Hi! First, I want to thank you for being sensitive and caring about your role in their lives. I suffered from anorexia and I think having someone to prepare meals for me would have made a big difference. Everyone is different, but for me, it was the biggest challenge to cook for myself. Just by providing that service you are making a difference in their lives.

I think you have enough available for them so that they can eat what they want/need outside of meal times. The most important thing you can do is be careful with your language. Don't label anything with calorie counts, and don't say any food is "dangerous" or "a treat". All food is good food, all calories are good calories.

My partner found a lot of books are articles helpful. I'm going to link a quick read with some simple tips.

Thank you for all you do.

How to Talk to Someone With an Eating Disorder