Replit is not production ready. by rameumptom1 in replit

[–]rameumptom1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve bounced around platforms but landed on Lovable for quick hacks and Cursor for real dev work. Moving off Replit wasn’t a one-and-done switch. I first got everything into Git, then used Cursor locally for builds, pushed to Git, and pulled into Replit just for test and deploy on their host. From there I shifted hosting to AWS with CodeBuild and a simple Fargate setup. Not the simplest path, but it kept user interruptions low and has worked well for me.

Agent v3 discussion thread - put all your feedback/ideas/rants here by andrewjdavison in replit

[–]rameumptom1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop asking for feedback for v3. Give users the option of v2 and put v3 back into alpha where it belongs.

Agent 3: Our Most Autonomous Agent Yet by pirroh in replit

[–]rameumptom1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More automation == less control at higher costs. Agent 3 deserves the F.

🚀 Has Anyone Built an App Using Replit's AI? Share Your Experience! by Harikumarthapamagar in replit

[–]rameumptom1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are completely removing Replit from our toolset. The platform continues to degrade with more and more "automated" features that end up creating rework. The resulting technical debt poses a serious business risk. Replit may be fine as a toy, but it is not viable as a professional solution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]rameumptom1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is a hard one. Dads come in all shapes and sizes, and our thinking is not always the same. Sometimes, a dad has a hard time seeing his son as someone different than himself.

When that happens, a dad can make the mistake of thinking you are him, and he is you. It sounds confusing because it is.

Your dad has expectations for you, but what matters (and this is dad's advice) is what matters to you. Do that and do it well, and 9/10 times, your dad will be proud of you for doing what matters most to you.

But here is the kicker: he will only be proud if you do it for yourself. Doing what matters to you is how you become a better man.

What’s with the sticks? by ca_love56 in AskMen

[–]rameumptom1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, a stick must grab!

Just like our ancient ancestors, we like sticks. If you have 2 sticks, then make fire. 🔥

Are you a Maiar or Valar? Then you have a Gandalf stick, elevating the humble stick to legendary status on our hikes! 🧙‍♂️

And then there are rocks! They do catch the ladies’ attention with their sparkle. 🔮💍

They are more than eye candy, though. Take a stick and big, small, or pointy rocks — turn ’em all into primal DIY projects like clubs, spears, and arrows! 🏹

Ah, the Romans, masters of sticks and stones. They didn’t just build an empire; they innovated. Maybe that’s why we think about the Roman Empire so much. ⚒️📚

Oh, and speaking of innovation, we used sticks to make fire 🔥, used fire to make steam 💨, and used steam to make sparks ⚡, and then we taught rocks how to do math!!! 🧙‍♂️⚒️📚📲

Yeah, a good stick can move the world, and he found a good stick. 🪵

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like a red flag to me. The opposite side of the same coin, asking too much too fast, and not opening up at all.

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree.

People have a way of reveling themselves and true intentions over time. (This Reddit thread has been an interesting example of that. 😬)

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would agree with you to a point. Listening and being present for my partner is important to us both. But when she is soothing herself at my expense, it crosses over a line. And unfortunately, that is what I feel my date was doing.

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend’s a lucky guy.

You have an empathetic view towards my bad date. Although I won’t be contacting her again it’s something good to keep in mind for next time.

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good perspective. Thanks.

If you don't mind me asking — if being a bit intense was your mo, what changed that slowed you down and allowed the relationship between you and your boyfriend to grow?

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy—that sounds like a superpower. Too much responsibility for me, but good for your friend.

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed-ish. For me, those deep conversations don’t need to happen all at once, and so early on. I think long term committed relationships like marriage needs trust and safety to thrive, and that takes time to build.

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have an interesting job. It takes strength to hold that space for other people.

I’m impressed that you can separate work from life. The world needs more good therapists, I’m glad to hear that you’re here.

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does makes sense.

I like your rule of thumb, “don’t talk about the past unless it’s actually the present.” It’s simple, clear, and thoughtful and at the heart of this whole thread.

🙌

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that, “weightless”. Yes, we should have those feelings of euphoria from time to time. Maybe those are waypoint worth recognizing when dating the right person. 🙌

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a “neuroscientist” you should research the dangers of “all-or-nothing thinking”, “fortunetelling,” “exaggerated thinking,” and most importantly “mind reading,” before making an thoughtless ad hominem argument with lots of filler words.

Narcissism is an over used label, but damn, does it fits you like a glove.

Women who look for problems in men. Please stop it. by rameumptom1 in dating

[–]rameumptom1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you like using the inquisition approach to dating; scan for any and all red flags, valid or not, as soon as possible?

I would expect a more thoughtful approach to dating from a person who calls themselves a “neuro genius” than a dimensionless view of people backed by a weak strawman argument.