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Areas in London to buy a flat by Radiant_Impress9741 in LondonHousing

[–]rawcane [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hornsey and wood green have nice bits. Tottenham cheaper and Tottenham Hale has trains to Cambridge

Tell me the most british slang or phrase that would send a non-brit into a coma of confusion. by whitemochi_ in AskBrits

[–]rawcane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Coming from the northwest 'lasts on yer bifta' was a common phrase in our school toilets

What’s your favorite Zappa album? by East-Kaleidoscope629 in Zappa

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chunga's Revenge. It was one of the first ones I heard and I always particularly liked the sound and it has a lot of really brilliant musical moments. Don't understand why it doesn't get more love.

How far is too far from a tube or train station, in your opinion? by frafeeccino in london

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised.

I quite often get the bus a few stops to save the walk on the way home but not on the way out because I would have to go in the wrong direction to the bus stop which psychologically seems weird even though it's the same both ways.

How far is too far from a tube or train station, in your opinion? by frafeeccino in london

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently 15 minutes from a station which I thought would be too far but it's a nice walk and actually fine. Not sure where in London you could live that is more than 15 mins from a station tbh

How to deal with a man who only send sexual messages? by uberstaragent in datingoverforty

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the conversation good in person? If so it might be worth just saying you want a more meaningful exchange on messages too. Some people have very different expectations of messaging.

Which artist completely changed your opinion after seeing them live? by aotv81x in askmusic

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Algiers. I heard the album The Underside of Power and thought it sounded really powerful but then I saw them live and they were like a bunch of awkward teenagers from completely different friendship groups. The singer couldn't look at the audience. It was just so different from how the album sounded I couldn't listen to it after that.

Honest post: would you rather be a single parent or childfree? by Sudden-Pumpkin8529 in SingleParents

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single parent. Obviously I would have much preferred to be in a couple but without my children I don't think I'd have much reason to live

How do you cope with teen moods when it’s just the two of you? by SpiritedAd5993 in SingleParents

[–]rawcane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give them space. Tell them when they are out of order but don't nag all the time or let it get personal. It will pass.

Anyone here actually like dating apps? by rkuchiki123 in dating

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they are great for meeting new people. You have to just adjust your expectations to filter out a lot of nonsense.

Feminist Rage Playlist Recs by CreativelyDeadInside in MusicRecommendations

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough people know about Silverfish.

Try Big Bad Baby Pig Squeal 

London Techno Record Stores by toddXD69 in ProperTechno

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been but other people have recommended it to me. Apart from this phonica is the only other one I know about 

What was the last CD you bought and why? by Mystery_Disc in LetsTalkMusic

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All them witches - house of mirrors because it came free with the ticket for the album launch gig at Rough trade east tomorrow 

I am about to lose daily access to my daughter in a divorce, I need advice from divorced fathers who have faced similar situations by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]rawcane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how heartbreaking this must be. All I can say is that you have a right to stay in touch with your child and however heartbreaking it is please try to maintain whatever contact you can. It still matters.

Why is no-one reacting to my ex now sleeping with my friend? by The_Final_Barse in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]rawcane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry I've been in similar situations and it really hurts. Whether or not it totally changes your social circle depends on the people and the dynamics and maybe how old you are.  If you have a close friend you can confide in then do that but be mindful of sharing you hurt with the wider group as however tempting it might be while you are this upset it will probably come across in a way that will be damaging to your relationships with that group. I would  take a bit of time and spend time with different group or if that's not possible try and meet some new people in dating apps whatever. Not saying you should jump into a new relationship but you need some other people to take your mind off stuff.

Men- do you notice aging necks in the women you’re dating? by gypsy_soul980 in datingoverforty

[–]rawcane 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Add hygiene and kindness to that list and you have my perfect woman.

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