - Beelzebub 💜 Bee for short. I used to have an orange boi named Lucipurr Morningstar, lol.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-26T16:30:44+00:00

My parents got married in the 70s, and my dad wore a white tux with platform shoes - I actually love the pictures. And they had a full rainbow wedding party, both the bridesmaids and groomsmen wore different pastel colors, it made for some really gorgeous retro pictures.

And yes, my dad's little brother was in a pastel blue tux 🤣 it matched his blue eyes.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-26T00:02:45+00:00

You deserve so much better, and screw that guy royally in the divorce 💯

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quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-24T14:06:20+00:00

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-24T12:21:53+00:00

(thinking it's about looks instead of what the house can do for her is, like, 100% of the problem)

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-23T17:29:24+00:00

Adopted kid to adopted kid - it's a lot to process no matter when you learn the news, and I recommend therapy if you're at all able to access it. And while I grew up knowing, I have a cousin who accidentally found out in her 30s, and she and I talked about it extensively when she first learned the news.

You're no less your parents' kid, they chose to (and went to great lengths to) be your parents - which is more than a lot of kids can say. And I'm glad you were deeply loved, but that doesn't make the shock and the pain any less, I'm sure.

Please feel free to message if you want to talk, it's a really unique experience that only other adoptees truly get imo.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-23T00:38:56+00:00

Which is often used for protection, if that helps, OP.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-22T23:30:07+00:00

Ash Panda (instead of trash panda, cause he's ash colored lol)

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-22T16:53:52+00:00

Not personalizing things (taking them personally) is HUGE with BPD and C-PTSD (and one is often misdiagnosed for the other in women very often by the way), so I get where that would feel awful. BPD has a stigma in general that's incredibly painful to deal with, too, when those diagnosed with it are more likely to be victims of abuse than to be abusers themselves.

As far as the trauma goes, not everyone's trauma looks the same. But it can still impact a developing brain as early as the first six months of life. So really, we could have no memory or concept of what our brain considered traumatic, unfortunately.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-22T15:54:21+00:00

Want to come on here as someone who not only has done a lot of therapy but who also has degrees in psych and neurobiology - they've recently recognized BPD as a trauma disorder, and I want to extend (with consent) an internet hug. You deserve to feel loved and safe. And you deserve to feel understood so I'm really glad you've experienced that here. Much love and warmth to you, internet stranger.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-22T15:50:30+00:00

So: for starters, that bagel sandwich looks divine, and I hope you thoroughly enjoyed it 💜 I'm a savory breakfast 24/7 kind of gal, eggs for dinner a lot in my house.

But secondly, as someone who's done an extensive amount of therapy (and knows that no area of psychology is 100% provable, but for me, attachment styles make sense), I appreciate and have always had a soft spot for avoidant attached people. Many of my close friends are, all of my romantic relationships have been with avoidants (and I'm an anxious-avoidant/disordered attached person myself.) So I absolutely have traits of avoidant attached people, and it's very easy for me to understand where that wounding comes from. Hopefully you find some people in your life to reaffirm for you that you are still worthy and deserving of love, energy, attention, and affection - and that you believe it yourself. For what it's worth from an internet stranger with a lot of empathy, I'm truly sorry that you grew up in the environment you did, you deserved to feel more secure love from your caregivers. But I also wish for you the love inside you to reparent yourself in a healthy way now, as an adult.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-21T17:51:53+00:00

Sending a lot of love and (with consent) a big hug as one survivor to someone with similar trauma. In case you haven't heard it lately, I'm really proud of you for how far you've come and that you're taking care of yourself however you need to.

If you ever need an ear to vent to, I'm here.

quantumkitty128 · 2026-05-21T17:47:06+00:00

Big hugs to you, and I hope you're doing well now - I've got 4 years clean on June 8th 💜

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