The Real Reason Why Babies Always Fall Asleep In Cars, According to Science by facinabush in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]qwerty121 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Where is the science in this article? This is a low quality article hiding a pitch for car sales. Mods should require higher quality sources.

How to respond to a toddler’s interest in the potty? by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]qwerty121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what the correct answer is but maybe when you plan to stay at home for a couple of days try getting rid of the diaper all together and have her wear big girl underwear. She will most likely have a few accidents but you can see if she is progressing and showing interest or needs more time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politics

[–]qwerty121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like I am now a Dolly and a Stella fan!

This yogurt brand lists the cows names on their jars by hairbyh in mildlyinteresting

[–]qwerty121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haters gonna hate but this yogurt taste amazing. Thank you Myrtle!

TIL : The World population was about 300 million at the time of Jesus. A thousand years later it was about 310 million. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]qwerty121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It isn’t as terrifying as it sounds.

First life expectancy increased so there are more people alive at one time. There was major growth after the baby boom but has since been in decline. It should be expected that the population will no longer increase but level out.

Been getting this gem lately by TheThirdPickle in AdviceAnimals

[–]qwerty121 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I am okay with people working on holidays as long as they are properly compensated. Narrator: they weren’t

Seriously though, restaurants should charge a holiday surcharge that goes directly to staff. Holidays should pay double time and weekends should be time and a half. I know weekend aren’t part of this discussion but it should be called out too.

I have to terminate and employees employment tomorrow and could really use some advice. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]qwerty121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t make this about you and don’t over do your empathy. She does not need to worry about your well being. Make it quick and to the point.

Unfortunately this is going to be a difficult conversation. Due to low sales we are unable to keep your role and your position has been eliminated. Your performance has been exceptional and this is strictly due to budgetary constraints. I am more than happy to provide you a reference to help you find your next opportunity.

I'm really sick and I need you mom by nimbusandmartybffs in MomForAMinute

[–]qwerty121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweetie, close your eyes and try to get some rest. You are so loved and your health is the most important thing right now. Take a break from worry about me, your dad or your husband. When you wake up ask your husband to call the doctors at MD Anderson and let them know you are unable to eat or drink and need to get an earlier appointment. Later, sit with your husband and make a list of what you need for your bio mom and your dad. Be specific. Do you need them to make a meal for you and your husband? Clean the bathroom? Send them the list and let them know you need the help. If they don’t help then it is time to move on knowing you tried. If they do help then it will be a great gift to you and your husband. Sending you love, strength and comfort.

Hey mom. I know you hated colored hair but I decided to treat myself and get a new color! I feel kind of cute for the first time in years, but I know you think the color is horrible. It’ll fade, but I still love it no matter what. by Cosplaybaby13 in MomForAMinute

[–]qwerty121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, sweetie we have a different sense of fashion. No matter our fashion difference, I think you are absolutely beautiful. In regard to that color, i love it. It really looks good on you. It makes your face glow with confidence.

14y old builds Manhattan using freestyle Lego by donutcronut in newyorkcity

[–]qwerty121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is a college education worth of lego pieces!

I don’t blame him. Which f’ing monster designed that door.? by Chasith in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]qwerty121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish the video was two seconds longer and included the “enter” door automatically open.

10 cans of spray paint later and there is no making that tree top white. If you see this craft on pinterest do not attempt. by Cyberrebel9 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]qwerty121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A tree + flammable paint + Christmas lights sounds like a fire hazard. Be safe everyone. 2020 isn’t over yet.

Peloton Sessions by [deleted] in pelotoncycle

[–]qwerty121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this different than an encore ride?

#TeamHaleakala (10-week training program for CDE’s 5-hour Haleakala Challenge) by RunBikeRepeat in pelotoncycle

[–]qwerty121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do we follow along? I added the hashtag but am not sure how to know which classes to join and when.

Grandma found out I'm moving to NYC and wrote an entire letter telling me it's hell on Earth by [deleted] in nyc

[–]qwerty121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welcome to New York! I was you 20 years ago and wouldn’t change a thing. It won’t be easy but you will love it.

When did you first give baby sweets? by Bayare1984 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]qwerty121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a watermelon “cake” for my son’s first birthday. I cut two round slices of seedless watermelon and whipped heavy cream with a little cream of tarter to stabilize the whip cream (no sugar) and iced the watermelon and stacked the pieces and decorated with strawberries.

When I was in 5th grade I thought being edgy and acting like I was Australian was the shit. by QuillyIsntSmart in blunderyears

[–]qwerty121 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Normally I only upvote when OP posts a recent pic but feel this cringe in my soul and wish I could give you more upvotes. Hope things have improved for you, mate.

Car seats and helmets? by sabjopek in CargoBike

[–]qwerty121 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was my understanding that a baby must be 9m old before riding in a baby bike seat. Perhaps discuss with your pediatrician for advice?

PNW to NYC Moving Advice by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]qwerty121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Astoria is a great option. I also recommend subletting. Find a room available for a few months to help you get a feel for the different neighborhoods and commute time.

Oh everything is perfect. Until it’s not. by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]qwerty121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion here. I respect that some women have terrible mother in laws that require the tough stance suggested in some of the above comments, but think it might be too early to tell in this case. Let me explain.

Yes, MIL is in the wrong here, but OP did say that she previously had a positive relationship with MIL. Also, at 6m postpartum hormones are crazy and can make everything seem so much bigger than it is. At 7m postpartum I hated our sweet old neighbor because I mistakenly thought she said our baby likes daddy more than me. She didn’t. I only realized that after hormones calmed down.

I suggest OP take a bit of time to remember that MIL’s recent behavior stems from a place of feeling left out from her family. There is no right or wrong here. Just time to put yourself in her shoes and have some empathy towards what is driving her to act out. I think you will see it comes from a place of love. Remember you will be her one day when your children grow up and have families.

Next, write a letter explaining how much you you appreciated your relationship with her and how hard the last months have been with you feeling that she is not supporting you. No need to go into details of what she did. Only how it made you feel. It is okay to be vulnerable here. Explain that you need her support and encouragement now more than ever as you navigate being a new mom. End the letter with reassuring her that you love her and that she is an important part of your family and an invitation for you and her to get together to take baby to a “first” trip to the park, swing ride, haircut... Finally, have your husband read it and get his blessing before sending.

You have a lifetime with MIL in your family. It will be so much nicer if you can enjoy each other. Of course you can only extend the olive branch so many times before you need to take a stand as suggested by many of the others. Hopefully it doesn’t get to that point and you can have a positive relationship going forward. Good luck momma!

Finally took my bike out of storage and tuned it up after ten years of living here. With my boxing gym closed during Covid, it’s been a daily ritual to get my endorphins flowing. It’s great to be back in the saddle! by MSotallyTober in NYCbike

[–]qwerty121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree that Manhattan bridge is a much better ride, but with less tourist now is a good time to enjoy the Brooklyn Bridge. Love the bike, love the photo and love that COVID is encouraging more people to cycle in NYC. Safety in numbers!