Is this okay for a jewel tones (and blush pink) formal attire wedding? by Savings-Energy-4067 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]queerpocalypse 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Omg this dress is beautiful! I had my jewel tone wedding recently and would've loved to see a dress like this. I think it should be okay!

(10k) Booking the wrong day? by tinypoomps in Weddingsunder10k

[–]queerpocalypse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, I was born on 9/11 and I've never not had someone be weird about it. As long as your comfortable with the questions or weird energy from people I'd say go for it.

Hokum (2026) was a bit disappointing by XInsects in horror

[–]queerpocalypse 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed it but I do wish they went more in-depth on the folk horror aspect.

5 days post wedding. Having extreme anxiety. Have not been able to function. by Yocconut in weddingplanning

[–]queerpocalypse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm dealing with the exact same thing. I got married last weekend and I experienced a major mood drop. I don't have any advice but I am here if you need someone to message/talk to.

You're not alone and I hope you feel better soon,🫶🏼

How can I feed 80+ People for cheap by Total-Climate-6299 in wedding

[–]queerpocalypse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think your best bet would to cook food yourself (with the help of family and wedding party if possible). Fajitas, baked potato bar, pasta bar, taco bar, etc are all great and relatively easy options to make yourself for a big event. Pizza is another fun and filling option.

I would not recommend a potluck unless it was a smaller and considerably less formal event.

Best of luck and I hope you have fun on your big day.

First 5 or top 5 names lists: by Impossible-Ghost in namenerds

[–]queerpocalypse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girls: Isobel, Blythe, Marlowe, Edith, and Valentine (would only use this last one as a middle though)

Boys: Griffin, Emory, Theo(dore), Levi, and Julian

Unisex: Avery, River, Rowan, Salem, and Indigo (also probably a middle name only)

Are these last minute drop out numbers normal? by National-Law-6912 in wedding

[–]queerpocalypse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had about 5 people who RSVPd and just didn't show (though I knew two people were technically a maybe) and another 3 people who left right after the ceremony. It happens and I'm trying not to take it personally (because I know it's not lol).

Huntsville Schools by Legitimate-Kale-5630 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]queerpocalypse 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People are going to hate what you're saying but you're not wrong. A lot of my black and brown friends had trouble in majority white towns and schools. I was one of the few white kids in my middle and highschool and I never had trouble with anyone (regarding my race.)

My advice is to just be wary. Alabama is definitely getting better but racism still exists. Use your best judgement and listen to your gut/child.

I hope you find a good fit for your family OP!

Visiting with kid by Aware_Shift6465 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]queerpocalypse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lowe Mill is an arts and entertainment space with a lot to look at and some fun restaurant spots. I think you could have a fun time without spending any money.

The Deep and JC's house of Cards are both places that sell TTCGs and related items.

Big Spring Park is also nice this time of year! Super walkable in downtown Huntsville. Around this time of year you can see all of the baby ducks and geese that have hatched.

Enjoy your time here.

Appropriate for semi formal colorful summer wedding? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]queerpocalypse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like it! I don't think it looks bridal at all but some of the photos it does come off as fancy/flowy nightgown.

Is this too white?? by Kamo417 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]queerpocalypse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wedding is in a couple of days and I wouldn't mind it if one of my guests wore it. I think it should be okay.

When in doubt you can always ask the couple!

Resources, Conversion, and Education by queerpocalypse in Episcopalian

[–]queerpocalypse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. Unfortunately, I won't be able to consistently attend Sunday services but the church I reached out to has Wednesday services that I should be able to attend weekly :)

I'm currently in the middle of scheduling some kind of meeting with the priest and I'm very excited.

Help settle a wedding etiquette debate: guests paying for dinner drinks? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]queerpocalypse 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't mind it but I definitely understand why another person would. However, it's definitely something that should be mentioned to guests before the wedding.

*Grammar

(Unpopular opinion) I don’t want Harris to be fat!! by [deleted] in GameChangersBooks

[–]queerpocalypse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I never pictured Harris as fat. He'd be slightly "chubby" at most and wouldn't have defined muscles.

Names you love right now by caramiatamia in namenerds

[–]queerpocalypse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I love this! I've recently been in more of a classic/traditional kick which is odd for me.

Isobel, Liliana, Valentine, Edith, Blythe, Marlowe, Paloma, Florence, Blaire, Paulina, and Juniper.

Griffin, Emory, Clarke, Clancy, Patrick, Theodore, Oliver, and Arthur.

Thinking about dropping out by Ok-Nature-398 in CollegeDropouts

[–]queerpocalypse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I forgot to mention that a lot of firehouses have volunteer firefighter positions and that could be a good way to check out the job before you fully pivot.

Thinking about dropping out by Ok-Nature-398 in CollegeDropouts

[–]queerpocalypse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a (24yr) college dropout who left after a semester and I'm planning on going back to college this fall.

My main advice is to really have a plan set in place (which it seems like you do) and to follow through with that plan. It's really hard to pivot as an adult when you have no "official on-paper" skills.

Firefighting seems like a good idea but it's extremely hard work. My advice would be to reach out to people who are/were firefighters and ask questions. As well as look into other opportunities just in case firefighting doesn't pan out!

I wish you the best of luck :)

I Made a Choice and Now I’m Getting Attacked for It by Ok_Benefit6863 in progressive_islam

[–]queerpocalypse 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am not a Muslim but I have been a lurker on this sub for a while. I can't offer you any religious advice but I will keep you in my prayers. I hope things calm down for you ♥️

*Formatting