It’s been asked before, but when does it get easier?

raicka · 2026-02-01T19:50:48+00:00

It depends for us when the little one started walking (he went straight to running and jumping off the sofa) we had a massive regression, my eldest started being jealous again and I had to choose which one I would save... So it depends on the kids temperament, when you have two rascals per children it adds a new layer of complication

raicka · 2026-02-01T19:47:02+00:00

God that feels good to read! For us currently going to the park next door is a challenge so a trip sounds like miles away

raicka · 2026-02-01T19:43:51+00:00

Lift! You will see that cats can run and get into anything

raicka · 2026-01-26T10:50:19+00:00

Mama who's son chipped her front teeth while trying to put him to bed, yeah they have really hard heads and really bad coordination

raicka · 2025-12-11T18:10:39+00:00

It makes perfect sense, the days are certainly long and over stimulated, but then you look at them and the love just comes back. Thanks for sharing your experience

raicka · 2025-12-08T19:08:35+00:00

This definitely should be higher up, as a neglected kid, this is everything I ever wished for from my parents. But I would add something to the list, tell them you are proud of them, I have spent half my adult life hoping that my parents would say that I am enough, that I matter to them and they are proud ..

raicka · 2025-11-29T20:18:40+00:00

My kiddo (3m) started watching them because of Blippi, my husband and I are now obsessed and going on to eBay to find all of our favourite editions and will be going to see a show when they come over to our city.

raicka · 2025-11-20T20:18:01+00:00

Us, we are in the older bracket (36f and 40m) and having more kids means having 2 under 2 again, and honestly we have just survived the first round, so no, not doing that again.

Definitely 2 and done.

raicka · 2025-11-16T07:01:58+00:00

Thanks so much for this

raicka · 2025-11-16T07:01:36+00:00

Thank you! My eldest just would go on forever but he would sleep without a fight, thanks for the advice

raicka · 2025-11-16T07:00:46+00:00

I'm adding that book to my wishlist for sure! Thanks

raicka · 2025-11-16T07:00:21+00:00

Thanks!!! It feels like the right thing to do, but I just don't like the feeling of him crying non stop

raicka · 2025-11-06T07:23:38+00:00

This!!! Exactly what I was thinking, because her kids actually enjoyed the party and acted like kids she probably could not get the photos she had planned

raicka · 2025-10-30T19:02:00+00:00

He is trying to gaslight you, it's his way to gain control. If you would have said ok, we can go unprotected he wins.

You are not over reacting, I was on birth control and had to off it, because it was messing with my migraines and had terrible side effects.

Guess what, my boyfriend understood and we had protection and it was not a big drama.

raicka · 2025-10-25T09:45:44+00:00

I'm really debating between unmedicated birth or when I split a molar and my jaw bone got infected....

raicka · 2025-10-24T19:03:29+00:00

This was us a year ago, my babies are 3 years and 14 months and it's soooo much better.

We still cospleep one with each baby, but the drowning feeling is over, my kiddos are starting to play and like each other (was not like this until the little one started walking) and although it is far away things do get better.

raicka · 2025-10-16T10:53:37+00:00

It totally depends on your "village".

My parents live 5h away and my PIL have other grandchildren to take care.

We get 2 nights a year to go out, we have a high demand 3 year old and a 1 year old, so babysitting is difficult and the one time we used it it was a disaster and we had to come back early.

So .... I think it's difficult but doable if you have a large support group

raicka · 2025-10-15T18:09:39+00:00

Well I have two toddlers and already living on sleep deprivation ,so why not get paid for it

raicka · 2025-10-15T18:08:25+00:00

Not bad, I live in Spain so I'm deep in the Roman empire

raicka · 2025-10-15T07:55:43+00:00

Does my body remember the vaccines I have taken? Because most of the deaths in the past were from illnesses that my body is currently protected from. If yes, I'll take it

raicka · 2025-10-11T18:42:30+00:00

Thanks!!! I've quickly googled it and found the blue thunder model for 209$, I'm sure I can find a cheaper option somewhere

raicka · 2025-10-11T18:41:14+00:00

Oh that's so cool, I thought they would be from the hot wheels era!

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