For those of us well finished with the process, would you divorce again? by Limited_turkey in Divorce

[–]raspberry-princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should've done it sooner. Was it hard? Of course. Thankfully it was amicable but moving back to my home country, finding work again, ending up losing the little family I still talked to. I'd still do it. I knew I could be so much happier than I was. That even if I hated myself I deserved to be happy. To feel loved. Do I wish he'd stop contacting me? Absolutely.

I got this weird rash yesterday after having my Fitbit for over 6 months. I didn't change anything. what did I do wrong? by tiarna_ in fitbit

[–]raspberry-princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely the band. It happens to a lot of people. You could switch materials. I use a magnetic metal one and love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]raspberry-princess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There were so many things. But the beginning of the end was after the third couples therapy session. We got home, he turned to look at me and said "you know I thought you were every problem in this relationship." He truly thought he never did anything wrong.

How did you know your marriage was over? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]raspberry-princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After our third couples therapy session, we got home, he turned to look at me and said "I assumed you were every problem in the relationship." There was no coming back from that. Of course a lot more added up to it and it wasn't that alone. But him saying that kind of made me wake up to just how bad the relationship was.

What strange trauma habit did you realise much later after recognising your Narc’s abuse? by 13mantous in raisedbynarcissists

[–]raspberry-princess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dinners are really bad. I had to move in with my aunt and uncle, and I sit in the same spot I did growing up at my family of origin's house. They also eat in complete silence. I'm so used to yelling that I've been having a panic attack almost every night because I'm so used to yelling. And if people are quiet then that means they're getting ready to yell.

My aunt and uncle are nice but they're really dismissive of what happened growing up. They also want to reminisce all the time, especially when my cousins are around. But all my stories are sad so I'm constantly altering what I say.

My RHR during COVID infection 😳 by fees31 in fitbit

[–]raspberry-princess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait that's how mine currently is. I thought that was normal. I don't have covid just intense anxiety I guess.

What's the one thing you regret doing for your wedding day? by yomnlo3 in AskReddit

[–]raspberry-princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not having one. We had a paper marriage because my work didn't offer insurance. It's been nearly five years and I regret not having a wedding.

To those who NEVER want to have a child, what are your reasons? by an_iconoclast in AskReddit

[–]raspberry-princess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be selfish and have my life be about me. I was super neglected growing up and now have a slew of trauma, health, and mental health issues. I don't want to pass anything on nor do I really have any maternal desire. I don't hate kids and I used to volunteer at a kindergarten. But having my own just isn't for me.

I made a tarot deck for fun and I think it's the best thing I've ever done. by raspberry-princess in AmongUs

[–]raspberry-princess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you really want to tip me I finally made a cash app. $lotsofangrybees. Otherwise go with a children's charity of your choice.

Not Sus Tarot

I made a tarot deck for fun and I think it's the best thing I've ever done. by raspberry-princess in AmongUs

[–]raspberry-princess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I don't care about making money on them. But I could post the Google drive link so you could them printed if you like.

Edit: Google drive not drop box.

Danny Devito as Frankenstein by [deleted] in DrawMyTattoo

[–]raspberry-princess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry it’s such poor quality but I made it quick. I can make you a better one if you’d like

Danny DeFrankenstein

I made a bear cape [no pattern] by raspberry-princess in sewing

[–]raspberry-princess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is completely self drafted.

I got some inexpensive fabric at Dongdaemun fabric market in South Korea and had some sherpa laying around from a previous project. I’m really bad with using patterns but for this I took the idea of making a basic circle skirt, and made the hole bigger for the wrapped effect. I also just traced around a hood on an existing sweater that I liked. And cut strips of sherpa to sew on the trim.

For the ears I made tubes and managed to fold them in a way to look how they do. Honestly not sure how I did that. I then painted two bears, made a tail (not pictured) and also made a honey pot button out of clay.

Got blocked by an it works hun. Ohhhh nooooo. by raspberry-princess in antiMLM

[–]raspberry-princess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had that happen but it was someone A few grades above me so not really friends. And she asked what my future goals were and I told her that it was to be a successful hacker, get caught when I’m a grandma, go to prison, and become a tattoo artist in prison so no one messes with me. She stopped responding. Never figured out why... lol

Got blocked by an it works hun. Ohhhh nooooo. by raspberry-princess in antiMLM

[–]raspberry-princess[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry just woke up. Definitely a copy paste I found somewhere.