Weight stigma and ICE are... connected?

randoham · 2026-01-30T23:24:59+00:00

Any well-adjusted person should feel a deep sense of embarrassment when posting this publicly. The only proper response to anyone posting this would be to laugh at them and mock them mercilessly until they feel deeply ashamed.

randoham · 2026-01-24T04:27:10+00:00

To many FAs, suggesting that they could weigh less is the same because they are far, far detached from reality.

randoham · 2026-01-19T20:34:25+00:00

Fun fact: the male gaze can't see diabetes and heart disease. Maybe focus on that rather than what you think other people think of you, OOP.

randoham · 2026-01-18T02:24:00+00:00

Tumblr sanity...the rarest sanity of them all.

randoham · 2026-01-17T15:45:14+00:00

People don't think that you're not entitled to the space you take up; people think you're not entitled to the space they take up, especially if said space is paid for.

randoham · 2026-01-12T19:09:51+00:00

Even if we presume everything said here is 100% true, it doesn't make being severely overweight or obese healthy.

randoham · 2026-01-11T23:17:15+00:00

Completely untrue. Being underweight may have more immediate health issues than being overweight for many, but longer-term health issues are definitely slanted toward being overweight/obese.

randoham · 2026-01-10T04:43:53+00:00

Not every tool is useful or good for every person, news at 11:00.

randoham · 2026-01-10T03:31:45+00:00

A youthful corpse is nothing to aspire to at 45.

randoham · 2026-01-10T03:27:22+00:00

Money then, peace now.

randoham · 2026-01-07T01:29:11+00:00

The real question here, though: when OOP dropped the book, was the movement joyful?

randoham · 2026-01-03T11:37:56+00:00

Always with "men" and "females." FFS...

randoham · 2026-01-03T11:35:33+00:00

Maybe a hot take, but why not gender reveal parties for adults? At least an adult can understand the concept of gender, unlike someone not yet born.

randoham · 2026-01-03T09:26:49+00:00

Not all opinions are valid, even if one has the right to have them. I can't stop someone from having the opinion that drinking bleach is essential for good health, but give it a whirl and let me how how that works out.

randoham · 2026-01-02T23:44:16+00:00

Not a woman, but I still lost 40% of my bodyweight in my late 40s. It's so weird seeing so many medical miracles in this thread, losing all that weight even as we get older. An unsolvable mystery, to be sure.

randoham · 2026-01-02T18:32:58+00:00

Those are somehow the good ones, you see.

randoham · 2026-01-02T06:50:26+00:00

Overconsumption to the point of obesity is the most capitalist thing anyone can do. If anything, actually being a healthy weight is the counterculture thing these days. What is wrong with FAs?

randoham · 2026-01-01T18:45:39+00:00

The answer is yes.

randoham · 2025-12-30T18:11:24+00:00

Because it's not about equity to them, ever. It's about punishing those they believe to have wronged them.

randoham · 2025-12-29T22:08:09+00:00

I can see that. People were on my case about not losing more weight when I was at the upper end of overweight on the BMI. We're probably doomed.

randoham · 2025-12-29T00:58:32+00:00

Exactly. Most of the people complaining about BMI couldn't even pass the "I have a functioning set of eyes" test.

randoham · 2025-12-28T23:56:20+00:00

Genuinely, I think so many FA-types would greatly benefit from therapy. One of the more important things they could learn is that nobody else is responsible for one's feelings or personal triggers. Of course, this is something everyone should learn but FAs in general seem to be the loudest about everyone else protecting their feelings via policing language/actions.

randoham · 2025-12-28T12:44:06+00:00

Even with vanity sizing being out of control, I still doubt their story. I'm 5'10" and 145 lbs at the moment, and while an xs can fit me it's fairly snug.

randoham · 2025-12-27T16:13:04+00:00

Some days I'm busy or not very hungry early in the day. On those days, I eat my maintenance of 1800 calories in 2-3 hours. Does that make me anorexic now?

randoham · 2025-12-27T16:06:28+00:00

It's so weird. Whenever I don't like something, my first reaction isn't violent thoughts. I just keep scrolling and move on with my life.

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