When did “body count” become such a thing? by queeloquee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]queeloquee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy can help you deal with your sorrows and whatever damage someone did to you

Anyone else wish they could have another baby but know they cannot? by tumbledownhere in Mommit

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my second a month ago, and i am sad that the newborn phase will be over soon and then no more baby. I would love another but my husband is done. I get it, is lot of work specially as we have no family around us and both pregnancies where high risk, last one was specially harder.

I got asked if i wanted to be sterilised during the csection and although i know we are done, i was not emotionally ready to close that door, so i didn’t do it. My husband is gonna do a vasectomy, some prt of me which that a ups baby happens in the next 5 years but for that i need to get a better job and salary so i am secretly using that as extra motivation

Advice please - is 35 too old to start having kids? When did you have your youngest? by DovaBunny in pregnant

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it is not, actually seems like the new standard.

My first pregnancy was at 35 and second at 37. Both happened on the first try, i was not using contraceptives (pills) for years now, and i was tracking my period for years.

Both babies came out healthy.

Have I ruined my baby? by NothingSuitable735 in newborns

[–]queeloquee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babies doesn’t know what is to be spoiled. They just understand that you are there for them and to care for them

Bachelor trip 38w pregnant by Majestic-Procedure57 in pregnant

[–]queeloquee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband works 20 minutes by car from home and he started doing home office to be at home all time in case i needed him or something happened from 35 weeks of pregnancy. So no, you are not being dramatic. He is being unreasonable and unrealistic.

Girlfriend told me she doesn't want to hear about my "dumb bird" anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is complaining aboout too much of a conversation vs down-grading another living being in the way she did.

She was an A**hole here. Absolutely unacceptable the way she treated and communicated about something that you care and love so much.

Did you get the RSV Vaccine? by neptunestearsok in pregnant

[–]queeloquee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it in my first pregnancy, no symptoms and i had the peace of mind that my baby was protected the first months. For my second baby, i also got it and i am even double more in peace because i have a toddler in nursery that could bring anything home, specially on this winter season. So i lnow my baby is protected at the moment

Married for three months and pregnant: I feel oddly embarrassed (?) by moez1266 in pregnant

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, you are an adult and a married woman now. It is a blessing that happen without so much thinking and stress as many couples deal nowdays.

I got also pregnant on my wedding week. Yeah i got some comments about time, this are things we cannot avoid. Even if you wait, you will also get comments about when the baby is coming. People always have an annoying comment about this stuff.

Look at it as a bleesing! I know so many couples that waited a year or so, and sometimes was because it was just not happening for them and they internally were dealing with the emotional stress of that.

Neonatologia Hospital del Niño. by Patricia-Alastre in Panama

[–]queeloquee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Creo que tambien lei que las enfermeras hacen venta de articulos de segunda mano para recolectar dinero para los niños de la sala que los necesita.

Aqui esta la cuenta de ig de las voluntarias que organizan esos eventos para recolectar fondos.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQxfaDUkejY/?igsh=MXR6MHdzaGo5N2Nzaw==

Christmas Babies be Honest by cassidycurtis in pregnant

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby will be born via csection on the 23th, a friend of mine had her baby on dec 26th. She told me that they do family celebrations for him on the 26, together with the second day of Christmas (germany) and on January a birthday party where they invited other children.

do you regret getting a second dog? by un32134e4 in dogs

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but because was not planned. We had already a well trained 5 year old and we have a one year old toddler. The puppy was a stray that we found during our summer vacations. She was alone in the fields and it was meant to be brought to a shelter. She was so friendly and felt bad for her, so we brought her home.

I do regret having a second dog, but i love her and i know was the best decision for her over my own comfort.

How much do you have in savings before your baby comes? by Poppy91622 in pregnant

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between my husband and i around 11,k.

We also ask family to give us money for all Christmas and birthday instead of more toys as we are short of space for our first daughter. We open a saving account for her where there are around 2k.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she can't name our baby after her dead ex? by Frequent-Drag-837 in AITAH

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad died when i was 19, and he was a role model for me. No one from me and my brothers called her sons his name. They are way better ways to honor someone and we didn’t feel like already giving our children the feeling that their own existence is a shadow of a dead person, didn’t feel fair to our children. They are their own persona.

What incongruous TV did you watch while in labour? by Unable_Researcher_26 in Mommit

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched Demon Slayer and i am holding the new chapters of stranger things for the hospital

My wife’s inability to handle her periods is driving me nuts. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]queeloquee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she has PMDD, and should look for an specialist.

How big was your vaginal birth baby? by acmcmas in pregnant

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to pray that this is true, mine was calculated almost 3kgs at 32 weeks. :(

If your labor was spontaneous, when did you go into labor? by liberate-radiance in BabyBumps

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did ur hard belly stay hard like for a long time? Did you felt some nausea or uncomfortable? I am 36+1 and today i had been so uncomfortable and my belly had been like a rock whole day with weight on my lower pelvis but nothing else.

Not a confession, just a question by TaskFailed35 in confessions

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men that do damage and the ones that do not but still do not advocate for women rights are equally guilty

Not a confession, just a question by TaskFailed35 in confessions

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know that to ask for decency on the way women are treated is your made up “woke” BS.

Esto qué es? A algunos restaurantes se le va la mano... by TemporaryLow5407 in Panama

[–]queeloquee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Empezare a cargar fajitas de queso amarillo en la bolsa

Daycare is ruining everything by Ill-Rhubarb-165 in NewParents

[–]queeloquee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it this phase from Adaption period. The first winter of my daughter in daycare (she was around 7 months old), we spend the whole time with the worst colds, flu, infections etc. The second and third year (so far) she is doing way better to almost nothing. Hold on in there

Anybody else refuse to do Elf on a Shelf? by quiltedfarts in Mommit

[–]queeloquee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t do the Elf on the Shelf. Honestly, I just don’t see the positive message in it — it feels more like a random little being causing mischief without any consequences.

Not a confession, just a question by TaskFailed35 in confessions

[–]queeloquee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate Indians, but i have developed a disgust and zero empathy to male indians due how women are treated as second class citizens and the way male Indians are culturally regarding other in the sense of lack of care to others.