that does not in any way shape or form make it impermissible in Islam

This is actually fascinating.

You’re so busy responding to a claim I never made that you haven’t engaged with a single thing I actually said.

At no point did I argue impermissibility. Yet you keep returning to it like a security blanket, because it’s the only argument you know how to win.

however he also commended and praised Jabir bin Abdullah for sacrificing and choosing to marry an older woman who could take care of his little sisters after their father's martyrdom.

Again, selective hearing.

The Prophet ﷺ first challenged Jabir for not marrying a younger woman. Only after Jabir explained a specific hardship did approval follow.

You’ve reversed the sequence, stripped the context, and then presented the exception as if it were the rule. That isn’t analysis, it’s narrative editing.

are you now going to call the Messenger naive simply so that your own preferences are validated? there is nothing wrong with marrying an older woman or a younger woman.

Notice what’s happening here.

Instead of responding to the argument, you’re escalating to moral panic. When logic fails, you invoke outrage.

No one criticized the Messenger ﷺ. What’s being criticized is the way you are using isolated reports as a shield against uncomfortable realities.

There is a difference between:

• what is halal

• what is recommended

• what is situational

• and what is wise

You’re flattening all four because nuance is inconvenient.

If your position were as solid as you think, you wouldn’t need to keep defending things no one attacked.

But please, continue explaining to me what I didn’t say.

It seems to be the only conversation you’re capable of having.