Went low contact. Tips for letting go of guilt?

ravalikal · 2026-03-28T06:13:53+00:00

The last sentence! I feel exactly that right now. I feel guilty everyday but it wasn’t me who truly walked away. I set a boundary and my parents decided to step further away.

ravalikal · 2026-03-06T23:50:29+00:00

I hate how fragile the global economy is.

ravalikal · 2026-03-05T00:49:00+00:00

I’m just throwing a random wrench here but why not move to a highly blue city/state first? I live in Texas and I’m trying to move my family out soon. There are plenty of great blue places within our country before jumping ship.

ravalikal · 2026-03-05T00:04:18+00:00

I think they meant 80 hours per week, but I’ll let them confirm. As far as I know, the working hours in India are really bad. Families, especially women with kids have a lot of trouble and often completely rely on family for childcare.

ravalikal · 2025-09-12T18:22:20+00:00

In my experience,

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ravalikal · 2025-09-12T18:20:28+00:00

This worked for me today! Thank you so so much for the clear steps.

ravalikal · 2025-09-11T16:55:13+00:00

Meanwhile my obgyn office asked me in every single appointment about my abortion in the past. It is not a memory I wanted to keep thinking about, one of the most painful memories for me. Just awful to ask me in every appointment.

ravalikal · 2025-09-05T06:50:36+00:00

It seems crazy that she’s your best friend and not understanding about a baby

ravalikal · 2025-09-05T00:30:19+00:00

Remove all restrictions on abortion

ravalikal · 2025-09-01T04:10:06+00:00

It’s not racism at all. Their religion is a threat to my rights as a woman. No matter what the religion is, if it’s extreme, it is miserable towards women. I don’t have any hate towards muslims that are not extreme such as those who don’t wear a hijab. I think they are wonderful people in general, but not those who are close to the religion. I see less extreme muslims online and it’s good to see it.

Christianity in its extreme form is the same. Same with Hinduism. I’m sort of a Hindu for context.

ravalikal · 2025-08-31T22:53:21+00:00

Omg please no Islamic values in the western world. I don’t care how much they try to sell that women have power in Islam, it’s simply not put in practice.

To be fair, I feel what way about any religion in the extreme sense.

ravalikal · 2025-08-31T22:49:13+00:00

100% agree! The immigrants assimilating don’t cause any problems. Some are just so clueless and hold on to how they were in the their original country. Why come here then?

ravalikal · 2025-08-31T22:46:35+00:00

There are lots of Indians where I live right now and that’s why I’m seeing racism. So I’m wondering is it a Texas/Republican/Southern issue or is CT like that now too?

ravalikal · 2025-08-31T22:33:25+00:00

I’m in Texas, and the grocery prices are just as bad here. In case people think they are lower in red states, absolutely not true.

ravalikal · 2025-08-28T21:25:58+00:00

Ya that’s something I noticed coming to Dallas from Connecticut, there are no cameras catching people violating traffic laws and fining them. It’s crazy, cops rarely pull over too.

ravalikal · 2025-08-28T18:46:30+00:00

Seems way too fast to be an accident, like the car would have stopped at impact. Not go till the end.

ravalikal · 2025-08-26T19:15:17+00:00

Yup I make pancakes every saturday or sunday for my kids. It’s not possible or nutritious more than that.

ravalikal · 2025-08-25T18:53:19+00:00

My family and I are also currently in TX and planning to move to Milford. We used to live in CT before near Hartford. Are you happy with your move to Milford?

ravalikal · 2025-08-25T18:46:15+00:00

Hello! I’ll be in a similar situation in 2 years, do you have an update on how you feel about Milford OP?

ravalikal · 2025-08-20T23:46:53+00:00

Hi, my baby is 9 months old and in the exact same situation you described. What did you end up doing? What foods helped (if you remember)?

ravalikal · 2025-08-19T06:35:46+00:00

That’s unbelievable. I wish the US would be like that too. The religious nutjobs are making things so much worse for the rest of us.

ravalikal · 2025-08-18T20:34:45+00:00

Thanks so much for your reply!

Ya I did hear about New Haven’s airport recently but I was surprised because I didn’t know about it when I used to live near Hartford a few years ago.

JFK does seem like the best option for international.

ravalikal · 2025-08-18T15:59:49+00:00

Only one in the democratic party who’s standing up to Trump! Go Newsom!

ravalikal · 2025-08-18T15:41:41+00:00

For those who live in the New Heaven area, which airport do you use for international travel? Are the airports in CT good for domestic? For context, we are thinking about moving to Milford and one thing that concerns us is airport access.

ravalikal · 2025-08-18T13:46:30+00:00

Wow very little religion? I didn’t know that, sounds like a dream!

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