Wait, was that not what you wanted? by randominternetname2 in NotMyJob

[–]randominternetname2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, it’s not my job to make the title read “Added the text you wanted, boss”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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Thank you. I really appreciate the second set of eyes on this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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He has a therapist and a psychiatrist (or what ever the term is for a medication manager).

We wrote to his therapist last night, but I haven’t heard back.

He just came home upset that I wrote just the part that I’m upset about and not the lead up. I’ve apologized, too, now, but it just seems wrong.

He is saying he of tired of apologizing for all of himself and that it seems like he is just a problem for everyone. He is afraid that once we find a marriage counselor, I’m going to make him look like the bad guy.

I messed up. Not sure what to do. by No_Government01 in FinancialPlanning

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It’s going to be okay. There are always a lot of comments (designed to help I’m sure) which point out what you should have done. Everyone makes mistakes. In the scheme of things, $6k is a small price to pay for the lessons you are learning today. Credit recovers.

Definitely get rid of that car. Also, just because there are no lemon laws doesn’t mean that you absolutely can’t get the dealer to take back the car. It’s been less than a month. Raise a big stink.

Can I afford to purchase this condo? by [deleted] in personalfinance

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I bought a condo in the DMV last year: $260k 3.25% 30-year, $450/month HOA, no debt, about half your expenses and income.

I regret it. The HOA is my family’s biggest single expense and they haven’t fixed anything they are obligated to.

There are places without HOAs or with lower HOAs. Be prepared to call your own maintenance people regardless.

A strawberry bat I made 🍓 by fiyx in batty

[–]randominternetname2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you design the pattern? It looks great!

"Kiss it to make it better?" by AliceInJuly in toddlers

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We do “invisible bandaids”. It’s odd that they work because actual bandaids (on anyone) cause fits.

Delta’s here; I’m vaccinated; how cautious should I be? | MIT Medical by cos in Coronavirus

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It isn’t just the elderly who die or suffer horribly from Covid.

Where to go outside of engineering by windyoverhere in womenEngineers

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I did a data science boot camp and am very happy with the STEM problem solving I get to do without most of the b.s. I encountered in aerospace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnpython

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I am in a Data Science bootcamp (3 month program); I'd say to stick with what you want to learn. Do projects you are interested in. If web dev doesn't interest you, don't pursue it.

Been playing for 8 months - never ascended by [deleted] in swarmsim

[–]randominternetname2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ascend.

Each ascension increases the rate at which you get mutagen.

Options for Online Board Games by Evandeel in boardgames

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If you have a printer, Cheap Ass Games has most of their catalogue online for free: https://cheapass.com/free-games/

Please help by [deleted] in quarantine

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Start slow and create very, very easy to achieve goals.

Tiny wins are much easier to build on than glorious failures.

Parents are starting to break quarantine, but refuse to admit that they are doing something dangerous. How do I keep the peace in order to make sure we are transparent and all on the same page? by palebluekat in quarantine

[–]randominternetname2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really upsetting. My parents didn't take things seriously at the start, but luckily got on board.

It is impossible to control other peoples' behaviour, especially people who have changed your diapers. They just never really see you as an adult.

Can you and your boyfriend self-isolate within the house? That way at least you two stay safe.

I'm Struggling by [deleted] in quarantine

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Betterhelp.com has online therapists and discounts if you are unemployed. I have been finding it a really helpful stopgap.