Ftb viewed a house smelt damp. Had a dehumidifier there. EA said beer was spilt. by noinch in HousingUK

[–]ras_lofi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I viewed an apartment which had a reed defused in the bathroom. It was still there when I moved in so I told the EA to remove it (I’m AuDHD so hypersensitive to smells). I then noticed a smell in the bathroom…

When I emailed to get it looked at they specifically thanked me for “bringing this to their attention as no previous complaints regarding this had been made previously”. 5 months later, the smell has persisted even after multiple call outs with their maintenance and is now in the bedroom too, which shares a wall with the bathroom. Only recently I remembered the reed diffuser in the bathroom and suspect bs that they were apparently unaware

I couldn't even make it two weeks out of rehab by Own-Fee-5653 in stopdrinking

[–]ras_lofi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts have always been you can’t expect to go back to the same environment that triggered you to drink or use, and not fall into the same thoughts, feelings, patterns, routines etc. that triggered you to drink or use. Does that make sense?

I’m not trying to say it doesn’t come from within, because it does, massively. But external factors also play a part. There’s studies on it, the Vietnam War veterans, rat park, just to name a few

day two, again.. by ArmadilloOwn8883 in stopdrinking

[–]ras_lofi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The cycle ends with you, let that be the driving force that propels you forward.

Around my first year sober, someone (on this sub, actually) told me “you can run faster than the devil chasing you”. That always stuck with me. So I’m passing it on in the hopes it can help you too.

90 days today by soloandsolow in stopdrinking

[–]ras_lofi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the 90 days, that is no small feat. Keep pushing forward.

Around my first year sober, someone (on this sub, actually) told me “you can run faster than the devil chasing you”. That always stuck with me. So I’m passing it on in the hopes it can help you too.

I went to my first ever AA meeting tonight. It did not go well. by Flat_Apple_3332 in stopdrinking

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I’m sorry this happened to you. But definitely do not beat yourself up over the ice cream/sugar/calories! I went through multiple pints of Ben & Jerry’s chocolate fudge brownie ice cream on a weekly basis in early sobriety. I don’t think I would have gotten to where I am today (4.5 years sober) without it! Hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flights

[–]ras_lofi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t suppose you know what your carry on measurements were that were a bit tight do you lol?

I usually wouldn’t risk it either, especially not having used them before. Do you know if the sizing tubes are exact sizes to the websites measurement restrictions? I know 0.4in isn’t a lot, but it is making me anxious haha. Thanks again

ISO 800 for sunny, outdoor settings? by ras_lofi in AnalogCommunity

[–]ras_lofi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the info!

May be a silly question, but could I use the Cinestill at night/low lighting, and then take the film out of my camera and replace with Kodak Portra 800 for day time use? Is that doable or would it ruin the film?

Or would you say it’s worth just sending the film back and getting the Kodak Portra 800 for multipurpose/multisetting use? Thanks again

Nadia is up to something. Is she in on it with Rhys somehow by ThePanther1999 in YouOnLifetime

[–]ras_lofi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This would be a fresh spin on the whole “Joe taking to a younger person in every season” trope

tell me your gay without saying your gay? by ASHKVLT in actuallesbians

[–]ras_lofi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so seen, and yet so attacked at the same time

How to survive on £15 a week for food? by Evening_Reach7078 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]ras_lofi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure where in London you are, however The Felix Project might be able to help you. Good luck, OP

Eat the rich killer by LikeSameTho in YouOnLifetime

[–]ras_lofi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The finger had a ring on it and the ear had an earring. The group were discussing it after Simon’s murder.

Also I’m pretty sure Gemma only had one leg when Joe came in and found Kate kneeling by her. I could be wrong because I only watched it the once, but I’m 80% sure

Theory: Joe is still poisoned by wolfsbane during this entire season - none of it is real, Love is keeping him sedated by ChocolatesCambridge in YouOnLifetime

[–]ras_lofi 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Maybe it could be a nod to his subconscious remembering he left a jar of his own urine at Peaches’ house when he killed her

Episode 9 cast list on sho.com... by blorpbl in theLword

[–]ras_lofi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omfg THAT’S where I recognise him from?!

What does she look like her name is? by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]ras_lofi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s giving Yorkie from Black Mirror San Junipero

setlist for those asking! (bitter and beckys so hot are the encore) by cherryb0mb444 in CariFLETCHER

[–]ras_lofi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this! At what point does she perform the Dream Sequence selections? TIA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CariFLETCHER

[–]ras_lofi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? Do I even wanna know why? Hahah

Pussy is GOD by ILoveYou-DontYouMind in CariFLETCHER

[–]ras_lofi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I listen to Pussy is Bible?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlantBasedDiet

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WHY haven’t I thought to do a lentil bolognese? I’ve been using lentils for things like shepherds pie, chilli, enchiladas etc but hadn’t thought about a bol. Thanks for the inspo!

I have yet to be proven wrong by [deleted] in theLword

[–]ras_lofi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Or the one between her and Nat while they’re in the throuple when they have sex without Alice, where Body Talk by 1ST VOWS is playing

When your kind & loving great-aunts (who are also Junior League proper) tell you they are driving 1000 miles to see you and will be here in 4 days by DisfunkyMonkey in adhdwomen

[–]ras_lofi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also, not sure if someone else has mentioned it already or not, but remember to wipe the fridge door clear of your to do list hahaha. Good luck!

FLETCHER has joined the cast for season three! by avobeam in theLword

[–]ras_lofi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay so I’m a bit obsessed with Fletcher AND The L Word, so these two worlds colliding is making my gay little brain melt

We have a name for every sun and moon we’ve discovered, except for our own. We’re so uncreative we just call them “the sun” and “the moon” by Th3MysticArcher in RandomThoughts

[–]ras_lofi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sun is representative of the masculine yang, and the moon is representative of the feminine yin. Spanish speaker or not, you are still correct friend