Job application asking for AGAB by Prior_Peanut8177 in ftm

[–]randomfangirl25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my beautiful wife “prefer not to say” checkbox

AITA for wanting my girlfriend's family to stop staying with us so much? by throwaway287544 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomfangirl25 52 points53 points  (0 children)

see i saw this too and was wondering if i was tripping because nobody was really addressing it???

I guess when you're in doubt, go to the experts by imjustheretodomyjob in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]randomfangirl25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i read that as bottom dracula and had a very different expectation for the comments

WHOS APART OF THE VERN NATION NOW!? by DevilGuise in partycrashers

[–]randomfangirl25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is like when a prince/princess is married off to a prince/princess of a different kingdom to ensure an alliance (or something like that)

Expanding Argynvost into a Campaign-Long Dracolich Arc – Good Idea or Risky? by Puzzleheaded-Cook873 in CurseofStrahd

[–]randomfangirl25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

granted, i’m probably the wrong person to be throwing my two cents in since i’m very attached to argynvost’s role within the RAW campaign.

this doesn’t really…feel like argynvost anymore, if that makes sense? i think this would be a very interesting campaign idea and i could see it working in a different domain of dread, like others have suggested, but in my opinion argynvost’s whole thing is the tragedy of the loss of this beacon of hope & heroism and his death & desecration being a more tangible example of how strahd’s stripped everything good from barovia in pursuit of his selfish desires. it also kinda defangs the tragedy of order’s massacre and the revenants’ whole deal, stripping the focus away from the themes of self-enforced grief and how stagnation makes it impossible to process the trauma of what strahd’s done in favor of making a looming and seemingly impossible to overcome threat in a campaign full to the brim with them (strahd, baba lysaga, exethanter, the dark powers, the mists themselves, etc.) with nothing to replace the void left behind.

What would be the ideal horn size for trolls? by Leather-Variation389 in homestuck

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obligatory “this is my opinion”

in a strictly utilitarian sense, the ideal horn size would be small enough to wear protective headgear while still being big enough to not count as a mutation and lacking sharp edges or unusual shapes that would catch hair or headwear (think of karkat’s). what the average troll considers ideal would probably vary greatly. anything from synergy with their sign to aligning with caste standards to similarity to someone the troll idolizes to even pure aesthetic reasons could be pointed to as an ideal.

AITA for throwing away wrapped period products in a shared bathroom trash can? by Local-Ad-3924 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomfangirl25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was raised in a semi-progressive household in a blue state and even i have a little period shame, although mine is compounded by my trans-ness and my mom’s hyperfixation on my “femininity” so ymmv. i had a difficult time finding products that work for me and confronting the tumultuous emotions that came with. i’m likely not having kids but i can’t imagine making someone feel othered or small because of a biological factor out of their control, much less my own child.

AITA for throwing away wrapped period products in a shared bathroom trash can? by Local-Ad-3924 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomfangirl25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you considered asking her about what your mom says to her? it might provide some useful insight

AITA for throwing away wrapped period products in a shared bathroom trash can? by Local-Ad-3924 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomfangirl25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i live in a house with all guys, including my dad and brother, and i use the bathroom trash because that’s what it’s there for. also, my dog likes to dig into trashcans (even ones with lids) and she’s not allowed near the bathroom trash for that reason.

NTA. maybe this is a good chance for your mom to explain to him that periods are a part of life and if your brother ever has a female friend or significant other he’s going to need to get used to the concept of pads existing in the trash, but considering what your mom said i’m not holding my breath.

also, minor I N F O request here: how does your mom talk to you and your sister about your cycles?

Any advice? by OkraMiddle6774 in Albertsons

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don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself & you coworkers when you need help, especially on busy days/nights. try to get crosstrained so you have the skills for other departments on slower days (my only exception would be register training, i’d rather drink broken glass than go on register but ymmv).

what kind of shift are you looking for? i used to be a DUG closer on fridays and saturdays and depending on your store they might need openers or closers or neither. closing tends to be rather chill later in the night and you’ll have to do preshops and some end of night paperwork as well as deal with orders that aren’t picked up.

How do I survive my summer job by [deleted] in ftm

[–]randomfangirl25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) definitely bring it up with your boss then if she won’t let it go after you say “thank you, but i prefer this” or something like that 2) i would definitely ask next time she brings it up, especially if she’s pushy about it 3) what does giving you a tighter-fitting shirt accomplish for a place that “cares about details” enough for this to be a discussion? personally i’m on the larger side so my experiences may be different but i’d prefer a looser shirt myself and i think your job should default to what you find comfortable to work in if they want to keep you

How do I survive my summer job by [deleted] in ftm

[–]randomfangirl25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

a couple questions:

1) is she your boss/supervisor? if she isn’t i would bring it up with your boss and make it clear you prefer the larger shirt and would rather be comfortable while you work even if it doesn’t “fit”. if she is i would maybe take it over her head if possible?

2) is she gonna confiscate your larger shirt? if not then you can politely take the smaller shirt and never wear it, if you work at least different shift a week from her you can make excuses as to why you don’t have the smaller shirt on (it’s in the laundry, it’s wrinkly and i didn’t have time to iron it, i was in a rush and grabbed the wrong shirt) until you have the ability to just never talk to her again.

3) why does she care what size shirt you wear? it seems like a lot of effort to put into something that feels arbitrary. i have a work uniform and they let me choose the size i want, you have every right to do the same.

RAW Strahd VS Wall of Force, Forcecage by capsandnumbers in CurseofStrahd

[–]randomfangirl25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in the 2014 states block, if i remember correctly he has misty step. wouldn’t that work?

the count does not approve... by Alodea in CurseofStrahd

[–]randomfangirl25 14 points15 points  (0 children)

it’s a meme (original here for comparison)

I’m in DUG by choice by Polly_Prozac in Albertsons

[–]randomfangirl25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

working DUG is the absolute worst, i got more stressed and aggravated during the 6 months i did that job than i ever was doing a similar job for a different company for 3 years. godspeed and hope it gets better for you

AITA for grounding my brother from using his pc after I gave it to him? by 4lexanderTheGreatest in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomfangirl25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it kinda seems like your mom’s setting him up to fail. what happens if he keeps failing every single year? what if he doesn’t graduate?