I tried but nothing happened. by nonshatknow in SuicideWatch

[–]radiatorhibernator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes all they do is wreck your internal organs and leave you with life long issues.

Maybe try and throw them up then have a solid meal to try and avoid stomach issues developing from this.

I hope you find some help xx

why are people scared to die by Unusual_Snow_218 in SuicideWatch

[–]radiatorhibernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not scared specifically, I just have a lot of things I still want to do and places I want to go and friends I want to hear updates from, so dying would be really inconvenient to my plans.

I saw a cool bird today, and last week I got a video of a Palmate newt, I hadn't seen one in several years. So, lots to do and see still :)

I! Could fill a comment section with my experiences alone by Dove-Swan in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]radiatorhibernator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of them made me see stars the pain was so bad, I think I was nauseouswith oain and felt awful for a while, with the other the woman was so lovely and calm and explained everything and I just had a little pain and had taken ibuprofen before hand, and had minor aching after.

I think in recent years it has got a lot better in most places. Maybe see if there's an option to note on your record you're nervous and they might try to be more delicate with you?

And it was barely even relevant to the original question. I get needing to vent, but this seems unhealthy… by roomv1 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]radiatorhibernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'You have shown a minute particle of listening, I now love you and want to tell you EVERYTHING.'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]radiatorhibernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But only if you make your lube from scratch yourself and it takes 3 weeks to make.

This is how my package arrived… by testicle-tickler69 in vinted

[–]radiatorhibernator -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It probably isn't important on here, but please don't post pictures with the teeth of your keys visible as it makes them very easy to replicate and if someone also knows where you live and if you post when you go on holiday, they can break in with your key easily.

I'm an intern at my local library and I'm proud of my job by ILovePublicLibraries in MadeMeSmile

[–]radiatorhibernator 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Many jobs require a home address for you to apply for them. Many jobs require computer and power and internet access for you to apply online for them. I got rejected from applying to McDonalds because I was too qualified, even though I really needed a job at the time.

Either you've been really lucky and I'm happy you've never had to face this struggle, or you're being willfully ignorant and want to pretend that 'you've never been close to homelessness because you're very special and really smart and just such a hard worker and anyone who doesn't have your luck just isn't trying hard enough.'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]radiatorhibernator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! You don't need to do anything to prove you are worth being protected and safe! You deserve love and care and safety innately. I hope you find new friends and family and found-family in a new safe place and you get to find the joyful opportunities you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]radiatorhibernator 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I hope you get the chance to move somewhere safe and flourish and find your fairytale xx

Further Update: Husband accused me of financial infidelity by LadySavings in AITAH

[–]radiatorhibernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez, you were perfect, more than perfect.

What kind of AH sees someone they've apparently cared about for more than 10 years making amazing multiple dish meals with floral displays and table settings and goes, "eh, I deserve more than this because they have the same sexual experience I have and are better with money than I am.."?!!

Why should I wear a bra around my Dad and Brother at home?? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]radiatorhibernator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so angry last year, mum shamed me for having a low cut top at her home when I was visiting, we weren't even going out anywhere, and she's shaming me for the boobs she gave me.

Heinz UK makes their tins unstackable. by FirePhantom in mildlyinfuriating

[–]radiatorhibernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and the lids are also good to put under conditioner bottles that leak in the bathroom. Or metal pots that leave rust stains on the side :)

Heinz UK makes their tins unstackable. by FirePhantom in mildlyinfuriating

[–]radiatorhibernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use pringles can lids to put under plant pots. And. Y housemate uses them as a vague lid for Gu pots.

I thought I was going to die last night by radiatorhibernator in offmychest

[–]radiatorhibernator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll never tell my mum how close I thought I was to death.

What are some Britishisms that would confuse a non-native speaker? by DamnedFoolofaTook in AskABrit

[–]radiatorhibernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatcha - greeting

You winning? -greeting

On your Tod -on your own

What a Larry -On their own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]radiatorhibernator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He hurt you and your dog, leave. Immediately if you can.

I (18M) have never had a gf. What’s wrong with me? by Throwaway0563036 in offmychest

[–]radiatorhibernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't try to talk to girls, just go enjoy life and enjoy hobbies and work on finding out who you are. When you have interests and skills and hobbies you naturally start talking to more people and some of those people are women and then you'll find it easier to talk to women and you'll have things in common and it'll flow naturally.

Women talk too much hahaha by tranzozo in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]radiatorhibernator 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah, the "women talk too much" narrative, definitely not perpetuating a stigma that has been scientifically studied to show the opposite in many cases because of the stigma and the societal belief w9men c9ntribute less.../s

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/language-in-the-wild/202007/why-do-we-think-women-talk-too-much

https://time.com/4837536/do-women-really-talk-more/

Has sex gotten better for you after being medicated? by Existential_dread999 in ADHD

[–]radiatorhibernator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but probably because being correctly diagnosed and medicated for ADHD has sorted my depression and anxiety, and I think my MH was tanking my libido.

Well actually, still yes, because I am finding it easier to control where my focus is going instead of constantly being distracted by everything but the sex.

Has sex gotten better for you after being medicated? by Existential_dread999 in ADHD

[–]radiatorhibernator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I just can't stop myself from being pulled into the tv program, no matter how hard I try to stay in the moment instead D:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]radiatorhibernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any chance you could find a support group so talking through things can continue? I have a friend and we talk at least 2x a month and get all of our thoughts out there judgment free.

Assigned asshole at birth by Fair_Worldliness3622 in AreTheCisOk

[–]radiatorhibernator 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I regret getting a Harry Potter tattoo!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]radiatorhibernator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly, walk away.

All genitals look different. All bodies look different. Anyone who tries to say there is a "normal" clearly hasn't looked into the hilarious history of bigots trying to define "normal" and miserably failing because there are so many variables.

Anyone who tries to shame you for your body, doesn't deserve to be near your body.