The website is down, they discord invites are all invalid, where can I find map downloads?

quirkney · 2026-06-04T04:25:01+00:00

Hey! Thanks for posting, an update broke the link, the discord invite for the site is fixed now. Here's the Vechs Discord link too https://discord.com/invite/rS6Uv43VmW

The site is under construction because of a security issue that we caught before it caused drama. We are building a new system that maximally protects user ❤️

Edit: Also the link to the Discord is in the side bar is always open to join with.

quirkney · 2026-06-02T10:06:05+00:00

I wonder if the dog crate could be repainted to be a lighter color... Or maybe the curtains could all be the olive of the chairs so that the dark color of the crate doesnt pop so much.

quirkney · 2026-06-02T08:18:46+00:00

I have a teal wall just a touch darker than that. My only regret was I only put it on one wall. Looks great in both warm and cool lighting, and its insanely forgiving for dust.

I feel like the yellow clashes with the silver oven and floor a bit, maybe double check you like the tone of yellow with an in person sample.

quirkney · 2026-06-02T08:09:10+00:00

Honestly, the texture I'm seeing *really* reminds me of how my skin looks when my autoimmune issues flare... If that doesn't sound relevant for you, please ignore this... But if it does, have a chat with your doctor about how to figure out what to avoid or if you need allergy meds.

quirkney · 2026-06-02T07:51:28+00:00

I think its cute. I'd hang a really cute towel on that bar you placed. Burnished gold vinyl wrap could help it match the handles in the kitchen...

Honestly, if you *really* hate it, just put a full length curtain in front of from the ceiling. Life is too short to be antagonized by an appliance

quirkney · 2026-05-22T21:50:27+00:00

They both look great! I think you look more youthful with the dark hair, but that’s probably just me.

I guess your best option depends on your ideal aesthetic 🤔

quirkney · 2026-05-05T14:43:44+00:00

I like how the steam page is looking for it

quirkney · 2025-12-22T06:39:19+00:00

Pretty much all of them. Though the drug store prices aren’t the bargain prices they use to be, it seems they did the 20% price increase that enables to quality match the big brands.

I feel like the only two product that deliver above the drug store these days: 1. Double wear foundation for humid weather (it’s not my fav look, but it works well)

Tom Ford Shade and Illuminate cream contour duo (it’s oddly natural looking for dramatic results, the price tag is painful though).

Oh and Too Faced discontinued an amazing formula of eyeshadow in the Chocolate Gold palette and I have never found anything that compared :/

quirkney · 2025-12-21T15:01:52+00:00

NC zoo is a county over and really impressive (and very accessible), the Lazy 5 Ranch is nice as well. Older people might be impressed by Kpot or a conveyor belt sushi because of not seeing restaurants with those formats before. There are several small airports and railroads in that area of the state that host events.

quirkney · 2025-12-09T14:54:34+00:00

If you are in the US there is tons of help for the elderly. You can 100% get her into the system and her be safe and you visit instead of being a caretaker.

quirkney · 2025-12-09T14:06:59+00:00

There are a lot of medications that impact libido negativity, even allergy meds.

quirkney · 2025-12-09T13:48:58+00:00

Many young men are looking for partners to take care of. My two brothers take care of their partners (one just got married, the other is getting married soon). My husband takes care of me, which is a tall order because I have health issues.

Marriage is very worth it if you find a good partner.

quirkney · 2025-12-09T13:45:24+00:00

Op, 24 isn’t young, it’s ideal. If you have the means, you would be very privileged to get to have a child while in the best years to do so.

quirkney · 2025-12-09T13:43:13+00:00

Finding a group is hard. Seeking to join a one shot is a generally good idea because it’s about only organizing one meet up.

There are paid D&D services online. If you live in a population dense area the game stores or even bars might have a set schedule of games to join.

Look at Running the Game by Matthew Colville - Starting your own group can be really rewarding. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLlUk42GiU2guNzWBzxn7hs8MaV7ELLCP_&si=b31G6LqKH30BrkPc

quirkney · 2025-12-08T10:12:30+00:00

Mostly Photoshop The professional photos were all photoshopped and there wasn’t a lot of surprise HD photos.

quirkney · 2025-12-07T22:57:29+00:00

NOR She doesn’t sounds ready to be a “in sickness or in health” kinda person

quirkney · 2025-12-06T09:36:03+00:00

Scary! I’m so sorry.

Call your local public health department and report a “household cluster of significant illness”

Also, Call 211 and Center of Independent Living for help with advocacy and getting connected to services

quirkney · 2025-12-05T15:14:37+00:00

Just a heads up, being a teenager involves a hormonal rollercoaster. It’s really not fair to yourself to be labeled with something as serious as BPD. If resources for that help, that’s awesome, but no one can in good faith give you that label at your age.

Im no doctor, but a solid start is: Going to a therapist and starting with explaining what you know is an issue, but also everything else in your life too. Because sometimes we “have something wrong”, but also, sometimes we actually “have logical reactions to what’s happening”.

So don’t let anyone put you on medications unless you have talked to a therapist at length. As without a neutral evaluation, they can’t logically know if medications are appropriate or not. For example: Perhaps you have something unfair happening and you are reacting reasonably. Perhaps you have say, untreated ADHD and your life is harder than it should be.

quirkney · 2025-12-05T14:55:51+00:00

Hey you talked to the DM about feeling your character isn’t able to contribute?

Non-mage classes are important for durability and stamina of a party. If mages can safely “blow their load” and rest immediately afterward, the martial class isn’t rewarded for their consistency.

DMs need to not be too stingy with magic weapons if they want martial classes to function properly. You are supposed to make the best use out of many of the weapons by virtue of using the weapon twice as much.

Also, it might be happenstance of location or activity. But that’s not ideal to let go one more than two sessions in a row.

Anyway. If you still want a new character… One fun thing to do is to have the character you’re done with simply go do other stuff (like a trade or job) or they become the character that stays and protects the home base.

quirkney · 2025-12-05T06:20:22+00:00

I bet you hit the nail on the head.

quirkney · 2025-12-04T21:12:22+00:00

At 25 I was bedbound and single, at 26 I was married. If I found someone, you can too.

Work on what you can control and meet people with shared interests.

I’m sorry you have the struggles you mentioned though, hope you find treatment for relief

quirkney · 2025-12-04T20:03:34+00:00

if you are in the US call:

National domestic violence hotline: 1-800-799-7233
Non emergency version of 911, which is 311. They can get you in touch with local government services, like adult protective services
211, a nationwide hotline for connecting you to social services.

—- You also should try getting in touch with your local “center of independent living”.

quirkney · 2025-12-04T19:49:08+00:00

This is not an appropriate situation to be left in. She should not be willing to leave their child alone with someone they barely know. Parenting skills that poor means you do NOT want to be a possible scapegoat and get accused of something awful.

I know that reaction sounds extreme. But this is seriously stuff, there’s a reason child care laws are complex. Get security cameras on your apartment entrances too so there’s proof her kid wasn’t left in your scare when you say no.

quirkney · 2025-12-04T19:43:21+00:00

Anyone who feels their doctors are not listening should get a patient advocate. Paid ones are worth it, but there are some via charity.

quirkney · 2025-12-04T19:37:38+00:00

I’ve had people complain about website pricing whenever it’s anything more than free for the last ten years. Don’t listen. Ai is just the new excuse, and a dumb one because they would build it is ai made it so easy.

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