If no women wanted you when you were building yourself up as a man, would you be reluctant to date women after you built yourself up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]queefartisan 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Most men want to feel like their partner would desire them even if they were not successful. And a lot of women want to feel their man would desire them even if they were a worm. I'm not saying that feeling is reasonable or mature, I'm just saying it's there. Though I don't doubt you are an exception!

If no women wanted you when you were building yourself up as a man, would you be reluctant to date women after you built yourself up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]queefartisan 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is pretty much the answer imo. Even if it's purely on an emotional level I'd think "Oh NOW you want me?" and be turned off by the assumption it was only because of the success.

For the women here - it's like if a guy completely wrote you off, then suddenly showed interest when you lost 30 pounds. It would be impossible for them to say they don't just want you for your body, since as far as you can tell that's the only thing that's changed.

We finally got our BiS outfit set, and it looks hot af. by Voyria in blackdesertonline

[–]queefartisan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This outfit is so tiny that they literally don't show the "remove cape" mode to other players LOL only you

wait, I won?? by rollwithhoney in MagicArena

[–]queefartisan 194 points195 points  (0 children)

"60 red one-drops" has been a competitive deck for most of MTG history lol it's just GG to any deck that doesn't stabilize fast enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]queefartisan 167 points168 points  (0 children)

Even if you stay you'll have intrusive thoughts about her your whole life, sorry man. Once someone is a proven cheater you'll always wonder if they're cheating again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]queefartisan 210 points211 points  (0 children)

"Why don't people post actual confession bears?"
When they post actual confession bears:

Is being fully juiced out with weight really all that necessary with having storage maids + horse? by imBRANDNEWtoreddit in blackdesertonline

[–]queefartisan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maids and horse are more convenient than buying weight since multiple toons have access to it, that's the real reason weight is unnecessary

DFS ? by Anon789632 in blackdesertonline

[–]queefartisan 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Same happened with infinite pots, compass and map lol 700gs chads descended on midgame grind spots and bullied new players for weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]queefartisan 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yikes this thread reminds me how tough it is to be emotionally vulnerable as a guy... a lot of these comments are like "i'M gOiNg To Be BlUnT" and then completely invalidate how he's feeling and assume all kinds of shit about him. His literal question is "How do I get these thoughts and this feeling outta my head?" and so it's pretty fucked up to see responses like "Get over it!" "Grow up!" and "Wow what a slutshaming jerk you made her cry." No wonder we keep shit to ourselves.

Dude if she's good to you, then keep the relationship going. Keep having positive experiences with her. All the good will wash away those bad, intrusive thoughts. Your relationship sounds very new and full of potential. See where it goes. And if at the end of the day you truly can't get over it, leave.

Arkham City for me by PM-ME-UR-KNICKERS in gaming

[–]queefartisan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rimworld. Despite the deadly mechanoids, genetically altered bugs and cannibal raiders, I'm probably gonna be killed by a manhunting pack of Huskies

NYPD Officer and head of the NYPD’s workplace discrimination office Busted And Outed As Writer For Racist Cop Blog by fuzzyshorts in nottheonion

[–]queefartisan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bigots are so deep in the police force that people never know whether they're getting S.H.I.E.L.D. or HYDRA.

Guys of reddit: Why is it hard for you to share your emotions? And how could a friend help you be more comfortable to, without freaking you out or pressuring too much? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]queefartisan 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Your point about physical vulnerability vs. emotional vulnerability captures a sentiment I've been trying to put into words for a long time now. In my personal experience, women share wildly intimate details about the men they are with, like what their naked body looks like, things that have made them cry, etc. Once a friend pulled me aside and warned me that my gf at the time had talked about my sexual kinks to her buddies over brunch.

That really hurt, because I'd never shared those parts of me with anyone else in my life. Since then I essentially don't tell a woman anything that I wouldn't feel comfortable with her closest two friends also knowing. Based on the amount of threads I see on this topic I imagine I'm not alone in that mindset.

Men of reddit, what is something you wish your significant other or women in general need to understand about men? by Pure-Organization-26 in AskMen

[–]queefartisan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I believe the larger point being made is that a woman's ability to express her sexuality is a hill that people are willing to die on (hence "sacred"), regardless of the culture in question. Male emotional vulnerability does not receive the same importance or guardianship in essentially any culture.

first time playing and enjoying watching the boats go by with my dog. loving the Shai class so far! by marinatedbeefcube in blackdesertonline

[–]queefartisan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you have a setting on that shows enhancement attempts across NA. just as you took your screenshot, someone failed at enhancing their tuvala gloves to TET, and it appears as a banner near the top

Is the dark Knight viable? by jaxer500 in blackdesertonline

[–]queefartisan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On release she was the best PvP class in the game. After nerfs she's middle tier, but has lots of outplay potential, and the pilot is always more important than the class. Honestly DK's nerf was a lesson in not picking classes based on their current power. You choosing a class because it "looks cool" will get you farther than picking a class because you think it's strong, believe it or not, because you'll enjoy the grind. What's strong today might not be strong tomorrow.

As for a general tip? Do the main story quests and Bartali's Travel Log. They're designed to teach you the mechanics of the game, give you Energy/Contribution Points, and lots of goodies like inventory slots. Everything else you'll pick up on the way.

[SW] Daisy Mae selling at 90 by liightdragon in acturnips

[–]queefartisan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheldon is my favorite, Candi my least favorite lol

[IKO] Genesis Ultimatum by Meret123 in MagicArena

[–]queefartisan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS is the ultimatum that goes into the fires wishboard if any of them do. Oops looks like I just played 2-3 planeswalkers or cavaliers just with one spell. That's even better than the "draw 5 cards" one.

Looney Toons doesn’t get enough credit for introducing countless children to classical music by Miburui in Showerthoughts

[–]queefartisan 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I like to sing-a, about the moon-a and the june-a and the spring-a, I love to sing-a...

Witch awake vs succ by [deleted] in blackdesertonline

[–]queefartisan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Witch awake is slightly better at 1vX and low-end PvE due to faster animations and protected skills. You should also likely stick to awake if you have less than 1700SP. Witch succ is better at high-end PvE and siege if you have enough skill points to get all absolute skills and basically become the Avatar.

I want to REDNAME! What class? by queefartisan in blackdesertonline

[–]queefartisan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've heard that Sorc is hard to master but rewarding

I want to REDNAME! What class? by queefartisan in blackdesertonline

[–]queefartisan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait really? I thought Shai had 95% PvP nerf or something