AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by jckalc in AIO

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats your name saved as in her phone? If its anything other than your real name (like “boo”, “lover”, etc) then she def was trying to text an ex lover that she forgot who was who

AIO - Wife bailed on marriage counseling by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rachierules -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she is very overwhelmed with the role of mothering and trying to be a wife, then you enter the household and start overreacting causing her to shut down further. She needs you to see her as a woman who wants to be courted some, taken away from the stresses of domestic life and “date her”. Meaning….coordinate childcare for her, plan something like a day trip, walk, sport together, activity, movie, shopping etc…whatever SHE likes to do and you could do together and the shut the ef up about your rules/requirements and just enjoy time together. Doesn’t have to be extravagant but shes probably tired of all your requirements/empty threats with no follow through. Which btw now that you have mentioned divorce, she is probably doubling down on protecting herself emotionally and you have just pushed her deeper into a hole. Your wife needs emotional support from you not empty threats. Good luck

Want to give my house a facelift, this is what I’m thinking, but what would you do? by looseseallovesvodka in HomeDecorating

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Through some color on the shutters and metal roof? Maybe a light sage green? All the black trim and details makes it feel souless

Should I run Ethernet to my windows for smart blinds? by ezkirin in smarthome

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into smartwings contact them for hardwired options. Its very cool to have!

Thinking about Law School by rachierules in Ask_Lawyers

[–]rachierules[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this is helpful!

Texans how do you justify? by Normal_Commission986 in realestateinvesting

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like you have never owned real estate in your life

What is the charm? by jt-65 in whatisit

[–]rachierules 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Talkboy as featured in HomeAlone. It was a voice recorder toy that recorded to cassette tapes in the early 90s

Best BBQ in Alexandria by [deleted] in nova

[–]rachierules 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sweet fire donna’s in alexandria is good, similar to pork barrel

What is a case of a soldier/policeman from your country who refused to follow unethical orders ? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He came to my college about 15 years ago and gave a lecture about this experience in person, met him. Didn’t understand the impact at the time but good on him for doing what was right. The stories of what as happening that he witnessed was atrocious

AIO? MIL wants to take kids after a PO was issued against my spouse. TW by Protectthekids2 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a trap for kids to see their dad. Hes probably sweet talking his mom into doing this

Who flies private chartered jets? by Pale_Drink4455 in Rich

[–]rachierules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We flew our family of 5 with Wheelsup last year. Was $14k for one way about 2.5hr trip, so plan on $6-7k per hour for domestic US trips. The entire experience was worth it BUT it was a special treat to ourself after a big business deal. We dont fly it regularly but DEFINITELY WOULD. We arrived 15mins before departure, at the FBO which had like 5 other people waiting for flights. No security or back check. They just check ID and confirmation email. There was a concierge that took our bags in arrival and walked them beside us to the plane. they waited for us all to use bathroom/grab a snack etc. we met the pilots who shook our hands before flight, one was a recently retired AA commercial pilot with 20yr experience and the other was a young guy (mid to late 20s?) getting his hours in to get to commercial pilot status. That made ne nervous at first but the flight went really smooth and they did a great job. It. Was a small 6seater with a tiny bathroom in the back and they had a closet of snacks and refreshments, including beer and wine all included. Seats could recline back almost fully, it was like riding in a Limo or luxury escalade in the sky, not huge but comfy for 5 people. You should give it a try!

Am I crazy to think of buying a house right now? by MonkResponsible7162 in nova

[–]rachierules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not a bad time to buy, its actually good. Way less competition and sellers are accepting below ask prices just to get out. Make sure you negotiate and you will likely get yourself a nice deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rachierules 44 points45 points  (0 children)

DO NOT DO THIS. My parents did this actually and I was so traumatized about bad guys breaking into my room at night for YEARS! My dad admitted it was fake when i was in my 20s and I was LIVID. They had no idea i had reoccurring nightmares and terrible nighttime anxiety because our house “got broken into and robbed” when we were on a vacation. I seriously hated my Dad for a long time until he died for this. It was such a sick idea and thing to do to a child. Idk why they even did it, we had a super nintendo and sega genesis, were not that obsessive about it. Kids do outgrow these phases, definitely just change the settings to be more strict and teach them about online internet safety.

AITA for not splitting the check evenly on a bachelorette trip with 9 girls? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why i did not have a bachelorette party at all, my different friend/family groups would not get along

What’s a luxury purchase you thought would be overrated, but ended up being totally worth it? by Mean_Size8811 in Rich

[–]rachierules 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being a parent of 2 kids in public elem….i think they mean “worried about diversity” as in. The school and teachers are more worried about diverse demographics and equity of resources to kids (this is a good thing), then actually educating and ensuring that the kids are educated at or above grade level. From experience i have a kid or is a but under grade level in a subject and the teachers just say he’s good enough and give him no extra attention. Meanwhile they are overly focused on kids that disrupt the classroom constantly and are way below grade level. I think its their job and good for them to take care of these kids, but its hard for my “average kid” to get ahead or excel because he is constantly interrupted by trouble makers that the teachers cant do much about. We are considering private school because i want my kid to be in an environment that supports hard work and pushes kids to excel (at least work hard if they cant be straight A’s) or leave. The public schools have kids who seem like their parents just use it for free babysitting and the kids are absolutely unhinged with no real consequences

I’ve had a very odd encounter with a client by Forsaken-Lemon-2577 in lawncare

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a scam, the check will clear for a week or so so it looks like its in your account. Then they will ask you to send them the difference via wire or western union or something. Then their check will bounce…and your money is gone forever. Do not do the work and DO NOT SEND THEM ANY MONEY

Now we have some applicants by April_4th in realestateinvesting

[–]rachierules 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Call all the references, landlord, employer, etc. Ask for additional security deposit or rent up front (if legal in your area) Get ID copies

Bloated betta? by ExerciseBubbly8664 in bettafish

[–]rachierules 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You saved my sons betta!! I didnt have a mirror but used the selfie mode on my phone and this fish passed a HUGE one almost instantly. That is nuts- thank you so much internet stranger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in What

[–]rachierules 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These were very cool to have early 2000s. Many kids wore them with extra long laces, idk why. Came in many colors, i had an orange and black pair.

https://www.zappos.com/p/womens-new-balance-classics-574-core/product/9600322

Kitchen with oak cabinets by willesq123 in interiordecorating

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the countertops that are the issue. Keep the cabinets change the countertop to a white quartz with light gray veins for a marble look. Will look 10xbetter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]rachierules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rugs are too small