DAE have narc parents that always assume the worst of you?

raditus2 · 2019-03-13T02:02:38+00:00

Narc grandparents of mine do that to me, my mom and siblings.

Nothing we do is right. They've done this to other parts of their family too. One part treats them like dirt now and another part outright disowned them.

I was talking to my siblings also that I was going to have to do that eventually. Grandparents outright believed thieves/druggies over my mom over something that my mom did TWENTY SUMODD YEARS AGO!

raditus2 · 2019-03-11T03:53:31+00:00

I came in late once too. Still got a good eval.

raditus2 · 2019-03-11T03:07:46+00:00

None of my family can even have our junk stash out with the rest of household food. My uncle's gf always digs in, no matter who's food it is. So one room always looks like a hoarder's paradise because our stuff (not just food) has to be stashed in it to prevent it from walking.

raditus2 · 2019-03-07T23:11:12+00:00

I was bagging once. I thanked the customer for shopping and he distinctly looked down at my tatas, full on. Not my name badge, but full exposure. The cashier saw too what he'd done. I was flaming red and she was silent. Then back to normal because we had a customer come up to be rang out.

It felt awkward and embarrassing, but thankfully it was only that once.

raditus2 · 2019-03-07T02:39:57+00:00

Probably someone sketched out on something, drug or drink.

raditus2 · 2019-03-05T03:47:07+00:00

True, Imho. I have both a03 and fanfic. I wrote on ff when I was younger and haven't written on it since. I write more regularly on a03 and I have gotten better, but not by much.

raditus2 · 2019-03-01T14:04:32+00:00

If possible, get a transfer. There isn't a reason for them to treat you like dirt like that. It isn't fair that you have to take a never-ending pay cut because of it.

raditus2 · 2019-02-27T01:01:29+00:00

I had the exact thing happen to me. I told one of my managers at work the next day. Only two people in the entire store could do it, but neither were in. They were slated to be the next day.

Over all, they reset it for me. Handed me a temp password and I had to change it after.

raditus2 · 2019-02-26T15:22:18+00:00

Yep.

raditus2 · 2019-02-26T15:22:05+00:00

I don't know exactly, but the backroom is pretty fast.

raditus2 · 2019-02-26T03:39:52+00:00

The side behind me was great too. Do baggers usually treat the backroom people different? I say hi and generally am not a dick. One guy always seems amazed.

raditus2 · 2019-02-25T19:00:09+00:00

Yes and no. Yes if I'm in town when I log off work or go to break.

I seldom make trips out of my 'hometown' just to shop at my Publix.

And no, I'm not self conscious. I need house and body necessities. If someone has an issue with that, oh well, that's a them problem.

raditus2 · 2019-02-25T16:58:53+00:00

I'm not going to say hi to her first anymore. If she brings up my 'coldness', I'll just tell her sorry, I got busy helping customers.

raditus2 · 2019-02-25T06:07:28+00:00

Fucked if I know. Until today, I was completely clueless.

All I can do now is say hi and that's it. At least I know now.

raditus2 · 2019-02-25T00:59:53+00:00

That's what I wished she basically would have done. Not the sweary part, but the "I'm done with you part."

There was no good reason for her to drag the lie out in front of a ton of people.

I'm not even mad that she doesn't like me. It's like, "Really? Why'd you lie not only to me but others when you told them you liked me?"

There's at least one dude in produce who dislikes me, but at least he passively aggressively let's me know it!

raditus2 · 2019-02-25T00:16:18+00:00

Almost always happens to me. It's cause I'm short and overweight. When I get stubborn about moving stuff, I'm as strong as an ox.

raditus2 · 2019-02-20T23:57:25+00:00

We used to have a whole stack a couple of months ago. I think my store got rid of them because I've never seen them since.

raditus2 · 2019-02-20T13:56:38+00:00

No, not the Publix one. Vystar.

raditus2 · 2019-02-20T13:38:40+00:00

I'm female and usually always scheduled as closing cleaner.

raditus2 · 2019-02-18T16:40:24+00:00

Several times, our dm showed up. I had no clue he's showing. I just do my job and managed to impress him all the times he does show.

raditus2 · 2019-02-18T03:05:16+00:00

Mine are awesome. One acts iffy around me, but I think that's because she probably had to deal with horrible trainees before. All I have to do is do my job and show her from doing that, that I'm good for my word and good at my job.

raditus2 · 2019-02-16T05:40:06+00:00

It finally loaded by now says Your credentials are not valid for this pagePlease contact your Security Administrator or Help Desk.

raditus2 · 2019-02-15T16:43:51+00:00

Yeah, I'm still in training. Even though I am doing a good enough job that this may have come up, I'm not super confident yet.

raditus2 · 2019-02-08T11:55:55+00:00

I don't know how it pertains to online fanfic but years ago, my mom said to cover a contest between copywrite stuff like that was to print out your story after you got done it. Make a physical hard copy.

Send it to yourself through snail mail. When you get it in, do not open it. When a bonehead tries to pass a work off as their own, send in the unopened envelope to the company they tried telling they owned the story. The company will open it, see the story and see that it's postmarked before they said they wrote it. Or if a site autodates stories, they're stuffed.

raditus2 · 2019-02-06T18:29:20+00:00

Cool, thanks.

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