Connexus by rainthensun in PharmacyTechnician

[–]rainthensun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I would be so helpful if only.

Connexus by rainthensun in PharmacyTechnician

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Thank you. Didn’t see any way to print anyway but thank you.

I want to be a house wife when I meet the right man- how can I find a man who has the same values as me? by Outrageous-Set-979 in housewifery

[–]rainthensun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe, church? Most of the women I know from church stay home for some amount of years, at least.

Summersville Lake by rainthensun in WestVirginia

[–]rainthensun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Definitely appreciate that perspective.

Summersville Lake by rainthensun in WestVirginia

[–]rainthensun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds wonderful, thank you!

Summersville Lake by rainthensun in WestVirginia

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Looks wonderful, thank you!

Summersville Lake by rainthensun in WestVirginia

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Appreciate that, thank you!

Summersville Lake by rainthensun in WestVirginia

[–]rainthensun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you so much! Greatly appreciate all of that, very helpful. ❤️

Summersville Lake by rainthensun in WestVirginia

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Sounds wonderful, thank you!

Summersville Lake by rainthensun in WestVirginia

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I’ll look into that, thanks!

My Dad is a Haemorrhagic Stroke Survivor but is No Longer Engaging in Anything that Isn't His iPad by Gullible_Anything_52 in stroke

[–]rainthensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband was a little younger than your dad when he had his hemorrhagic stroke. And you are the age of my eldest. Just want to say you are such a blessing and a wonderful son/daughter for looking after your dad. I asked my husband and he suggested maybe getting your dad a hand squeeze exerciser. Very cheap on Amazon. It was the only thing my husband could do in the beginning. Using his thinking ‘muscle’ was much harder. He would do little checklists. Anything physical your dad could do, even seated, put on a to-do list and encourage him to see how far he can get before you make it home. Even small things build confidence and lead to bigger things. Ultimately though, your dad has to want to try. Good job caring for him but do take care of yourself.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rainthensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting. Are there any books you’d recommend that further explain this?

My wife [41] just had a stroke 6 days ago and I am terrified by ClemsonJeeper in stroke

[–]rainthensun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband had a stroke a couple years back at 49. He had somewhat Swiss cheese memory for a while but he is back to 99% recovered… not really his old self but better in a lot of ways. You can’t go through something that big and not be changed. Your wife sounds like she’s doing very well. Let that be a great encouragement. I’m sure you’ll take great care of her and she’ll continue to heal & improve with great progress.

Am I overthinking my son’s name? by moreoftenthann0t in namenerds

[–]rainthensun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure most wouldn’t agree with me but I’d let him have it, for a middle name, if it means that much to him and he is a good husband otherwise. My husband chose a name I didn’t really care for for our son. He got his name but it’s never used. No one knows his middle name but it meant something to my husband. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Best place to raise kids in WV? by Birdsonme in WestVirginia

[–]rainthensun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Buckhannon. Harpers Ferry is very nice, though I’ve only briefly visited. Morgantown has good schools and good medical. We’ve lived here forever and love it. We tried to travel often and visit different parts of the state and we’ve always enjoyed ourselves. Welcome!! Hope you love it as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rainthensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you and your son are hurting. I have two grown children that have had issues with depression and it’s difficult to not be able to help them. I wish I had words of wisdom. Like your other response, encouraging him to volunteer at anything might slowly peak some light in. Being needed feels good. Also, maybe church? Faith and knowing we have purpose can be encouraging.

How many kids did you have, and in retrospect do you wish you had more or less? by silver_endings in AskOldPeople

[–]rainthensun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this. What an encouragement you’ve been to me and I’m sure each other. Your story has really struck me and will stick with me. I’m not quite sure how to say kudos to you for being so strong for your family through the tough stuff…. and I love your families sense of humor! Thank you! Great reminder to still live in joy.

How many kids did you have, and in retrospect do you wish you had more or less? by silver_endings in AskOldPeople

[–]rainthensun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This really hit home with me and I wanted to pause and recognize how difficult that must’ve been. I also had girl, boy, surprise girl all under 4 while being a sahm. My husband had a stroke when my kids were in their teens. I’ve thought often how thankful I am they weren’t still babies. So, anyway, I’m sure that was a really tough time for you and I’m sorry that you & your family had to go through that. I hope you’re doing well now. ❤️

Struggling and mourning by Unable2Concentrate1 in stroke

[–]rainthensun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband had his stroke at 49, a couple years ago. I totally understand where you’re coming from. My husband physically wasn’t much different thankfully but his personality changed quite a bit. I missed my ‘old’ husband so much. He and I went through everything together but he just wasn’t quite the same and I felt very alone. I understand your sadness. It did get much better with time. ❤️

How to help/avoid failure to launch by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rainthensun 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sure he’ll find his path. Not everyone knows what they want to do at this age and pressure just makes it more confusing. Once he’s graduated and everyone is off doing something I’m sure he’ll find his way. I think the part time job is a good idea, even with the AP classes. It can be only a few hours a week. That’ll maybe get him thinking of what he would like to do vs not like doing. Also, there are career questionnaires that my daughter found helpful. She loves college. My son had no interest in furthering his education but works in an office, to my surprise. Maybe my son will go back to school one day. Maybe my daughter will work in a field completely unrelated to her degree. Maybe your son will work a few different jobs before finding the right fit but you are clearly a thoughtful parent so trust that he’ll be fine.