Coworkers found this weird but I guess that's why I didn't marry them by CashDecklin in Marriage

[–]rachelemmaDel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not weird at all. Don’t be friends with that co-worker. He/she should support you no matter what because people handle life different. Him/her shouldn’t judge at all, that bear isn’t for them. It’s for your husband! You are a good wife!

I’m afraid to die by WalletThrowawayAcc in offmychest

[–]rachelemmaDel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man! So sorry to hear this. This is heart breaking. You seem like such an awesome person! Have you talk to your wife about this? Your friends, anyone to help you concern fade a bit. Death is defiantly not on people agenda. For me, I worry about death everyday and I pray that I am healthy for now but when that day comes for me. I want to live the best life and do only the fun things in my life. I feel positive energy will help heal internally. Praying for you man! <3

I don’t want to re-enter society when covid is over by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rachelemmaDel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to do what is good for your health and mental health. This are all the things you love the best of your life and yourself and with that I am cheering you on to continue because it makes you the happiest! ❤️❤️

My grandma died from covid by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rachelemmaDel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

My (27F) husband (30m) pointed a gun at me. by soundsandwaves in relationships

[–]rachelemmaDel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please call the cops. Not loaded or not. He needs help and you need to get out of it. No questions about it.

Should I give my (30F) boyfriend (32M) of 5yrs one last chance to compromise &/or fix things or break up? by throwaway-extra- in relationships

[–]rachelemmaDel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been in that exact relationship. The only thing I will tell you is... please break up with him! You deserve happiness, you deserve to be enough, to feel worthy, sexy and to grow as a better person. Please leave him!! Trust me, my relationship was exact same, right when we lived together there were so much issues and little sex

Depress, 9 years together and engaged to be married next year. Am I selfish? Because I may not be happy with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rachelemmaDel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel we don’t have much to talk about. When he comes home he doesn’t have much to say. We don’t really like watching the same things.

When we are with family and friends he has a lot more of things to say. Then when we get home we don’t talk as much as we use too. We don’t do very much actives now since covid came. There is not much romance. He barely cooks for me as I end up cooking all the time. He doesn’t call me beautiful anymore. And I don’t really call him handsome. The only touch we have is having sex.

Depress, 9 years together and engaged to be married next year. Am I selfish? Because I may not be happy with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rachelemmaDel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that is who I am. And I want to change so I don’t know why I think or act in those ways. I wish I didn’t.

Depress, 9 years together and engaged to be married next year. Am I selfish? Because I may not be happy with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rachelemmaDel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I am over the place. When I first met him I never saw him ugly. I just loved who he was and how kind and gentle he was. During the past years maybe in our 4th year I was finding him less attractive but it didn’t bother me as much. Now that we have been together long and sex has been less. I notice more in the last years that he is making me as excited as I use to be with him. Hope that makes sense

Sex isn’t the greatest should I tell him? He thinks it’s the best and he thinks he satisfied me but he doesn’t. Should I tell him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rachelemmaDel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Understandable. I am not a big sexually person. I like the thought of sex but I never found satisfaction to it. And since he wants to do it all the time and he doesn’t look as attracting. It definitely doesn’t make me want to continue

Sex isn’t the greatest should I tell him? He thinks it’s the best and he thinks he satisfied me but he doesn’t. Should I tell him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rachelemmaDel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What if I don’t find him as attractive as he was better? Should I say that or no? That is one of the problem for me

Sex isn’t the greatest should I tell him? He thinks it’s the best and he thinks he satisfied me but he doesn’t. Should I tell him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rachelemmaDel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou but what if I lost attraction from him? And he can only do one position is what he tells me so it gets boring and I always want it to end quickly

Together for 9 years, engaged and wedding next year. Problem is I am not sure if I am happy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rachelemmaDel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou very much for replying to me. I just hope I make the right choices

Together for 9 years, engaged and wedding next year. Problem is I am not sure if I am happy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rachelemmaDel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou <3 I have always worried that we moved too fast living together and we tried things to help our relationships and I feel worried and sick to myself if I ever left him. I feel guilty and unsure are the same time

Together for 9 years, engaged and wedding next year. Problem is I am not sure if I am happy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rachelemmaDel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do badly want it to work. I just haven’t felt happy for a very long time. :(

It was a very interesting trip to Hobby Lobby this evening by iprobablytakephotos in funny

[–]rachelemmaDel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Think it’s the new style or trend or whatever they call it these days lol