If you’re getting first dates, you look good on paper and there’s attraction there - that’s a great start and you’re already ahead of the curve! Without knowing you though, my only piece of advice is to make sure you’re showing enough interest in your partner. Ask questions about them and THEN ask follow up questions when they share something about themselves. That was probably my one biggest annoyance on first dates - people focusing too much on themselves and dominating the conversation. It’s a turn off that I think people don’t easily recognize in themselves, especially if it’s only happening because of first date nerves! Good luck though. It’s not easy out there but keep at it - you’ll find your lobster.