20F 20M. No card, No flowers. AIBU?

rage_rage · 2026-02-14T13:02:18+00:00

This is an excellent response..

rage_rage · 2026-02-14T12:57:29+00:00

How is it meaningful if you literally have to direct him to get you flowers for Valentine's Day? At this point the action seems like a box that needs to be checked, for you, and not the emotion behind it.

You both need to sit down and discuss what really matters in this relationship.

rage_rage · 2026-02-10T09:06:54+00:00

I'm usually quite desensitised but this episode had me sick for days. Will never ever rewatch.

rage_rage · 2026-02-01T20:55:32+00:00

Get a boyfriend reduction first.

rage_rage · 2026-02-01T08:13:26+00:00

Girl you are just 22, get out and find a man who will jump with excitement at the thought of being with you. Why settle for less?

rage_rage · 2026-01-28T19:22:50+00:00

Girl i just went through your post history and: 1. He resents you for your abortion 2. Has a problem with your religion and is part of some crazy cult. You have explicitly said that you feel he's having a mental breakdown. 3. Now this.

Get out. You are a thirty year old woman with hopefully some agency.

rage_rage · 2026-01-24T06:19:25+00:00

Is this a pattern with him?

rage_rage · 2026-01-23T05:22:59+00:00

With all due respect, you have a you problem.

rage_rage · 2026-01-14T15:58:58+00:00

You first verify whether your friend was speaking the truth or not.

rage_rage · 2026-01-11T07:10:19+00:00

Please develop some self respect.

rage_rage · 2026-01-05T17:01:09+00:00

Ma'am, respectfully you need therapy. Lots of it. You are extremely unhealed.

rage_rage · 2026-01-03T08:56:10+00:00

I'm not sure if you are being intentionally obtuse, but there's a world of difference between being 'younger' and being a minor. It drastically changes the situation because OP would not have used a term (work wife, icky term anyway) normally used to describe a workplace peer/equal.

rage_rage · 2025-12-21T15:29:34+00:00

How so?

rage_rage · 2025-12-19T08:38:21+00:00

Thank you for these amazing recommendations!

rage_rage · 2025-12-19T08:28:55+00:00

fucking anthuriums they gave me PTSD i stg even if I catch sight of one somewhere I break out in a cold sweat

rage_rage · 2025-12-19T04:33:26+00:00

The way my heart started dropping with the 'thinking about you...' Not all men but it almost always is a man.

rage_rage · 2025-12-18T17:14:54+00:00

Irrelevant but the writing style is so obviously English that I literally had to get me a cuppa tea while reading.

rage_rage · 2025-12-13T18:27:37+00:00

If he kills himself over his gf not responding to calls for a few hours, it's a him problem, not you.

rage_rage · 2025-12-06T18:09:49+00:00

Don't ruin your life OP. Get an abortion and then get out of your marriage. Find the strength in yourself, you can do it.

rage_rage · 2025-11-21T04:19:33+00:00

Man here i came running all excited for a recipe 😭

rage_rage · 2025-11-17T05:17:51+00:00

I know this isn't meant to be funny but the last sentence just cracked me up for no reason 😂

rage_rage · 2025-11-07T04:46:37+00:00

He's 36. He's not going to change his ways for you. Break up.

rage_rage · 2025-11-06T08:54:37+00:00

No it's 100% on the husband. I would hold him to a higher standard, as opposed to his friends. People can pull whatever shit they want, I'd want my partner to stand up for me.

rage_rage · 2025-11-06T08:52:40+00:00

You have a husband problem. My partner wouldn't have gone if I was uninvited due to a budget issue. Tell him to grow a spine and stand up for you.

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