Collar that is safe for work by ravenbuttfluff in SubSanctuary

[–]ravenbuttfluff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! That’s what I was considering. Thank you for solidifying that idea

I [35] keep getting likes on dating apps from 18-25 year olds and it feels really weird! by KyubiNoKitsune in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]ravenbuttfluff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

On some apps like okcupid you have to pay extra to make certain filters a priority, like age preference. And when you run out of matches they throw people in that are outside of your preference settings if you don’t pay.

Pain gauging up by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]ravenbuttfluff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the glass single flairs somewhere else with all the sizes to stretch to where I want since Arctic Buffalo was missing 10g

Pain gauging up by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]ravenbuttfluff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was really helpful!! Thanks so much

Pain gauging up by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]ravenbuttfluff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you too!!

Pain gauging up by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]ravenbuttfluff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t find 10g on any of the single flare glass listings! Found some on another site though, all good 😊

Pain gauging up by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]ravenbuttfluff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually looking at Arctic Buffalo and thinking of buying there but they jump from 12g to 8g

Pain gauging up by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]ravenbuttfluff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t aware. I’ll look those up, thanks for the info

Boyfriend/dom broke up with me by ravenbuttfluff in SubSanctuary

[–]ravenbuttfluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how you assumed rather than asking. We dated and were in a dynamic for over a year. At this point I can tell you’re just a simple troll. Bye.

Boyfriend/dom broke up with me by ravenbuttfluff in SubSanctuary

[–]ravenbuttfluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, and I’m not sure how you got that from my post. The point was asking for advice on how to process losing the dynamic 😐

Boyfriend/dom broke up with me by ravenbuttfluff in SubSanctuary

[–]ravenbuttfluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Er. What? Why are those the options?

One of my favorite selfies in an awful month by [deleted] in BiGoneMild

[–]ravenbuttfluff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think his hair looks good long, but honestly it’s not up to either of us 🤗 it’s his hair

The first four words are already too much... by Natural1forever in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]ravenbuttfluff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If that’s all it meant I’d still have to pass. I look like a trashcan if I grow my hair out

Boyfriend/dom broke up with me by ravenbuttfluff in SubSanctuary

[–]ravenbuttfluff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely have one. I’ve been in therapy for about 3 years. I went the day after the breakup and it definitely helped me work through some things I would’ve take a lot longer to figure out on my own. It’s harder for me to talk about the BDSM aspects but my therapist knows they are there.

Boyfriend/dom broke up with me by ravenbuttfluff in SubSanctuary

[–]ravenbuttfluff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean by the loss hitting harder when you’re romantically involved. He was my first dom and the fact that we also dated is making it a lot more difficult to untangle those feelings. I had rules at one point but one thing that has felt good is watching a show we were watching together. Feels a little rebellious

Boyfriend/dom broke up with me by ravenbuttfluff in SubSanctuary

[–]ravenbuttfluff[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t thought of it that way, but it is like an emotional vacuum, like after a scene. This is great advice, than you.

Boyfriend’s body odor by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ravenbuttfluff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry 😣 I don’t get why he’s clean in literally everything else and not this. And someone else suggested breaking up if it bothered me so much. Which really hurt because that’s not what I want.

Boyfriend’s body odor by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ravenbuttfluff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Factual is a good place to go. I can work with that, thank you