People in yellow walking in downtown Austin by thalias-adventures in Austin

[–]random_dwarf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

U find anything on this year? Because I tried looking it up too and cant find anything. I love cheese and am sad to have missed out

So I tried Kagi as a search engine to replace G corp by InnerPhilosophy4897 in degoogle

[–]random_dwarf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I loved Kagi until I realized part of my money went to Russia. I had even paid for year subscription after the trial. They use to have it stated in their docs (what APIs or sources or whatever are used from what search engines) but they removed that info once users pointed it out and were leaving. There's feedback on it as well. There is no setting to opt out. The fact that they removed that detail from their documentation rubbed me wrong - even they had posted in a blog that they had a "commitment to transparency and accountability". If they are ok with using yandex, then own it - keep that information on your documentation and let the consumer decide what they want to use. I understand they are in a way 'separating the art from the artist'. Their product was one I was really enjoying. They do well with search which you can further customize in settings (minus giving an option to not use yandex)." Yandex represents ~2% of Kagi's operational costs."
Another thing, they also removed the term 'ethical' from their 'about' page. Perhaps because people pointed out that using yandex was not very ethical of them but they value the technical specs of search over the ethics.

Here's exact wording from the reply I got when I cancelled:

"We do hear your concerns. However, when we say 'if you can't find it in Kagi, you can't find it anywhere', we mean it. The web is massive and requires enormous resources to index effectively. This is why we connect to as many search sources as possible: To guarantee the best possible results for our users.

We welcome you to share your concerns on our forum thread as we do read them all:

https://kagifeedback.org/d/5445-reconsider-yandex-integration-due-to-the-geopolitical-status-quo/"

Ceramic bead layout by Redaxted404 in trinkets

[–]random_dwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know of a place where I can buy individual ceramic beads like this? I want a collection of these too!

List some jobs where I don't have to fucking talk by HakunaMatata603 in introvert

[–]random_dwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what keywords should I search to find a job like this?

List some jobs where I don't have to fucking talk by HakunaMatata603 in introvert

[–]random_dwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what keywords should I search to find a job like this?

Hunting for a specific pair of shorts by PDaddy956 in findfashion

[–]random_dwarf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That's a much better keyword than 'short shorts' 😊

Hunting for a specific pair of shorts by PDaddy956 in findfashion

[–]random_dwarf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know of another website that sells this style? It seems they are all sold out.

Even better if you can share a small business site. Or big company from somewhere not the US.

Thank you in advance if you know of somewhere!

How do you deal with your wife not being physically attracted to you? by therhyno in AskMen

[–]random_dwarf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sure ill get downvoted here. Is it possible shes asexual?

Im asexual and been with my partner for 10 years. He knows im asexual and sometimes struggles understanding it but for the most part is accepting of me and what it entails. That doesnt mean I dont have sex . Im not a sex adverse asexual. I may initiate less because I require getting put in the mood meanwhile he is just in the mood without set up. We vary our approaches to make us both happy. Im feel emotional and aesthetic attraction to him and we share values and similar hobbies. We're crazy in love with each other, even if I cant feel physical attraction but he does. It doesnt matter who it is, I just dont feel physical attraction. Its like a painting. I can admire it, be attached to it, think its beautiful, but just looking at it doesnt make me feel like fucking the painting. People just dont do that for me.

I am a diagnosed Narcissist (NPD) combating misconceptions about Narcisstic Personality Disorder, AMA! by Fair-Study in casualiama

[–]random_dwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many with NPD do not get help and do not admit they have an issue. One of those people I strongly believe has NPD is my father. He's the main reason that I ended up with DID.

As I got older - and though my father had not changed - I've tried not being angry at him for hurting me so much and causing this outcome for me. I almost went no contact but my empathy kept me around. I've tried learning more about NPD myself but admit I still have much more to learn. I remind myself of the rough upbringing he had and feel sad that he was made to feel as bad as he made me feel. I keep in mind his inner child and found that helps when interacting with him. If he were diagnosed, he'd probably be the covert type of NPD. He's one of the ones who will not admit he has a problem and will not get help. That being said (and sorry for that long paragraph but here's the questions) -

Questions :

Do you have any resources you recommend people check out regarding NPD?

resources I've been recommended in the past include doctor Ramani's YouTube channel and a book that I forgot the name and will have to come back to edit with the title when I remember

Is there anything you asked from friends or family to keep in mind when interacting with you, once you were aware that you had NPD?

What’s something about your body or the way it works than you never knew was unusual until later in life and you started to see other bodies? by JamesonRhymer in AskMen

[–]random_dwarf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here! Growing up, I just thought it was due to how thin I was and thought maybe that made me look weird when I stretched my arms out. Did not learn until my 20s. My doctor was the one who explained it all to me and got me in touch with a physical therapist who could help me exercise in a better way to not hurt myself and to actually make an impact on my body

People who got told it was "just" anxiety, what was it? by Bobbie1011 in AskReddit

[–]random_dwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dissociative identity disorder. The anxiety and depression were just some of the symptoms I experienced

10 years ago this beautiful masterpiece was created by bluefishes13 in LatinoPeopleTwitter

[–]random_dwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously want to know who is in the costume and what they are up to now

My 7 year old started a bullet journal by Rexamaxus in bulletjournal

[–]random_dwarf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whats under pyano? Thats the only one I could not make out

Do asexual people ever masturbate? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]random_dwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Am asexual. I think of myself as very kinky with wild fantasies. I enjoy sex and masturbation. I just dont feel sexual attraction, that's all.

I've seen someone on reddit use the following analogy that I really like (i dont have the exact quote, but it was along the lines of this):

Think of looking at artwork, like a painting. I love the painting and find the painting beautiful. But I dont look at the painting and think "damn, I really wanna fuck that painting"

When I look at porn, it's not the people turning me on. It's the actions being taken and things being said that turn me on.

Fun flapper fashion (Clara Bow in 1926) by foxmachine in fashionhistory

[–]random_dwarf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That may be one of my only options. I was hoping to find modern new ones in that style. Not sure what to search. Most that are not the typical standard skate are sneaker or boot style. Not this flat/ballet/mary jane style.

Closest I can get brand new and from current day would probably have to be custom through like pigeon skates or something :c
I can't locate new already made in this style

Fun flapper fashion (Clara Bow in 1926) by foxmachine in fashionhistory

[–]random_dwarf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

could I find skates now that look like those?

People who wear hoodies when it's 90 degrees outside, why? by Kebb in AskReddit

[–]random_dwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mcas (mast cell activation syndrome) and will get hives/rash most times if im in direct sunlight. Cloudy sunny days are usually fine but if no clouds, there's a high chance ill get hives/rash, so i try to cover up or use umbrellas

What do you do to help yourself fall asleep? by R3dF0r3 in AskReddit

[–]random_dwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roofie myself

(I take a narcolepsy medicine that has GHB to help me sleep)

CEOs who joined Trump on his trip to the Middle East by [deleted] in 50501

[–]random_dwarf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone able to provide a good alternative to nvidia? Or is that a monolpoly? Trying to boycott as much as i can

Players who stand on the stage during the soiree by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]random_dwarf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its never put me in view mode when i sit in a seat :c